Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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She replied but it was some generic shyt. I'm sticking to this No-contact diet.

It's hard tho. She the only one I wanna talk to



Wit her bytch ass:scust:

The generic reply was a female shyt test.

She is used to you being clingy and was caught off guard by the fact you didnt follow up the first text with a couple others. She expected you to be blowing her phone up.

She sent that generic "hey" message in the hopes that you get your hopes again and get excited. When you text her back she wont respond once again. She just wanted just one last quick attention from you to feed herself.

if there is a 3rd instance for this this is when she will bring out the "get a hint" or "can you stop texting me?...thanks" "lose my number" lines will come out/




Now if you dont respond to that text with the generic message, if you run into each other in public she will give you a fake "hey"
 

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The generic reply was a female shyt test.

She is used to you being clingy and was caught off guard by the fact you didnt follow up the first text with a couple others. She expected you to be blowing her phone up.

She sent that generic "hey" message in the hopes that you get your hopes again and get excited. When you text her back she wont respond once again. She just wanted just one last quick attention from you to feed herself.

if there is a 3rd instance for this this is when she will bring out the "get a hint" or "can you stop texting me?...thanks" "lose my number" lines will come out/




Now if you dont respond to that text with the generic message, if you run into each other in public she will give you a fake "hey"
I'm supposed to know all of this being a woman. :scust:

Imma be by her house Saturday looking fly cuz I'm hanging with her sister and cousin. Imma pay her dust and see how she react.
 
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What if EVERYTHING else with the person is on point and that's the only thing you differ on?? :lupe:

Are you the non-drinker and non-weed smoker? If you are the non-drinker and non-weed smoker. I would have to be inclined to ask you why don’t you smoke or drink. Um, is it a moral stance or is it just a mere preference?
 

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its not that hard.

you're in the library and see somebody who doesnt look like she's studying too hard: ask if the seat beside them is taken. look at what books theyre reading and shyt...ask them how that class is

you're waiting for a bus and see some girl waiting as well, walk up to her and ask how long she's been waiting/if she knows when the next ones coming. use that to transition into a deeper talk. How are you feeling your classes so far? How was your summer? etc.

See a girl eating lunch alone...sit down beside em and ask what they eatin for lunch...say that it smells good...make a joke about how your lunch is trash and how next time she needs to bring you some of what she's got. All this shyt may sound corny but it works. Even if they seem resistant at first just tell em to ease up.

shyt is really really easy during school. I didnt know how to approach women until like my 3rd year but once i figured it out it was simple.

Dont be afraid to plant seeds either instead of aggresively getting the number right away...chances are youll see the girl again and because you werent so thirsty but just friendly youll look that much better
thanks but I done that before to some.

I have gotten put in friend zone(not said or stated by them but they end upp having bfs and I can tell they just see me as a friend)

and two have given me the "I got a bf" rejection. tho when I think about It I think my problem is how I deliever it, I think I come across as a easy guy to read and some girls can easily pick that up.

but still thanks for advice.
 

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thanks but I done that before to some.

I have gotten put in friend zone(not said or stated by them but they end upp having bfs and I can tell they just see me as a friend)

and two have given me the "I got a bf" rejection. tho when I think about It I think my problem is how I deliever it, I think I come across as a easy guy to read and some girls can easily pick that up.

but still thanks for advice.
doesnt matter. that rejection is part of the game. all im saying is open your mouth and talk to these bytches. we cant tell you anything special to say thats gonna always work. its as simple as trial and error


a girl doesnt care how easy you are to read if she finds you attractive and thinks you might be cool
 

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doesnt matter. that rejection is part of the game. all im saying is open your mouth and talk to these bytches. we cant tell you anything special to say thats gonna always work. its as simple as trial and error


a girl doesnt care how easy you are to read if she finds you attractive and thinks you might be cool
gotcha

thanks bruh:obama:
 

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Are you the non-drinker and non-weed smoker? If you are the non-drinker and non-weed smoker. I would have to be inclined to ask you why don’t you smoke or drink. Um, is it a moral stance or is it just a mere preference?
I drink but don't smoke. She drinks and smokes. Really it's just a personal preference for me. Girls who I've casually dated who smoked never really bothered me. But if I'm really feeling a chick I can't say it's a dealbreaker but there's something about it that makes me a little off.
 
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I drink but don't smoke. She drinks and smokes. Really it's just a personal preference for me. Girls who I've casually dated who smoked never really bothered me. But if I'm really feeling a chick I can't say it's a dealbreaker but there's something about it that makes me a little off.
Hmmm, okay. Well, if the weed smoking just throws you off a little bit. In the long run, there’s a good chance that you will no longer want to put up with her smoking. You would probably grow tired of it after a while.
 

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I set myself up brehs:francis:
Never put all your eggs in one basket :francis:
We've all made that mistake breh.

I always had the monogamous mindset, where even if I'm not in a relationship I'd only talk to one girl..... Just sets you up for failure. If she doesn't text back/call back right away, you start stressing out..... then as much as you start to play it cool, you start displaying needy behavior and/or start validating her too much.. and poof she's gone.

Gotta talk to multiple women breh......

One of them doesn't reply back to your texts? Cool, you got 2-3 other girls to set something up with

One of them can't see you this Saturday? Cool, you got 2-3 other girls willing to go out with you.

And here's the kicker..... girls have this sixth sense and can tell when you're talking to other girls. You subconsciously will give off vibes or say certain things that will let them know that yeah, you got options. And that's an attractive trait. Women want men who are coveted by other women.

I've been out on dates before with women and they can hear my phone vibrating through my pants from a text or call.... and it gets their mind wondering. "Who's calling?" "Is it his mom?" "Is he talking to other women??"
 

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gotcha

thanks bruh:obama:


Yup, just realize you not going to bag every woman - and that's fine. But don't be afraid of rejection, it comes with the territory. Once you over that fear, litteraly the world is yours. It took me a while as well, but when I realized that just starting a nice respectable conversation with a female is a game changer.
 

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Kicking myself in the ass for texting her when I knew DAMN well I shouldn't have.

She got my number. She lives a 10 minute walk from me.

If she wanted to talk to me, she would.
:mjcry:

Putting myself on STRICT no-contact diet from now on.




'Wit my clingy ass :scust:
:mjlol: this hoe crying over white bytches
dyke lame ass broad c00n
 
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