Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Lo-Co]

I was in ur same position, but then I reactivated, posted flicks of myself.

Now quality p*ssy (and ugly bytches yuck) literally fallin in my lap.

Hmm. one day I'll swing by.​

 

[Mr210]

Question

Last night I asked for this girls number and she gave it to me, should I text her today? If so during the day or this evening?

 

[DJSmooth]

Question

Last night I asked for this girls number and she gave it to me, should I text her today? If so during the day or this evening?

I would say around noon or around 1 today.

If she responds don't be talking to the broad all day.

Say what you got to say then try to meet up with her later this week. Then cut off contact till yall meet in person.

 

[MikelArteta]

cut her off now , that grass is greener syndrome will lead you to destruction

i’ve been with my girl for a year but can’t get my mind off this one chick who’s been hitting me up lately… before anything came between us, she was like my best friend (like the one i used to run and talk to when me and girl was having problems.) she used to say it would be okay, suggest the nice things i should do… but when i run home at night and lay my head down all i seem to think about is her.

what’s bad is she the one that hooked us up when i knew it shoulda been her in the first place. and it's sad cuz i think i love my girl but i’m definitely falling for my friend.

at this point the situation’s outta control. don’t want to hurt my girl... i don’t need to stay... but i really need help getting it together, brehs.

 

[Mr210]

I would say around noon or around 1 today.

If she responds don't be talking to the broad all day.

Say what you got to say then try to meet up with her later this week. Then cut off contact till yall meet in person.

Thanks, I'm going to refrain from now on texting broads throughout out the day like I did with the last one

 

[Bless't]

The reason is sometimes we like a girl so much that we unfortunately respect em. That respect causes us to not prey the way we're supposed to. Instead we become cautious, accommodative and shyt so as to not ruffle any feathers and fukk what we believe could be a good potential relationship up.

It's happened to me as well. I'll meet a girl, the vibe is amazing, conversations are great and I think to myself this girls feeling me, i'm feeling her ...I will get the p*ssy when the time is right. Before we know it, the girl starts taking long to respond to messages, gives us some bullshyt about being busy, or straight ghosts and we're left wondering what happened. Sometimes theres nothing you can do though. You could play the situation perfectly and have the same thing happen. Just speaking from experience. Girls are very fickle...thats all it comes down to.

So true.

 

[Neuromancer]

@TRUEST do you think being in a relationship is a good or bad thing?

 

[havoc]

The reason is sometimes we like a girl so much that we unfortunately respect em. That respect causes us to not prey the way we're supposed to. Instead we become cautious, accommodative and shyt so as to not ruffle any feathers and fukk what we believe could be a good potential relationship up.

It's happened to me as well. I'll meet a girl, the vibe is amazing, conversations are great and I think to myself this girls feeling me, i'm feeling her ...I will get the p*ssy when the time is right. Before we know it, the girl starts taking long to respond to messages, gives us some bullshyt about being busy, or straight ghosts and we're left wondering what happened. Sometimes theres nothing you can do though. You could play the situation perfectly and have the same thing happen. Just speaking from experience. Girls are very fickle...thats all it comes down to.

Breh, you just reflected my dating life in my early twenties in one post.

 

[havoc]

Never tell a chick about your past sexual exploits

Did you told her everything ?

 

[Ohene]

Breh, you just reflected my dating life in my early twenties in one post.

shyt will probably happen to me forever. For every girl I fukk...theres probably 1 I could, would and should've fukked

 

[TRUEST]

@TRUEST do you think being in a relationship is a good or bad thing?

being in a relationship is an excellent thing. but it can be very bad or should i say it will be very bad if u are with a woman who isn't 100% for you. and by "for you" i mean a woman who holds u as the most important man in her life, besides those in her family of course.

a woman who's 100% doesn't have guy friends that she hangs with or talks about enough to make u jealous. a woman who's for u will wanna be right up under your ass wherever u go. it's a wonderful feeling to have a woman like this. it makes u excel at ur job and almost everything u lay ur hands on. no man is meant to be alone. we're all meant to partner up so our journey in life can be as productive as it was meant to be.

i can make a very long post out of this but really what it boils down to is simple:

1. if you're going to get in a relationship with a woman, make sure shes more into u than u are into her. when u are into a woman more than she's into u, 9 out of 10 times, u will get fuccked.
2. make sure she is of moral character. i've dated girls who thought it was ok to room mate with men, or to have male friends who they hang out with. this isn't a behavior of a good woman with home training.
3. make sure she takes care of you. i've dated girls who told me we eat out too much (even though im the one paying). they wanted / preferred to cook me food instead. I had a woman fly across country with me for a job interview. the company paid for my travels, but she came out of pocket to pay for her flight.
4. in other words, dont be the one doing all the giving. a woman doesn't have to spend money on u (if she doesn't have it). she can cook, she can clean. she can do all sorts of things to show she's really about u. she can choose to do boring things with u than to go partying it up with her wild friends.
5. if ur dating a girl and she does anything that makes u uncomfortable or question her loyalty, take it serious. ur gut instinct is there to protect u. listen to it

 

[Mr210]

being in a relationship is an excellent thing. but it can be very bad or should i say it will be very bad if u are with a woman who isn't 100% for you. and by "for you" i mean a woman who holds u as the most important man in her life, besides those in her family of course.

a woman who's 100% doesn't have guy friends that she hangs with or talks about enough to make u jealous. a woman who's for u will wanna be right up under your ass wherever u go. it's a wonderful feeling to have a woman like this. it makes u excel at ur job and almost everything u lay ur hands on. no man is meant to be alone. we're all meant to partner up so our journey in life can be as productive as it was meant to be.

i can make a very long post out of this but really what it boils down to is simple:

1. if you're going to get in a relationship with a woman, make sure shes more into u than u are into her. when u are into a woman more than she's into u, 9 out of 10 times, u will get fuccked.
2. make sure she is of moral character. i've dated girls who thought it was ok to room mate with men, or to have male friends who they hang out with. this isn't a behavior of a good woman with home training.
3. make sure she takes care of you. i've dated girls who told me we eat out too much (even though im the one paying). they wanted / preferred to cook me food instead. I had a woman fly across country with me for a job interview. the company paid for my travels, but she came out of pocket to pay for her flight.
4. in other words, dont be the one doing all the giving. a woman doesn't have to spend money on u (if she doesn't have it). she can cook, she can clean. she can do all sorts of things to show she's really about u. she can choose to do boring things with u than to go partying it up with her wild friends.
5. if ur dating a girl and she does anything that makes u uncomfortable or question her loyalty, take it serious. ur gut instinct is there to protect u. listen to it

Damn good post

 

[Neuromancer]

being in a relationship is an excellent thing. but it can be very bad or should i say it will be very bad if u are with a woman who isn't 100% for you. and by "for you" i mean a woman who holds u as the most important man in her life, besides those in her family of course.

a woman who's 100% doesn't have guy friends that she hangs with or talks about enough to make u jealous. a woman who's for u will wanna be right up under your ass wherever u go. it's a wonderful feeling to have a woman like this. it makes u excel at ur job and almost everything u lay ur hands on. no man is meant to be alone. we're all meant to partner up so our journey in life can be as productive as it was meant to be.

i can make a very long post out of this but really what it boils down to is simple:

1. if you're going to get in a relationship with a woman, make sure shes more into u than u are into her. when u are into a woman more than she's into u, 9 out of 10 times, u will get fuccked.
2. make sure she is of moral character. i've dated girls who thought it was ok to room mate with men, or to have male friends who they hang out with. this isn't a behavior of a good woman with home training.
3. make sure she takes care of you. i've dated girls who told me we eat out too much (even though im the one paying). they wanted / preferred to cook me food instead. I had a woman fly across country with me for a job interview. the company paid for my travels, but she came out of pocket to pay for her flight.
4. in other words, dont be the one doing all the giving. a woman doesn't have to spend money on u (if she doesn't have it). she can cook, she can clean. she can do all sorts of things to show she's really about u. she can choose to do boring things with u than to go partying it up with her wild friends.
5. if ur dating a girl and she does anything that makes u uncomfortable or question her loyalty, take it serious. ur gut instinct is there to protect u. listen to it

My girl has one male friend they don't talk often as far as I know. She likes cooking for me and she cleaned up my kitchen over the weekend without me asking her. I guess I got someone good.

Anymore jewels?

Do women respect a faithful guy?

 

[TRUEST]

My girl has one male friend they don't talk often as far as I know. She likes cooking for me and she cleaned up my kitchen over the weekend without me asking her. I guess I got someone good.

Anymore jewels?

Do women respect a faithful guy?

do women respect a faithful guy who's faithful because no one else wants him? no.
do women respect a faithful guy who's faithful because he chooses to be? maybe. on the face of it, most do. but subconsciously, they may not.

if i were u, i would keep my self in top condition so she sees the attention im getting from other women. your woman will value u more or feel prouder of u when she sees the way other women thirst over u. if ur a faithful guy, i say stay faithful, especially if u got a good woman. but for ur own future sanity, i strongly recommend, again, keep ur self in top condition so u can find another woman fast should ur girl act up. the way u describe ur girl, sounds unlikely u'll have to worry about this. but if she's attractive, there's no telling what she will do.

when a woman knows she can be easily replaced, when yall fight, the fights wont last past a day or two. because she knows if it goes longer, she'll be allowing a gap for other women to come through.

what i just said applies even more if ur woman is someone attractive. u can bet she's being hit on regularly. and when u have so many dating options, its in human nature to want to give at least one a try.

keep in mind, attractive women are more prone to self-sabotaging of their relationships because they know they can find someone else immediately...unless of course the man they're dating has something that isn't easy to come by...MONEY. u can find men who live in the gym, u can find men who look really good, they're everywhere. good luck finding a man who's pushing a rolls or bentley or a s600.

what would I do in your situation?

given the fact that i know how heartbreak feels and the amount of time it has taken me in the past to get offer a breakup, i would keep women on deck that i can just use as rebound should my main girl act up. for me personally, dating an even hotter girl after a breakup has been proven to help heal a broken heart the fastest. that's just me. others in this thread suggest doing other things. but for me, knowing ive got options helps me keep a level head when dealing with the erratic nature of women.

 

[Neuromancer]

do women respect a faithful guy who's faithful because no one else wants him? no.
do women respect a faithful guy who's faithful because he chooses to be? maybe. on the face of it, most do. but subconsciously, they may not.

if i were u, i would keep my self in top condition so she sees the attention im getting from other women. your woman will value u more or feel prouder of u when she sees the way other women thirst over u. if ur a faithful guy, i say stay faithful, especially if u got a good woman. but for ur own future sanity, i strongly recommend, again, keep ur self in top condition so u can find another woman fast should ur girl act up. the way u describe ur girl, sounds unlikely u'll have to worry about this. but if she's attractive, there's no telling what she will do.

when a woman knows she can be easily replaced, when yall fight, the fights wont last past a day or two. because she knows if it goes longer, she'll be allowing a gap for other women to come through.

what i just said applies even more if ur woman is someone attractive. u can bet she's being hit on regularly. and when u have so many dating options, its in human nature to want to give at least one a try.

keep in mind, attractive women are more prone to self-sabotaging of their relationships because they know they can find someone else immediately...unless of course the man they're dating has something that isn't easy to come by...MONEY. u can find men who live in the gym, u can find men who look really good, they're everywhere. good luck finding a man who's pushing a rolls or bentley or a s600.

what would I do in your situation?

given the fact that i know how heartbreak feels and the amount of time it has taken me in the past to get offer a breakup, i would keep women on deck that i can just use as rebound should my main girl act up. for me personally, dating an even hotter girl after a breakup has been proven to help heal a broken heart the fastest. that's just me. others in this thread suggest doing other things. but for me, knowing ive got options helps me keep a level head when dealing with the erratic nature of women.

I do have a best friend who.was gonna flu me out for a threesome. She's all sorts of cool