Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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A lot of girls that I've been with tell me they want a dude who makes them feel SAFE

Put yourself in a girl's shoes, if they've never met you they don't know if you're a psychopath/rapist..... We don't have that mentality because we're the physically stronger gender.

Having pictures on social media with friends/family shows you're "normal"...... Goes a long way in making a girl safe, so she'll feel at ease in a one on one situation with you.

aka social proof
:yawn:

so were listening to what girls tell us now
 

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he's right though

i've heard my fair share of women spew out nonsense about finding a guy who doesnt use social media attractive or great as well. :manny: Why? Because deep down we all know social media accounts are a facade and cause problems in relationships.

Women contradict themselves all the time so to me all that shyt is irrelevant. If you enjoy social media and your social media accounts are lit...then go ahead and have them. But dont feel a need to create an account just because you think itll make you look safer in the eyes of women. Conformity is rarely a good thing. After all since when is being "safe" a good thing anyways?

At the end of the day if a girl finds you attractive and feels comfortable around you in person that's enough to move forward most of the time.
 

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I had a really good chick on my hands, been dating a few months, but now she saying she don't wanna date no more because she's too busy:to:The first chick in YEARS I've GENUINELY liked and been fascinated by:sadcam: Feeling like DeNiro in Taxi Driver:mjcry:
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Sorry to hear that breh, but we've said this time and time again. Shyt can be going well and they will go ice cold on you out of no where. That's why you should always keep one baddie in the chamber, so when shyt like this happen, it won't hurt as much.
 

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I had a really good chick on my hands, been dating a few months, but now she saying she don't wanna date no more because she's too busy:to:The first chick in YEARS I've GENUINELY liked and been fascinated by:sadcam: Feeling like DeNiro in Taxi Driver:mjcry:

Go non contact. When that other nikka dump her, she gone try to slither back 2 you. Ignore them texts n calls breh.

Had this happen and she came back all :sadbron:

Talking about how she made the biggest mistake, she needs me in her life..etc

Sent about 20 texts and calls on some begging shyt :childplease:

she was real cute and we meshed well but :ufdup:

I never looked back, felt great too. Youll be good brodie
 

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Sorry to hear that breh, but we've said this time and time again. Shyt can be going well and they will go ice cold on you out of no where. That's why you should always keep one baddie in the chamber, so when shyt like this happen, it won't hurt as much.
Thanks breh. I actually do have one the chamber, I'll just need some time to mourn :mjcry:
 

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She came up a little different from me, I guess you could say more "privileged" but she's very down to earth and doesn't flaunt her upbringing. She's very cultured, well read, well traveled. I consider myself those things too but in things a little different from her. We have some interests that overlapped but others that didn't, and those things that made us different interested me.

She works full time, is in grad school, trains people for races, and has friends and family she's extremely close to. I guess I got nixed out the equation :stopitslime:


How did you meet her? Were you all in some type of group setting together and eventually developed a relationship?
 

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A lot of girls that I've been with tell me they want a dude who makes them feel SAFE

Put yourself in a girl's shoes, if they've never met you they don't know if you're a psychopath/rapist..... We don't have that mentality because we're the physically stronger gender.

Having pictures on social media with friends/family shows you're "normal"...... Goes a long way in making a girl safe, so she'll feel at ease in a one on one situation with you.

aka social proof
i hate social media but i dont want to be left in the dust. thats the thing.
 

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I'm back.

Update on this chick..so she said we could fukk. I told her that I wanted more and she kinda blew me off. I hit her up last night with a kiss emoji and she just replied 'lol hey boo'. I know for a fact I can't quit her. I need a face to face which is why I'm currently at her cousin spot she finna be here in like an hour
 

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I'm back.

Update on this chick..so she said we could fukk. I told her that I wanted more and she kinda blew me off. I hit her up last night with a kiss emoji and she just replied 'lol hey boo'. I know for a fact I can't quit her. I need a face to face which is why I'm currently at her cousin spot she finna be here in like an hour

Welcome back.
 

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Weren't you in the free me thread talking bout 'keep her banned?'

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No. I only said you and chief queen remind me of each other. She took that as shade. I didn't even say yall were the same person. Just remind me of each other.
 

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How did you meet her? Were you all in some type of group setting together and eventually developed a relationship?
I was out at a spot on my dolo ish and she was there with her friends. We literally kinda bumped into each other. There was a certain chemistry from jump that I rarely experience. I've probably only had that sort of initial chemistry with someone 2-3 times in my life :noah:We started kicking it and everything was moving really organically and just felt natural.
 

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I was out at a spot on my dolo ish and she was there with her friends. We literally kinda bumped into each other. There was a certain chemistry from jump that I rarely experience. I've probably only had that sort of initial chemistry with someone 2-3 times in my life :noah:We started kicking it and everything was moving really organically and just felt natural.


Ok, well it's kind of something I believe, but randomly running into women rarely seems to work. Seems like it's better to have some type of shared interest you're participating in before you start a relationship with them. It's hard to accept because we are always running into bad ones everyday, but there's just not enough commonality there yet, and you don't really know each other. That initial spark is just part of infatuation. Might even get some sex out of it. But eventually that excitement wears off and if they don't really feel you then it's whatever.
 
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