Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I was out at a spot on my dolo ish and she was there with her friends. We literally kinda bumped into each other. There was a certain chemistry from jump that I rarely experience. I've probably only had that sort of initial chemistry with someone 2-3 times in my life :noah:We started kicking it and everything was moving really organically and just felt natural.

this is how most guys get got. u need to stop repeating that phrase when describing your relations with women. it shows u digging ur own grave at the onset of the relationship. most guys when they like a girl be on some "ooo we really vibed. she was laughing at all my jokes. she likes me." meanwhile, to the girl, you're just another happy ass dude that was doing cartwheels trying to impress her, like the other several guys before u. she might even fucck u, but she'll end up discarding u because u let her know she's the prize.

there's a specific look people have on their face when they're in front of a person they are infatuated with. from ur post, i can tell u had that look. and i can tell that girl knew from jump who was going to be leading the relationship (her).
 

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this is how most guys get got. u need to stop repeating that phrase when describing your relations with women. it shows u digging ur own grave at the onset of the relationship. most guys when they like a girl be on some "ooo we really vibed. she was laughing at all my jokes. she likes me." meanwhile, to the girl, you're just another happy ass dude that was doing cartwheels trying to impress her, like the other several guys before u. she might even fucck u, but she'll end up discarding u because u let her know she's the prize.

there's a specific look people have on their face when they're in front of a person they are infatuated with. from ur post, i can tell u had that look. and i can tell that girl knew from jump who was going to be leading the relationship (her).
Haha, chill yo. When I met her the "vibe" was good but honestly, I never really had much expectation out of the situation for the exact reason your saying.
 

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this is how most guys get got. u need to stop repeating that phrase when describing your relations with women. it shows u digging ur own grave at the onset of the relationship. most guys when they like a girl be on some "ooo we really vibed. she was laughing at all my jokes. she likes me." meanwhile, to the girl, you're just another happy ass dude that was doing cartwheels trying to impress her, like the other several guys before u. she might even fucck u, but she'll end up discarding u because u let her know she's the prize.

there's a specific look people have on their face when they're in front of a person they are infatuated with. from ur post, i can tell u had that look. and i can tell that girl knew from jump who was going to be leading the relationship (her).
:russ: nikka how the fukk did u turn into such a savage. Every damn post u drop is
Knowledge 100% facts

Who did this to you? I know you once had delusions of love like the rest of us
 

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i used to be on some shyt like this
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I legitimately cried but I deleted ol girl number out my phone. It needed to happen. I need to cleanse myself from her. I was really wanting us to be close and best friends but she has other thoughts.

If I see her..I see her. Wish this could've ended up with us in each others arms but sometimes it's not meant to be.
 

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I legitimately cried but I deleted ol girl number out my phone. It needed to happen. I need to cleanse myself from her. I was really wanting us to be close and best friends but she has other thoughts.

If I see her..I see her. Wish this could've ended up with us in each others arms but sometimes it's not meant to be.

That is good for your soul man! Too many women out here. You'll bounce back
 

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My Dad and Uncle came to visit from Ohio bearing gifts.

My uncle took offense that my girl (country from the south) didn't have the crib clean or anything cooked. Wasn't really hospitable.

My Dad told him I've been paying all the bills and keeping the house clean so now my uncle has been giving me advice all week about how I need a partner and not an anchor.

2 years breh :to: but I'm 30 with a good fam and a degree and I can't have a lady that is lazy, messy and has been earning $10/hour for the past 3 years. Plus I'm in Atlanta :wow:

It hurts but it's for the best :sadbron:
 

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My Dad and Uncle came to visit from Ohio bearing gifts.

My uncle took offense that my girl (country from the south) didn't have the crib clean or anything cooked. Wasn't really hospitable.

My Dad told him I've been paying all the bills and keeping the house clean so now my uncle has been giving me advice all week about how I need a partner and not an anchor.

2 years breh :to: but I'm 30 with a good fam and a degree and I can't have a lady that is lazy, messy and has been earning $10/hour for the past 3 years. Plus I'm in Atlanta :wow:

It hurts but it's for the best :sadbron:
uplift her and let her know she also gotta get her shyt together

gotta motivate her to become better and achieve more in life or else she will become overly comfortable with making $10/ an hour while you're busting your ass for more money and promotions for years to come only to have to be paying the bills and mortgage alone :huhldup:
 

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My Dad and Uncle came to visit from Ohio bearing gifts.

My uncle took offense that my girl (country from the south) didn't have the crib clean or anything cooked. Wasn't really hospitable.

My Dad told him I've been paying all the bills and keeping the house clean so now my uncle has been giving me advice all week about how I need a partner and not an anchor.

2 years breh :to: but I'm 30 with a good fam and a degree and I can't have a lady that is lazy, messy and has been earning $10/hour for the past 3 years. Plus I'm in Atlanta :wow:

It hurts but it's for the best :sadbron:
u my friend, have very smart men in your family.
just for my own amusement, what does she do? please dont list anything related to sex.

you pay all the bills or most, when u go out, u pay most of the time, what does she do for you?
 

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uplift her and let her know she also gotta get her shyt together

gotta motivate her to become better and achieve more in life or else she will become overly comfortable with making $10/ an hour while you're busting your ass for more money and promotions for years to come only to have to be paying the bills and mortgage alone :huhldup:
She too old for that

Off with her head
:camby:
 

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Straight from the mouth of a hoe herself...and i aint even mad at her. respect how real she is. Yet dudes will still wife up women like that even when they themselves say they cant respect you if you do... :snoop:

We have a thread on the coli of guys asking if it is okay for a thot to turn her life around and if they deserve love :mjlol:
 

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u my friend, have very smart men in your family.
just for my own amusement, what does she do? please dont list anything related to sex.

you pay all the bills or most, when u go out, u pay most of the time, what does she do for you?
@Biggums this is the 5th time Ive told her to clean up after herself and she keeps promising to change. Even gave her a main closet so i can throw her random items in there when she leaves them out.

@TRUEST she works security and likes her job.

I pay all of the bills. :snoop: She wanted cable and said she would pay but doesnt. She doesnt have a car and never has in the time ive known her. She wrecked my Camry with 30k miles on it (DUI) and my pops bailed her out. The first time my fam met her it was her coming from Dekalb County Jail. :stopitslime:

My Dad had to pay our rent last month cause im maxed out

Did I mention she doesnt give head?
 
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