Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[RealAssanova]

You have to put your foot down with these women. If you give them an inch they will take a mile.

My plan this weekend was not go out to any bars and clubs since I've been turning up heavy for the last few months. So Yesterday the girl I am talking to, we went out to a wine tasting. On the way there my boy hit me up saying his granddad past away and he wanted to get drunk tonight. So I told him let me know when you hit the city so I can come out and make sure you don't get into any trouble. I told the chick the situation and she was cool that I might go out cause of my friend. Fast forward till the evening, the chick started to feel sick for what ever reason and when it was time for me to link up with my friend. She tried to get me to stay in the house with her last night. Fast forward to today; She has ignored my texts and calls. Females are something else when you put your foot down about a situation or when they don't get their way.

I hope to god you deleted her number. Never speak to that vile creatin ever again.

 

[Shadow King]

Cosign to the fullest. Been freestyling thru life...need some help with bars sometimes

Me too...literally

No help with bars though

 

[Mainevent_7]

I hope to god you deleted her number. Never speak to that vile creatin ever again.

I wish it was that easy. We been friends going on like 5 years. I told her when we started talking last month, "it my way or the highway. I'm not like these other dudes you delt with who let you get away with shyt."

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[Youseenmywork]

I really wish i knew my father or had a male father figure

not even when it comes women, but untapped potential...no brag,but people from all walks of life take a liking towards me..i just feel like i sell myself short sometimes

It interesting you say this. My dad and I are coo but my dad is more a beta male than alphas when it comes to women. We will never get along on the topic of women. I say this to say he a good man he's a preacher and just overall what's people to get the best blessing for the Lord Jesus christ.

A lot of this women stuff is because I had mentors and one of them us an ex pimp. Another is my high school counselor. I asked them question about women and even life. My dad dosent seem that Intrested in educating himself about life or just educating himself further in life at times.

A lot of this life I've had to teach myself. My mother isn't crap when it comes to relationships either. My redpill mentality at times and the things I say shockes them at times but I'm do what best for me to survive thoe.

 

[John Reena]

Brehs, how you do you show higher value than a chick that has higher value that you?

Ex:

There's this square chick that I chopped it up with on FB a while back.

-She's got her master's and is currently going for her PhD. I'm still a year away from a bachelor's..

-She makes more $$$

-We're about the same level of attractiveness, however, I have a better body since I put in work in the gym.

She DM'ed me this morning telling me her schedule and seeing if I wanted to grab lunch sometime.

I've never been with or dated a girl who was more educated or made more money than me.... Call it insecurity, but I always thought she would have the upper hand in that type of scenario.

Mannnn, no matter what u Gita look at ya self as da biggest hunk/pimp/playa

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

So this girl that I been planning cut off just gave me a gift brehs.

She went off on me via text for not calling her back the other day. I'm like "I been out of town all weekend." Keep in mind this is NOT my gf and she shouldn't be expecting anything. I'll talk to her when I talk to her.

But my bday was Monday and she did something nice for me so I was gonna wait a week or two before I cut her off. Now I can't wait to give her those 'deavors.

 

[Brandsdale]

@Biggums this is the 5th time Ive told her to clean up after herself and she keeps promising to change. Even gave her a main closet so i can throw her random items in there when she leaves them out.

@TRUEST she works security and likes her job.

I pay all of the bills. She wanted cable and said she would pay but doesnt. She doesnt have a car and never has in the time ive known her. She wrecked my Camry with 30k miles on it (DUI) and my pops bailed her out. The first time my fam met her it was her coming from Dekalb County Jail.

My Dad had to pay our rent last month cause im maxed out

Spoiler

Did I mention she doesnt give head?

man are you her care taker?

kick her the fukk outta here man.

 

[DaHNIC82]

Carry yourself like you have women on lock and women gonna act accordingly.Even when I didn't have a roster, I carried myself like I had them on rotation, Even exaggerated a bit but shyt these chicks lie more than us so I don't feel guilty at all. But being I have more things going on, I built the mindset that a woman has to fit herself in MY world. Not me trying to be apart of hers

 

[Gus Money]

Brehs, how you do you show higher value than a chick that has higher value that you?

Ex:

There's this square chick that I chopped it up with on FB a while back.

-She's got her master's and is currently going for her PhD. I'm still a year away from a bachelor's..

-She makes more $$$

-We're about the same level of attractiveness, however, I have a better body since I put in work in the gym.

She DM'ed me this morning telling me her schedule and seeing if I wanted to grab lunch sometime.

I've never been with or dated a girl who was more educated or made more money than me.... Call it insecurity, but I always thought she would have the upper hand in that type of scenario.

Everyone else covered it, but don't ever eliminate yourself before you even go out with her bro. You don't have to be on some "I'm the flyest guy around" type of thinking but you should remind yourself that you don't need her for anything other than a good time.

Women are attracted to men who are confident and comfortable with themselves. Don't make any self deprecating jokes to elevate her above you. Keep her off a pedestal.

If she hit you up to have lunch then all you have to do is take it easy and not mess it up. Have a general convo, make jokes, escalate physically when it's appropriate, and you're in there like swimwear. You've got plenty of positives going for you so don't ever be intimidated by anyone.

Edit: also, don't take it so seriously. It's just lunch. Take it slow and see where it goes. Remind yourself that she already likes you.

 

[RealAssanova]

I wish it was that easy. We been friends going on like 5 years. I told her when we started talking last month, "it my way or the highway. I'm not like these other dudes you delt with who let you get away with shyt."

breh....regardless of how long ya'll know each other....the fact that she didn't have the HUMAN decency to understand your situation would be enough to drop her completely. Someone just lost a family member and she wanna be selfish? i would verbally annihilate a person like that.

The fact that u had to tell her that its your way or bushes means that she's used to gettin her way and nikkas in the past have enabled her selfish behaviour.

cut this bytch off.

 

[InDePickWest]

I know I should drop her but I think about her all the time. She makes me think about good things. I deleted her number but Imma do something self admittedly stupid and hit her up thru her cousin.

Imma dumb ass but I gotta know what if

 

[InDePickWest]

So like fate, I run into her.

She ignores me. I finally go talk to her and she lets me know she's upset that I demanded her time so quickly. She said she's busy (she just moved) and didn't like I called her 'fake'...but I was joking..sort of


We talked..I walked with her and we made tentative plans to cook and go out for drinks.

So damn confusing wit her fine ass

 

[TRUEST]

who can bann this indepickwest character? im getting really aggravated seeing her posts in this thread.

 

[John Reena]

who can bann this indepickwest character? im getting really aggravated seeing her posts in this thread.

It's pathetic how she following that chick around. U can't force nobody 2 like you.