Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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PUA is like all them lose weight/get rich quick schemes.

It makes naive dudes think they can MAKE a chick like them.

Attraction gotta be organic, not cuz I had on a red shirt or "gamed" a chick
nah. a girl can be attracted to you but lose interest fast if u dont know what you're doing. a lot can be said about dudes who act too happy to be talking to girls. girls see that and they get turned off. there's a reason girls find guys who have a calm demeanor very appealing.
 

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Pua gives a baseline of what to do in regards to women...
Its up to the man reading it to tinker and tailor to his personality...
The fact is sometimes we are the casualties and sometimes we cause them ourselves..
Ive lied to women for my own benefits and vice versa...u gotta filter the bad and go from there
 

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nah. a girl can be attracted to you but lose interest fast if u dont know what you're doing. a lot can be said about dudes who act too happy to be talking to girls. girls see that and they get turned off. there's a reason girls find guys who have a calm demeanor very appealing.

Nah, PUA just offers false hope to nikkaz by offering a quick fix to woo a chick that ain't or never will b attracted to em.
 
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PUA is JIVE. It's like those scans like Vector, Pre Paid Legal, Wake Up Now. They "tricks" and "advice" are basically nonsense.

I mean, if u a ugly nikka who dress bad n have no social skills....how is standing a certain way or talking a certain way gonna make a dime sleep with you? It's offering false hope

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As I was saying I agree with ceartin things :ufdup:
 

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So I reactivated my Coffee Meets Bagel account. I matched with a chick who seems quality. But I'm quickly reminded why I fukking hate dating apps.

There's so much pressure on men to be funny, charming, sexy, etc in the beginning. This means that you have to prove your worth via text. shyt is dumb and it's why I try to move to a face to face interaction ASAP.
 

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So I reactivated my Coffee Meets Bagel account. I matched with a chick who seems quality. But I'm quickly reminded why I fukking hate dating apps.

There's so much pressure on men to be funny, charming, sexy, etc in the beginning. This means that you have to prove your worth via text. shyt is dumb and it's why I try to move to a face to face interaction ASAP.

I'm quite honestly a literary genius who dabbled in actually finishing a novel at one point. The prose I use on the coli is obviously far removed from that but I get to try my hand on these dating sites. I usually get a lot of replies back since I actually read the profiles and can bullshyt out something that is applicable personally to them. but a lot of times the shyt will be one word replies, or just too difficult to guide the convo into a direction you want it to. I met my most recent ex who i was with off and on for a year off of OKC and she actually messaged me first which is probably the rarest thing in the world lol. I smashed like 5 or so off of the site so I can't say its a bad investment if youre willing to play the numbers game. But I've exhausted all the bytches I would want to see off of there in my area so I disabled mine :yeshrug: I went on a date the other day with a pretty white girl and had a great. She showed me her profile. She had fukking 2300 likes, 150 unread messages, innumerable visitors. I say this to just have brehs move accordingly iwth that online shyt lol. Its really a shot in the dark and I much rather just straight up cold approach at this point and I've actually had pretty good results with it. I'd still use it if I didn't message all the chicks I wanted to but its useless to me now
 

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That real though women hate condoms as much as men do:dwillhuh: it took me this long to come to the realization

ive only had 2 women i can remember off memory who insisted on a condom when i tested them. actually, maybe 1 cause i cant remember who the second person was. but yeah, in the heat of the moment, most women dont care. which is scary
 

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i feel like im running into brick walls that seemed like doorways from afar.
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I'm quite honestly a literary genius who dabbled in actually finishing a novel at one point. The prose I use on the coli is obviously far removed from that but I get to try my hand on these dating sites. I usually get a lot of replies back since I actually read the profiles and can bullshyt out something that is applicable personally to them. but a lot of times the shyt will be one word replies, or just too difficult to guide the convo into a direction you want it to. I met my most recent ex who i was with off and on for a year off of OKC and she actually messaged me first which is probably the rarest thing in the world lol. I smashed like 5 or so off of the site so I can't say its a bad investment if youre willing to play the numbers game. But I've exhausted all the bytches I would want to see off of there in my area so I disabled mine :yeshrug: I went on a date the other day with a pretty white girl and had a great. She showed me her profile. She had fukking 2300 likes, 150 unread messages, innumerable visitors. I say this to just have brehs move accordingly iwth that online shyt lol. Its really a shot in the dark and I much rather just straight up cold approach at this point and I've actually had pretty good results with it. I'd still use it if I didn't message all the chicks I wanted to but its useless to me now

Real shyt. I actually get better chicks in real life than online. So when i see a chick who is just cute making me go thru all these text linguistic hoops I'm just like :camby:

But I keep a profile for the rare diamond in the rough. It never hurts to expand your pool
 

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Real shyt. I actually get better chicks in real life than online. So when i see a chick who is just cute making me go thru all these text linguistic hoops I'm just like :camby:

But I keep a profile for the rare diamond in the rough. It never hurts to expand your pool
well I usually will activate quarterly, spend the 20 to get a list so i waste the least amount of time and then after that month delete it.
 

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I'm bout to leave her alone. Getting someone to chill with you should not take this much effort. I get she's busy but Imma delete her number for the second time. It ain't like her personality is this crazy ass aura that I can't live w/o. I just like her for whatever reason. I'm not gone be on stand still.

Finna delete dat ass

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