Came back in here to spread the word with those who seek it.
When meeting any woman no matter the age, the quicker you come to terms with the fact that every single last one of them have an ulterior motive is when you will find peace within your interactions with the opposing sex. Those motives being security, companionship, leadership and even subordination in some cases.
I have seen many young men complain or get frustrated with the fact that women say one thing and do the complete opposite. Some men do the very same thing but in a different manner. We refer to it as "winging it" or "on impulse" of which we know can result in luck or really catastrophic results.
It is hard wired in a woman's DNA to behave impulsively which is why as a man you must never follow their actions or words, instead choosing your own. I do strongly urge you to listen to them when they talk because a woman will always give your insight on how or what she thinks with how she speaks or interacts with you. What I mean by this is listen to exactly what she says and interpret it exactly how it is... Never take those words and try to add meaning beyond what it already is.
For example, when a woman tells you upon meeting you that she is ready to be in a relationship again after being hurt from her last one. What this means is she thought there was better out there for her after the last dude checked out, she quickly realized that the world is a tough place to be on your own, and the game always moves at a much faster pace than when she was single and younger a few years back. The mistake I see many men out here make is they take exactly what she says, and spin it into the fact that the ex-was incompatible, a cheat, or whatever other typical stereotype society will have you to believe about where relationships go wrong.
No person is perfect, man or woman and even those that are toxic in nature have their places in the natural order of relationships. A weak man cannot deal with a toxic woman because she will break his mind and spirit fairly easily and move on without batting much of an eyelash. Know what you are equipped with and play in that arena. Going from woman to woman will only heighten your awareness of the fact that a perfect woman is only an illusion. Get the best version of yourself first and find your partner that has a minimal amount of toxicity in their mindstate.
to the F-N-F (First Night Fuk). Sounds like a good-ass night. When it's unexpected are the best ones.
talk the talk.
