i feel u brehThis pretty much mirrors my mindset almost to a tee, i'm 25 though. This weighs on my mind pretty heavily all the time. I feel pathetic for even talking about this with other people let alone strangers on the internet.
But some part of me can't shake the feeling that it's too late for me. Like I'm just so far behind the curve when it comes to dating, that it's almost not really worth it for a woman. I feel like by now, most people kind of have their regular groups of people that they hang out with and you generally pair with people from those groups. I got friends, but I'm not really the guy you ask to be your wingman for a night on the town. My best friend just invited me to some party but my wardrobe isand life in general just aint really hitting like that so I declined. And I've never really felt comfortable with how my voice sounds so I don't talk that much let alone to random women out here.
Part of me knows that I can't give up but part of me wishes I could so I could get over this thirst.
I carry around so much guilt and shame for not being better that it's unbearable.
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True Blue Moon
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On a more positive note, I mentioned about a month ago that I was hesitant about going on a date with this girl who is going for her PhD. I was sweating it because I'm barely getting my bachelor's at the end of this school year. Shout out to the brehs that said to not stress about her education level being way higher than mines
We had our 3rd date today and already set up the 4th for next week-end. I will say that she did interrogate me about how far I was away from landing my "career", and when I said one year for my bachelor's and two years for my master's program, she said, "3 years? Oh that's not that bad."
TL;DR
-Some women want winners RIGHT NOW.
But there are women out there that will accept you as an unfinished product, as long as you're on your way to being a winner. Don't let your shortcomings right now hold you back, as long as you're doing something to improve.
I remember this
Glad to hear it's working out breh
Your energy and direction will always hold more weight than the external validations you've received. Stay on your path and any woman that is down with it will be down with it.
I heard every damn lie out a women mouth since 2016 started (Vow to myself I will go after all the women I want and just go after women and I did that) . " I got a bf""I'm not interested""I'm not that type of girl""I'm only here for the weekend""I'm a lesbian""can I have your number"( right after you ask for her number) "I don't have a phone""I'm just doing me""I'm not interested in a relationship""I don't have a name" like damn brehs I think this is a thing only American women doI be getting so heated that I took a chick iphone for ignoring me n threw it on top on the school engineering building
something gotta give
How old are you fam?
maybe its time to fake it till you make it
Lying to these hoes been working for me recently
Crayola Coyote
Superstar
How old are you fam?
maybe its time to fake it till you make it
Lying to these hoes been working for me recently
25, with no fukks to give even if I had a pocket full.. I wouldn't give any out
my bad man. I went out last night and it sucked. 
"Fake it until you make it" breh is blunt as hell with my intentions with females.John Reena
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So many single (or taken chicks ACTING single) dressing slutty for Halloween out tonight.
Feast my brothas FEAST!
Feast my brothas FEAST!
Rich Spirit
#LeveledUp
Man who you telllingSo many single (or taken chicks ACTING single) dressing slutty for Halloween out tonight.
Feast my brothas FEAST!
It's literally a buffet out here
Crayola Coyote
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John Reena
Superstar
Man who you tellling
It's literally a buffet out here
I just posted up in the club parking lot and was like
John Reena
Superstar
IDK I kind of want to see how she behaves because actions>>>>>words. If she fall in line and behaves like she has some senseShe wanted to initially be friendly or w/e and that shyt went out the window the first day we link up we fukk. So its obvious that type of relation will never happen so this might be her last effort to tie me up without voicing she afraid to lose me because she not the type to voice such a thing.
or maybe I'm looking too into and should just continue hitting the good puss and having fun with her.
Don't be stupid breh. Just don't.
IDK I kind of want to see how she behaves because actions>>>>>words. If she fall in line and behaves like she has some sense
or maybe I'm looking too into and should just continue hitting the good puss and having fun with her.
Do you want her back?
And be honest
John Reena
Superstar
Cuffing Season is HERE.
Ignore them texts from ya ex who lookin for attention n dikk......
Start shooting at EVERY chick that's a dime and FEAST.
If she say no, ON TO DA NEXT ONE.
Don't go running to ya ex if ya get rejected/hit a slump.
We out here tryna see new shows, not no reruns my brothas.
Ignore them texts from ya ex who lookin for attention n dikk......
Start shooting at EVERY chick that's a dime and FEAST.
If she say no, ON TO DA NEXT ONE.
Don't go running to ya ex if ya get rejected/hit a slump.
We out here tryna see new shows, not no reruns my brothas.
i noticed how this thread seems to be getting a lot of sad posts as of late. so i figure i post a youtube video for some of yall that have lost hope:
point here is, if your not good looking or just dont know how to get girls, the sh1t u see in this video lets u know there is hope. sure, the girls on there are gold diggers. but, if sex is what u want, or the attention everyone around u but u, seems to get is what you crave, then, being successful will definitely get u that.
u just goto be sharp and make sure u dont get these girls pregnant and that u record ur encounter with them (in case they wanna scream false rape). seems extreme, but if u aint never had the type of girl u want, being successful is a way out for you.
there's so much talk about improving urself. really, the best improvement u can have is being successful.
point here is, if your not good looking or just dont know how to get girls, the sh1t u see in this video lets u know there is hope. sure, the girls on there are gold diggers. but, if sex is what u want, or the attention everyone around u but u, seems to get is what you crave, then, being successful will definitely get u that.
u just goto be sharp and make sure u dont get these girls pregnant and that u record ur encounter with them (in case they wanna scream false rape). seems extreme, but if u aint never had the type of girl u want, being successful is a way out for you.
there's so much talk about improving urself. really, the best improvement u can have is being successful.
This pretty much mirrors my mindset almost to a tee, i'm 25 though. This weighs on my mind pretty heavily all the time. I feel pathetic for even talking about this with other people let alone strangers on the internet.
But some part of me can't shake the feeling that it's too late for me. Like I'm just so far behind the curve when it comes to dating, that it's almost not really worth it for a woman. I feel like by now, most people kind of have their regular groups of people that they hang out with and you generally pair with people from those groups. I got friends, but I'm not really the guy you ask to be your wingman for a night on the town. My best friend just invited me to some party but my wardrobe is
Part of me knows that I can't give up but part of me wishes I could so I could get over this thirst.
I carry around so much guilt and shame for not being better that it's unbearable.
25 Is the prime age breh...
You have a network....your already ahead of the game..
you can easily slip into vagina