Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Virtuous_Brotha]

Try to text other message with this one female, pretty much ignoring me....so I stopped trying and deleted contacts. See her not too much later one night asking me why I don't ever speak and shyt....

This shyt here gotta be a universal thing women do and i'm not sure why, I've sent off texts where I had been asking the woman questions which were left on "seen" or "read" so I completely stop texting thinking the lack of response is them rudely saying they ain't interested.
Couple weeks later it's hey stranger why you been so quiet. Maybe because you were giving me one word responses or none at all

 

[Youseenmywork]

This pretty much mirrors my mindset almost to a tee, i'm 25 though. This weighs on my mind pretty heavily all the time. I feel pathetic for even talking about this with other people let alone strangers on the internet.

But some part of me can't shake the feeling that it's too late for me. Like I'm just so far behind the curve when it comes to dating, that it's almost not really worth it for a woman. I feel like by now, most people kind of have their regular groups of people that they hang out with and you generally pair with people from those groups. I got friends, but I'm not really the guy you ask to be your wingman for a night on the town. My best friend just invited me to some party but my wardrobe is and life in general just aint really hitting like that so I declined. And I've never really felt comfortable with how my voice sounds so I don't talk that much let alone to random women out here.

Part of me knows that I can't give up but part of me wishes I could so I could get over this thirst.

I carry around so much guilt and shame for not being better that it's unbearable.

You young guys are funny man if you only knew...

 

[360dagod]

You know, it may sound bitter but anytime I try the slightest interaction with a female of interest it just proves that I'm probably wasting my time.

Try to text other message with this one female, pretty much ignoring me....so I stopped trying and deleted contacts. See her not too much later one night asking me why I don't ever speak and shyt....
I pretty much ignored whatever else she may have said and it kept it moving....

Its like I have to mentally brace myself for a lifetime of loneliness. Which isn't that hard, since I've been alone practically my entire life....

I see decent looking females everyday, but I feel I'd just be wasting my time. I would say my only hope is perhaps I get lucky at the gym I go to....but then again that may make shyt weird/awkward if I have to see them all the time after if shyt weren't to work out....The last sentence alone is pretty much telling if how my mental state is at the moment....

Yeah, I try and concentrate on other things (not doing too bad actually), but this nagging desire for female attention aint going away no time soon....hasnt faltered since I was Child, now I'm about to be 33......


fukk.....

how many times have you called her

 

[Youseenmywork]

So of nikkas man just need to get out of your head when approaching these women. Many of you are too outcome dependent.

 

[Deafheaven]

Do you want her back?
And be honest

tbh I would consider being exclusive with her if she acted right for months. But idk why y'all acting like I can't be smashing other chicks at the same time if I so please.

 

[360dagod]

tbh I would consider being exclusive with her if she acted right for months. But idk why y'all acting like I can't be smashing other chicks at the same time if I so please.

This chick has you emotionally...Like she your baby moms type thing..

I dont know the dynamics between you 2, so i really cant say much..

I just hope you got it covered

 

[DarkHorse23]

That redpill/PUA shyt is nonsense. U can't use a set of tricks to make a chick like you.

The Red pill and PUA isn't Synonymous . The "red pill" is simply an analogy of the manosphere ideology. The PUA shyt is self explanatory. I agree the PUA shyt doesn't work. Every book or program I ever purchased since 17 or 18 I deep down never believed in becuse I felt it was full of shyt. Only a few things I ever bought resonated with me. They mainly emphasized being honest and direct with women. So yes you're right, PUA shyt like pickup lines, palm reading, magic tricks ect don't work. You don't need any of that. A woman either likes you or she doesn't. That's hard to accept at times, but it's something I'm trying to come to terms with completely and make peace with. It is what it is. I'm done investing emotional energy into it. It's not worth it anymore.

 

[Deafheaven]

This chick has you emotionally...Like she your baby moms type thing..

I dont know the dynamics between you 2, so i really cant say much..

I just hope you got it covered

A woman will never jeopardize my livelihood so like worst comes to worse a few weeks of loneliness and back on the horse again, I don't hold grudges and I'm not afraid to take chances. Blasphemy here I know. I just don't want to end up on so,e mgtow goofy bullshyt grown out of bitterness. So if shyt doesn't work out it doesn't but I'm not about to become overly jaded or fearful cuz of it. I appreciate all the input in here I really do but at the end of the day we got to take control of our own dikks/lives

 

[TheArchitect]

This shyt here gotta be a universal thing women do and i'm not sure why, I've sent off texts where I had been asking the woman questions which were left on "seen" or "read" so I completely stop texting thinking the lack of response is them rudely saying they ain't interested.
Couple weeks later it's hey stranger why you been so quiet. Maybe because you were giving me one word responses or none at all

That's exactly what happened. She just left shyt on "read"....

how many times have you called her

I only texted her like once, and spoke to her over FB like once ....

I just want to get better with women. I'm a catch I just have a lot of things. to fix.

I feel the same way.....but being one of those "off-center" types, I tend not to ever be anyone's first choice....I stray away from the flock waaaay too much....

Yup those long 5 hour dates, giggling, getting in close, laughing, hand on her leg, communication just flowing


Sending that txt gettng nothing back, or the your a great guy but

I swear to god if that shyt happens to me one more time.....

That's why modern dating is so ,

Women will waste your time, money, dragging you along just for entertainmrnt, your basicslly a free trial

Yup...shyt ain't worth it to me....

Sometimes it really makes me want to run to the mountains, survive off the land and contemplate shyt.

Dead-ass I be thinking about doing some shyt like that...

Facts. I know there are women that want to enter my world so I don't worry if I'll get rejected. I know I'm a catch.

I like to tell myself that.....reality is, I've been empty-handed for years....

i keep getting hit with the okie doke.
they making it hard to trust any woman

Story of my life.....

you don't want thot tendencies but you want fast escalation of sexual desire? this is contradictory breh

It kind of makes sense...you want someone you can be with, but you have a high sex drive....

Do not get with stripper that is self conscious about being stripper. 10/10 they will bring it up when you never mention it. Stay about from women that have low self esteem or body conscious they are annoying as hell and will flake out on sex

Like my ex....the worse sex EVER (and this is coming someone with minimal sexual experience).....

Fail many times and keep on trying to you don't care anymore. Repetition is the best teacher fpr anything at life.

Also the greatest thing any man can do for himself is change his mindset. Look at all the things you have for yourself that makes you awesome and draw confidence from that. I had to change myself because I don't like losing at all. So I did a lot of reflections and when I came out I had lost fear.

A man have to change himself first if he wants to change his surroundings and the things that happen to him

In the process now....seems to be coming along fine....but I realize since I've really been trying to do so, I've been under spiritual attack like a mufukka....

This pretty much mirrors my mindset almost to a tee, i'm 25 though. This weighs on my mind pretty heavily all the time. I feel pathetic for even talking about this with other people let alone strangers on the internet.

But some part of me can't shake the feeling that it's too late for me. Like I'm just so far behind the curve when it comes to dating, that it's almost not really worth it for a woman. I feel like by now, most people kind of have their regular groups of people that they hang out with and you generally pair with people from those groups. I got friends, but I'm not really the guy you ask to be your wingman for a night on the town. My best friend just invited me to some party but my wardrobe is and life in general just aint really hitting like that so I declined. And I've never really felt comfortable with how my voice sounds so I don't talk that much let alone to random women out here.

Part of me knows that I can't give up but part of me wishes I could so I could get over this thirst.

I carry around so much guilt and shame for not being better that it's unbearable.

I must have like 5 twins on here.....

 

[John Reena]

A chick ignore ya texts or piss u off, don't delete they number or unfollow/block em from social media. That shows em u care what they think. Just leave her number in ya phone, don't unfollow/block. Just carry on like nothing happen n don't communicate with her.

 

[twan83]

A chick ignore ya texts or piss u off, don't delete they number or unfollow/block em from social media. That shows em u care what they think. Just leave her number in ya phone, don't unfollow/block. Just carry on like nothing happen n don't communicate with her.

I only block them when they crazy stalker

I get what ur saying bout not deleting them but that is a case by case basis for me cuz when I have
And they call I be like who is this and they be like it's so and such I be like who oh yea I deleted ur number u didn't seem interested so I forgot about u
Then they be like
I'm sorry didn't mean it like that
I be like
So they wanna try again hollering sometimes I say na sometimes I'm like aight only cuz I have that I don't give a fukk mentality so they can't do shyt to bother me and what ends up happeneing they wanna push the issue and meet up
And even at times wanna give up the goodies as some sort of make up

 

[John Reena]

I only block them when they crazy stalker

I get what ur saying bout not deleting them but that is a case by case basis for me cuz when I have
And they call I be like who is this and they be like it's so and such I be like who oh yea I deleted ur number u didn't seem interested so I forgot about u
Then they be like
I'm sorry didn't mean it like that
I be like
So they wanna try again hollering sometimes I say na sometimes I'm like aight only cuz I have that I don't give a fukk mentality so they can't do shyt to bother me and what ends up happeneing they wanna push the issue and meet up
And even at times wanna give up the goodies as some sort of make up

Chicks be on some coward shyt sometimes. Disappear on you....then reappear talkin bout "Hey strangerrrr!" Or shoot u that "waving hand emoji."

I'm too handsome and charismatic to be chasing females.

 

[twan83]

Chicks be on some coward shyt sometimes. Disappear on you....then reappear talkin bout "Hey strangerrrr!" Or shoot u that "waving hand emoji."

I'm too handsome and charismatic to be chasing females.

If I know their friend I hit them up instead since she actually showed interest and made a move
Then she call like why u holler at my friend what bout me
I be like u didn't show none she did simple as that don't be mad at me or her cuz u think u can play games with a breh
I ain't bout that life it's on to the next one

 

[DarkHorse23]

A chick ignore ya texts or piss u off, don't delete they number or unfollow/block em from social media. That shows em u care what they think. Just leave her number in ya phone, don't unfollow/block. Just carry on like nothing happen n don't communicate with her.

I disagree. It shows that you respect yourself and not going allow someone to waste your time.

 

[DarkHorse23]

You guys need to really stop being so indirect with women. You're playing into manipulative women's hands when you do that. Be Direct and upfront and don't waste time. @TheArchitect @Virtuous_Brotha