Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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All ur saying is cuz ur cheap and petty over stupid shyt is why y'all broke up with a mix of supposedly u being sneaky with ur phone

shyt doesn't add up breh after 2 years
Unless ur petty shyt is that annoying and bad
Cheap part is if u told her that in advance she can't blame no one but herself for that she knew that
What are examples of being cheap

Like I said 2 years of u being cheap I don't think is why
The petty part could be depending how often and what u do I could see that
Finally if none of ur answers seem logically she met somebody else simple as that no way around it after 2 years would be the most likely answer
Ima try and put as much info as I can with out typing an essay that might help you evaluate

- I'm 29.. she's 26

- I work like 52 hours a week and she works 30.. that's a point too because she said she doesn't see me that much anymore but I usually saw her every Saturday...

- we went out for her bday the 2nd weekend of October and everything was good then that week she started texting less and I ended up not seeing her that weekend after her bday weekend

Then we were texting a little bit the week before our anniversary and she said what I quoted for you...


I'll explain the cheap comment..


- my girl (ex) doesn't have a car so I'd always pick and drop her off for whatever we had planned, every time for the whole two years

- I work full time and she's part time, all the dates and dinners we'd have were on my dime.. she'd sometimes pick up lunch or breakfast tabs

- I said I use to drive her to and from home when we'd kick it , so there'd be times she stayed over on Saturday nights and I'd drive her home Sunday morning and she'd always ask to stop at Dunkin' Donuts or McDonald's or somewhere every single sometime.. sometimes I didn't wanna stop or pay.. that's what she's referring too....

- n about the sharing my girl, I mean in the two years I never had an issue with that but it's one of the first things that popped in my mind, but I don't have any actual proof.. just the weird break up.. I mean I asked her and she said no but who knows if that's the truth..
 

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Ima try and put as much info as I can with out typing an essay that might help you evaluate

- I'm 29.. she's 26

- I work like 52 hours a week and she works 30.. that's a point too because she said she doesn't see me that much anymore but I usually saw her every Saturday...

- we went out for her bday the 2nd weekend of October and everything was good then that week she started texting less and I ended up not seeing her that weekend after her bday weekend

Then we were texting a little bit the week before our anniversary and she said what I quoted for you...


I'll explain the cheap comment..


- my girl (ex) doesn't have a car so I'd always pick and drop her off for whatever we had planned, every time for the whole two years

- I work full time and she's part time, all the dates and dinners we'd have were on my dime.. she'd sometimes pick up lunch or breakfast tabs

- I said I use to drive her to and from home when we'd kick it , so there'd be times she stayed over on Saturday nights and I'd drive her home Sunday morning and she'd always ask to stop at Dunkin' Donuts or McDonald's or somewhere every single sometime.. sometimes I didn't wanna stop or pay.. that's what she's referring too....

- n about the sharing my girl, I mean in the two years I never had an issue with that but it's one of the first things that popped in my mind, but I don't have any actual proof.. just the weird break up.. I mean I asked her and she said no but who knows if that's the truth..

Not seeing someone often does hurt even if their is a understanding but the cheap part is ruled out imo
Now all of a sudden their is a issue
And Less communication don't sound right

It could just be she is flat out lonely she don't see u enough

But I will go with she met someone who fits her needs more or less
Of course u ain't gonna find proof if she knows what she doing
Let alone u just said u work 52 hours yea breh out of the blue she does this leans toward sharing that girl unfortunately proof or not
since it's over with

Figuring out why just gonna stress u more out
Do u deserve a explanation of course most do and none really get one and if they do it's not a honest answer
That's just how shyt goes
 

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Ima try and put as much info as I can with out typing an essay that might help you evaluate

- I'm 29.. she's 26

- I work like 52 hours a week and she works 30.. that's a point too because she said she doesn't see me that much anymore but I usually saw her every Saturday...

- we went out for her bday the 2nd weekend of October and everything was good then that week she started texting less and I ended up not seeing her that weekend after her bday weekend

Then we were texting a little bit the week before our anniversary and she said what I quoted for you...


I'll explain the cheap comment..


- my girl (ex) doesn't have a car so I'd always pick and drop her off for whatever we had planned, every time for the whole two years

- I work full time and she's part time, all the dates and dinners we'd have were on my dime.. she'd sometimes pick up lunch or breakfast tabs

- I said I use to drive her to and from home when we'd kick it , so there'd be times she stayed over on Saturday nights and I'd drive her home Sunday morning and she'd always ask to stop at Dunkin' Donuts or McDonald's or somewhere every single sometime.. sometimes I didn't wanna stop or pay.. that's what she's referring too....

- n about the sharing my girl, I mean in the two years I never had an issue with that but it's one of the first things that popped in my mind, but I don't have any actual proof.. just the weird break up.. I mean I asked her and she said no but who knows if that's the truth..


dude, i have first hand experience with your situation. only thing is, mine lasted just under a year. i probably woulda gone bankrupt had fate let it go longer. i gave that girl too much, without requiring much of anything from her.

in ur case, the fact that u gave this girl rides, and paid most of the time should have had this girl doing everything she can for u. cooking, ironing ur clothes, doing laundry, etc. if she wasn't doing any of this on a consistent basis, trust me when i tell u, you are extremely well off without her now. trust me on this. let her go and mourn ur pain in the arms of another woman or "women". reading ur post makes me cringe cause that girl probably thought she deserved everything u did for her. never do it again!
 
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Me and my girl been going out for 2 years last Saturday...

Always been a make up breakup relationship...

Well about two weeks ago she started getting distant (less texting/talking)

Then about a week ago she said

" You try to be the best bf? How u always get petty over stupid shyt I ask you for lil things like when we go out for food you make me beg you for it u always give me shyt cause u pay for everything when u make wayyyy more money than me
Yea I thought U where the one for me but I was wrong I gave u a chance from all those guys that where tryna talk too me I choose you we where great at the beginning you where sweet and everything but then u stop
U sneaky with your phone too when your with me so u probably where talking to girls I notice I just didn't say nothing too you"


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Yea that too nd then we be fighting over stupid stuff
When I ask you for food you always get mad nd say I ain't getting you nothing I'm not stopping no where
You kinda push me away
I just got tired of it "




Now I am cheap... always have been, it's a flaw...

My last relationship my other ex got mad about me being so cheap too...


I'm at work but I can elaborate further if y'all got more questions

So the solution to your prob is a foreign Woman and here's why:

- A foreign Woman understands a higher earning male must work longer hours
- A foreign Woman understands a successful male is responsible with his money and prefers to cook at home instead of eating out all the damn time wasting money
- A foreign Woman understands she needs to upgrade herself as much as possible to be on your level

She found a Lexus Negroid that will pamper her OK that's good for her
The reality is that Lexus Negroid will kick her to the curb in a bout a year or so and she'll be coming back with her tail inbetween her legs
American Women's expectations do not align with reality
And most are not down with you during the struggle times so best you got rid of her now and not when you get laid off

Women always have the option to sell the booty, strip or move back in with their momma or female relatives
I have no care or mercy for them in that regard because they can also get pregnant by some nikka and survive off the tax payer
Women have everything they have ever wanted attention amateur stardom on social media and Uncle Sam making sure they have food to eat in hard times
I don't consider Women's feelings in 2016, with the exception of my Woman but she gets I am trying to create a better future for us
She knows I am at the front lines and navigating complex CAC waters and things will get better over time. But I am ambitious and hard on myself so sometimes I don't like to just lay back and relax.
She is career oriented to a certain degree as well though so she gets it. Get yourself a Japanese Woman over age 30 or so. You won't have a lot of these problems you are facing anymore.
This may require you to import one or move to a major city.
 

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From experience usually when q girl drops you like that out of the blue there is another breh, you just don't know it yet. Women tree branch and rarely dump without having another dude in their sights or something set up. It's like someone won't leave a job till they have a new one set up. They will show up to work, do their work. Take a vacation day go on a job interview, continuing working, smiling giggling then they give their two weeks notice.



Ima try and put as much info as I can with out typing an essay that might help you evaluate

- I'm 29.. she's 26

- I work like 52 hours a week and she works 30.. that's a point too because she said she doesn't see me that much anymore but I usually saw her every Saturday...

- we went out for her bday the 2nd weekend of October and everything was good then that week she started texting less and I ended up not seeing her that weekend after her bday weekend

Then we were texting a little bit the week before our anniversary and she said what I quoted for you...


I'll explain the cheap comment..


- my girl (ex) doesn't have a car so I'd always pick and drop her off for whatever we had planned, every time for the whole two years

- I work full time and she's part time, all the dates and dinners we'd have were on my dime.. she'd sometimes pick up lunch or breakfast tabs

- I said I use to drive her to and from home when we'd kick it , so there'd be times she stayed over on Saturday nights and I'd drive her home Sunday morning and she'd always ask to stop at Dunkin' Donuts or McDonald's or somewhere every single sometime.. sometimes I didn't wanna stop or pay.. that's what she's referring too....

- n about the sharing my girl, I mean in the two years I never had an issue with that but it's one of the first things that popped in my mind, but I don't have any actual proof.. just the weird break up.. I mean I asked her and she said no but who knows if that's the truth..
 

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Its amazing how much a girl attitude towards you change once she get that demonic multiple orgasm fukk in her system :mjgrin:

Starting kissing on the wiz and she like lets not so I chill for a minute come back to it twenty minutes later and she open. Just a small microcosm of the power of being able to "walk away" and treat a chick like the cat like creature she is.
 

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took some advice from here and it worked :ehh:

cant find it but :salute: to breh that told me to go to the party, chill with the nicest girl there and watch the girls that curved me before flock :ohlawd:


nah. i wouldn't let this slide. that girl straight up cock blocked u which is an unforgivable sin.

so should u go to the party? depends on how many other people u think will be there who u know and can get along with. u dont wanna go there and be the loner.

nevertheless, if u do go, try and and chill only with the friendliest chick there to you. u dont even goto like her. just goto be seen talking with her. before the night is over, one of them girls will probably come at u on some "why dont u ever hit me up (knowing damn well they were the ones who went cold on u)"

point is, go to that party and find a way to reinvent ur image in the eyes of those two girls. if u know what ur doing, u can fucck at least one of them before the week is over. and then go in on that b1tch of a friend of urs and dead that friendship. yeah im a vindictive guy. i dont tolerate anything i know i wouldn't do to someone else and reading ur post kinda irritated me.


tell us. what happened breh
 
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