Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Allow yourself to have multiple options.

In 2016 you need to be juggling multiple women at a time until you feel like you want to settle down with one of them. This will help you stay sane and keep your game TIGHT. When one drops, add another. You literally need to keep filling up with prospects and options as it will be a revolving door.

Women do this, they all have at least 3-4 dudes in their pipeline that they have as potentials. All these dating apps have REALLY over-saturated the field and they have way too much power. It really has changed the last couple of years. It is what it is, you can either complain about it or do something about it.

Adapting to this mentality is essential if you want to be the type of man who is consistently successful with women as it will automatically DROP all of the behaviour you do not need.

Your game will adjust and fix itself when you allow yourself to have options.

This is good advice in general but if you're a busy person it can quickly become a headache.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

idk..... Its getting cold outside and I don't have money to be going out every week so idk how I'm about to get some girls in rotation

 

[Dreamzeedream]

What happened?

I just had the light bulb moment two days ago. I sat out for awhile cus I needed to work on myself. I kept getting rejected so I had to figure out why and improve myself mentally and physically. Why u sitting out?

 

[Rich Spirit]

This is good advice in general but if you're a busy person it can quickly become a headache.

That's why you keep as many chicks in your rotation that you can handle given your schedule, whether it's 2, 3, 4, etc.

 

[Marezzy]

It will always surprise me the woman I run into that "don't need a man" and be on some a man better never degrade me.


BUT when you get the smashing especially good dikk they love when you slap them, choke them, hold them down, and hell even call them a bytch/slut.

A women I talked to would say I'm getting on her nerves, don't wanna cuddle, really like she wanna be left alone but I go to leave and she almost begging me to stay.


Cliff notes: women are difficult

 

[Turk]

Listening to the radio and this chick is 31, celibate, been in a relationship for 2 years, aint tryna get married until she hits certain goals.That rude awakening soon

 

[Deafheaven]

It will always surprise me the woman I run into that "don't need a man" and be on some a man better never degrade me.


BUT when you get the smashing especially good dikk they love when you slap them, choke them, hold them down, and hell even call them a bytch/slut.

A women I talked to would say I'm getting on her nerves, don't wanna cuddle, really like she wanna be left alone but I go to leave and she almost begging me to stay.


Cliff notes: women are difficult

this is par for course. the most strong independent women I've been with LOVEEEEE getting bit, slapped, hair pulled. completely dominated. They mind might say one thing but they can't go against nature

 

[TRUEST]

This is good advice in general but if you're a busy person it can quickly become a headache.

yeah thats why when i read the posts on here about guys lowkey bragging about the different chicks they're banging, i think, these dudes got way too much time on their hands.
when you're chasing the important things in life (money), i just dont see how u can keep up with one girl, let alone 2 or more. if a girl is into u, trust, she'll be texting u all day or calling u (if u dont text back fast enough to her liking). that sh1t straight up frustrates me and i just end up deading the relationship in general.

 

[Mainevent_7]

yeah thats why when i read the posts on here about guys lowkey bragging about the different chicks they're banging, i think, these dudes got way too much time on their hands.
when you're chasing the important things in life (money), i just dont see how u can keep up with one girl, let alone 2 or more. if a girl is into u, trust, she'll be texting u all day or calling u (if u dont text back fast enough to her liking). that sh1t straight up frustrates me and i just end up deading the relationship in general.

I beg to differ. Women are going to gravitate towards you, when they see that you're working on yourself. You literally have to put in no work and you can operate on your own time. They either will accept it or keep it moving.

 

[TRUEST]

I beg to differ. Women are going to gravitate towards you, when they see that you're working on yourself. You literally have to put in no work and you can operate on your own time. They either will accept it or keep it moving.

nah. im speaking from experience. when chicks call u, and u dont answer the phone, or when they text and it takes u forever to respond, they get the impression you're with other women or that u dont like them. and they keep it moving. and those that dont keep it moving, irritate me to the point where i just dead the relationship fast.

the attention being placed on constantly juggling multiple women, especially in this thread, is troubling. i get the reason for it. but, some of yall dudes need to get ur priorities straight.

and i say this from a grown man's perspective. i know that lifestyle all too well. back when i was younger, in my early twenties, and all i did was work and play. i'd work and when work was over, i'd leave work at work and used all my free time to chase chicks. and surely, i had my hands full with different women. but, in the grand scheme of things, women aint gon save ur ass if u lose ur job, or if some sh1t happens to you that will require u have solid financial base.

trust, if u actually sat down and calculated and added up all the time u spend each week entertaining these different chicks, you'll realize, it's nothing to ignore. that is a lot of time. time that can be better spent learning a trade, or starting a business.

i'm a grown man with some harsh life experiences. do what u will with whatever advise i dispense.

 

[John Reena]

yup back in the day when a girl curved me, id log onto facebook see whats up, think what I did wrong and all that, then it got to the point eh maybe she had hiv or something or maybe something better out there.

I remember the last girl curved me and a week later I met my fiance, so thanks

U spitting REALNESS.

Everything evens itself out.

No need stressing over chicks that disappear, another one gone take her place.

 

[John Reena]

Nothing be more hilarious than bumping into a chick in public that "disappeared" on u. They have that ass eating smile on they face all nervous, then have tha nerve to say "U never hit me up stranger."

 

[Shadow King]

I just had the light bulb moment two days ago. I sat out for awhile cus I needed to work on myself. I kept getting rejected so I had to figure out why and improve myself mentally and physically. Why u sitting out?

The same reason basically. I been sitting out but I haven't been productive. I'm on a better track now; working again (not nothing I need a cert for but work nonetheless), my pops gonna use his light work month next month to show me shyt in the gym, starting to write a book, still torn on music though.

So I'm on the right track but little ticky-tack bothering me too since I'm an over thinker;
When I get out there I'll probably fukk up a lot of shots over going dutch. I don't know how women respond to this.
I don't have my own spot and probably won't for a minute and we know how they need that. I missed out on the high school/college-aged game of "text for a week & get her to the crib" anyway so that isn't natural for me.
Honestly, I'd probably bore these chicks too, especially those around my age. No smoking little drinking, not into the social scene like that, not about any drama so I'd probably be too "predictable." I'm an introvert (not painfully so) and observer so I'm not into being in the mix with people I soak in culture/human behavior through shyt like books, movies, documentaries, TV, etc and if I do go out I'd prefer low key stuff. I'm in a selfish period of my life so I'm not sure the type of chicks who would be okay with my energy and habits would be good with casual situations.

I have to get better at judging a girl's attraction also, the out and about/minding my business situation. I'm not what women would call "fine" so when I get that split second of eye contact I don't take that as a greenlight.

 

[MikelArteta]

It's like everything in life, sometimes you lose your job, but by losing that job you apply for a job you wouldn't have when you comfortable and boom you ger it.

Like for me I liked that chick, I thought we were starting to click but got that your a good guy but blah blah, just deleted her contact next week met my fiance , if that chick were to string me along then I might have missed my chance.

Secondly you never know what issues women may have, she could be bipolar, have a abusive ex hanging around, been around the block, be 150k in debt.

All we sew early on is what they want us to see a pretty girl ans our hormones take it and when it doesn't work out

And plus when you think of it, I'd rather a girl who was so into me that she doesn't view me as someone she can kixk to the curb


Your Peyton Manning are you going to retire? Cuz they don't want you anymore Or are you going to go elsewhere and throw for 50tds

U spitting REALNESS.

Everything evens itself out.

No need stressing over chicks that disappear, another one gone take her place.

 

[Mainevent_7]

nah. im speaking from experience. when chicks call u, and u dont answer the phone, or when they text and it takes u forever to respond, they get the impression you're with other women or that u dont like them. and they keep it moving. and those that dont keep it moving, irritate me to the point where i just dead the relationship fast.

the attention being placed on constantly juggling multiple women, especially in this thread, is troubling. i get the reason for it. but, some of yall dudes need to get ur priorities straight.

and i say this from a grown man's perspective. i know that lifestyle all too well. back when i was younger, in my early twenties, and all i did was work and play. i'd work and when work was over, i'd leave work at work and used all my free time to chase chicks. and surely, i had my hands full with different women. but, in the grand scheme of things, women aint gon save ur ass if u lose ur job, or if some sh1t happens to you that will require u have solid financial base.

trust, if u actually sat down and calculated and added up all the time u spend each week entertaining these different chicks, you'll realize, it's nothing to ignore. that is a lot of time. time that can be better spent learning a trade, or starting a business.

i'm a grown man with some harsh life experiences. do what u will with whatever advise i dispense.

I feel you. You do make valid points. I let them all know up front that I'm going do what I want, when I want, and how I want. If they still want to stick around, that's on them. But I look back to the last few months when it was warm outside, I was spending a lot of time and money dealing with multiple women. It got to the point, I slacked off in the gym and in my studies for new security certifications. I'm glad it getting cold out so i can refocus on the things that are important to me.