Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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root_eruditorium_org
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brehs....i know ya'll gonne roast me for this....but i think i may have fukked up.
so me and this shorty been vibin. Nasty lil freak. Spits and everything. Well last week she wanted to fukk and we walked to get some condoms from da nearby convenience store but they didn't have any....and i wanted to buy a certain kind...so i said no biggie, we'll pick it up next week when i'll have some condoms. (maybe in hindsight i shud've fukked)
well tonight i was gonne go link her at her spot, buy condoms and everything....so before i was gonne go over...she hit me with a wall of text talkin about how we she ain't sure she wants to fukk tonight and how she been reflectin and shyt and wants to take things slow and if that was my main reason for coming to let her know.
so i played it off like it was nothin and how i wanted to just chill...but then she got deeper and was like how she didn't want me to come all the way there and feel like i wasted my time and shyt.
anyways....i told her i ain't tryna pressure her and stuff and that i am gonna kick back tonight and give her space. I also said that, i'd be lyin to you if i said i wasn't thinkin about comin thru to chill and fukk around and it'd be hard not to. She said we could but that she wasn't ready to fukk just yet...atleast not tonight. She also acknowledged that she is actin very emotional/weird and i ain't tryna be around that right now.
so part of me thinks its cuz her time of the month is right around the corner...but the other part of me is like
she said she was disappointed i wasn't comin but said she understands. Asked when we gonne link and i said sometime next week i guess.
my problem here is...the switch up. I hate it when girls switch up. Almost kills all my attraction towards em. Like how u go from wantin to fukk last week to sayin u wanna take things slow this week?maybe cuz i give off the vibe that all i wanna do is fukk especially since i always wanna come to her spot and not go out like before?
this is also broad that in the past fukked around. She was on tinder for months and shyt, drinks, parties, has alot of guy friends, etc.
Mentally i'll try to ride it out...but i don't know. My actions unconsciously might sabotage things before i get a chance.
she also told her fams about me
you had your chance and you blew it.
you've got to strike while the iron is hot my dude. giving time to chicks to reflect isn't the best because then it becomes a perception thing and they don't wanna come off as too easy. this chick looks like a thot anyways so she shouldn't be giving you a hard time. what she's said so far sounds like bad news to me.
i would personally lower my expectations. next time have an emergency pack of condoms bruh.
but i'm with you though, i'm super aggressive too and it's cost me at times. i'd rather that than risk being in the friendzone however.
good luck
MollyGalaga
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i aint bout to date a stripper, hairstylist, scammer, none of these chicks with bird ass "careers"
True Blue Moon
Superstar
I'm with you but what you got against hairstylists breh
I understand some can be birds, but you would count them in the same ballpark as thieves and strippers? Women love their hair, so they're all getting it done by someone at some point.
I'm with you but what you got against hairstylists breh
I understand some can be birds, but you would count them in the same ballpark as thieves and strippers? Women love their hair, so they're all getting it done by someone at some point.
as a side hustle its fine but if its all a chick does?
Like got a cousin from jamaica who is married to and 2 years ago had a son with dude who is an architect/designer...some shyt like that also from jamaica. sometimes his job even has him travel to places like ohio he is the one doing the most work and she stays at home. she has come up here in the summer 3 years in a row.
while she was pregnant before the baby was born, when the baby was 1, and just a couple months back when the baby was 2. used to be slim when she first met him but has gotten alot bigger. hair is literally the only thing she does and even when here she admitted right now she just does it for friends of friends or family and needs to set up a business when she goes back. 30 years old...a degree in cosmetology...
when talking on the phone with him she is acting all annoyed and shyt at him and talks to him funny style when he asks to speak to his son. i mean guy is kind of annoying with calling literally every damn sec but she just talks to him so ruthless lol
comes here and just eats and chills on social media showing us videos
i know this is one girl but like you asked...hairstylists by themselves i would not get with. i know career women arent necessarily wife material either sometimes but i think we should search for women who have a nice balance....
Why ask?
Why chase or continue to dral with someone who doesn't want to talk to you?
It's like showing up to work after you been fired.
Cut your losses and move on
Why chase or continue to dral with someone who doesn't want to talk to you?
It's like showing up to work after you been fired.
Cut your losses and move on
NeilCartwright
All Star
Cant speak on this situation but there was a lady who did my mom/sisters hair for a while before they went natural. From elementary school till my freshman yr of HS.as a side hustle its fine but if its all a chick does?
Like got a cousin from jamaica who is married to and 2 years ago had a son with dude who is an architect/designer...some shyt like that also from jamaica. sometimes his job even has him travel to places like ohio he is the one doing the most work and she stays at home. she has come up here in the summer 3 years in a row.
while she was pregnant before the baby was born, when the baby was 1, and just a couple months back when the baby was 2. used to be slim when she first met him but has gotten alot bigger. hair is literally the only thing she does and even when here she admitted right now she just does it for friends of friends or family and needs to set up a business when she goes back. 30 years old...a degree in cosmetology...
when talking on the phone with him she is acting all annoyed and shyt at him and talks to him funny style when he asks to speak to his son. i mean guy is kind of annoying with calling literally every damn sec but she just talks to him so ruthless lol
comes here and just eats and chills on social media showing us videos
i know this is one girl but like you asked...hairstylists by themselves i would not get with. i know career women arent necessarily wife material either sometimes but i think we should search for women who have a nice balance....
The lady was decent enough. Had her own shop, clientele, black business
Id just read it the person. There was women who work dead end jobs with no ambition, and there are women who do hair with ambition.
There are alot of birds who get a cosmetology degree just for the hell of it though
Mainevent_7
Pro
I went on a date with a former stripper. Top 3 dates I ever been on.
nope, just let that hoe be. hoes like that love the attention
MollyGalaga
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Asked her why she deleted me and she said from snap? Well we dont even talk
MollyGalaga
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fukk that closure
i want to fukc this broad