Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Traveling to PR for a week this came at a perfect time for me because needed to escape the city for a while and I need to re-evaluate the relationships I have with women
 

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as a side hustle its fine but if its all a chick does? :beli:

Like got a cousin from jamaica who is married to and 2 years ago had a son with dude who is an architect/designer...some shyt like that also from jamaica. sometimes his job even has him travel to places like ohio he is the one doing the most work and she stays at home. she has come up here in the summer 3 years in a row.

while she was pregnant before the baby was born, when the baby was 1, and just a couple months back when the baby was 2. used to be slim when she first met him but has gotten alot bigger. hair is literally the only thing she does and even when here she admitted right now she just does it for friends of friends or family and needs to set up a business when she goes back. 30 years old...a degree in cosmetology...

when talking on the phone with him she is acting all annoyed and shyt at him and talks to him funny style when he asks to speak to his son. i mean guy is kind of annoying with calling literally every damn sec but she just talks to him so ruthless lol

comes here and just eats and chills on social media showing us videos :mjlol:

i know this is one girl but like you asked...hairstylists by themselves i would not get with. i know career women arent necessarily wife material either sometimes but i think we should search for women who have a nice balance....
The chick you mention could be like that with any profession though. What if she owns her own shop or rents a chair in a shop, coming home with cash in her pocket everyday? I get the hairstylist/bird stereotype but I think it's also kind of a slippery slope to look down on women for doing feminine things. I'm all for my medical, academia, engineering sistas too, but I guess I'm more worried about the vibe of a woman and her ability to hold down the crib and raise kids than holding her to the standard of how I'd compete with another dude.

As long as she's not a bird of course. I just thought it was unfair of breh to lump a woman getting an honest dollar in with bytches that run credit card scams.
 

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So I've had desert dikk for maybe a lil over a month...

Me n my girl Broke up around Halloween :mjcry:


So I went on a dating app n found a bytch that lived maybe 5-10 mins away from my crib...

She sent some pic on snap n iMessage n all that... she looked AIIIIGGGGHHHTTT

Good enough to crack at least...

So we talked during the week and set up plans for her to come to my spot tonight....


When she got here I went outside... my street lights ain't that bright and the car was dark...

But as soon as I got in her whip I was :mjcry::sadcam: On the inside.....

This bytch was poppped... about 20-25 lbs bigger then her pics and the filters really changed how she looked..

But like I said I ain't had any p*ssy in over a month so I made the executive decision to bring her in the crib and crack...


I put a movie on and shortly after I got topped off and she swallowed which was a positive...

Then 10 mins later my dikk was still hard so I ended up crackin too :mjcry:


After that she got to talking about just stayin the night since she only lives about 5 mins away...


That's when I hit my guy n told him "I need the CALL".. He hit me back n said "BET"

About 5 seconds later I get a call from him and put it on speaker phone and he's tellin me his cars fukkdd up n I gotta go pick him up :mjgrin:


She must've knew what if was cuz she immideataly grabbed her shyt and I proceded to walk her out and say goodbye:salute:



Now damn this popped bytch got me in my feelings about my ex... like damn my ex was fine as hell and I would've never even GLANCED at this bytch I just cracked and now here I am fukkin her :mjcry:


This shyt makes me wanna order two dozen roses and a promise ring to my ex....


I feel horrible and defeated :snoop:p

Same shyt happened to me last night lol my dikk took the driving wheel and made me talk to a girl on pof. As soon as i smashed , i just felt dirty and disappointed with myself :mjcry: she ended up spending the night and i was just counting down the minutes until she left. :snoop:
 

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Same shyt happened to me last night lol my dikk took the driving wheel and made me talk to a girl on pof. As soon as i smashed , i just felt dirty and disappointed with myself :mjcry: she ended up spending the night and i was just counting down the minutes until she left. :snoop:
You couldn't get her to leave :mjcry:



* post nut clarity is a bytch with a BAD bytch... but got DAMN when it's a popped bytch you feel :scust::hubie::snoop: lookin at her laying there...
 
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Is it weird if you find the snapchat of a girl you've semi-interacted with in the past but she never gave it to u and u hit her up:lupe:
Is that stalkerish:lupe:
 

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Had a girl i was fcking for about 3 months. She was pressing me about a relationship and she finally blew up yesterday. Sent me 5 long ass paragraphs through text talking bout how i dont appreciate her etc. Even though there are other women im dealing with who are cool with just being friends and hooking up every now and then....:francis:

I told her i was busy with class and work. And i only have 4 months left in this city until i have to move for my job. She has one more yr left in school and im graduating in May. So why would i get attached to someone when im leaving so soon:skip:

And i felt like she had no kinda ambition. Doesn't work, isnt trying to get any internships popping. From the southside of ATL. Has daddy issues too:childplease:

Am i wrong for not wanting a bum chick:hubie:
 

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Had a girl i was fcking for about 3 months. She was pressing me about a relationship and she finally blew up yesterday. Sent me 5 long ass paragraphs through text talking bout how i dont appreciate her etc. Even though there are other women im dealing with who are cool with just being friends and hooking up every now and then....:francis:

I told her i was busy with class and work. And i only have 4 months left in this city until i have to move for my job. She has one more yr left in school and im graduating in May. So why would i get attached to someone when im leaving so soon:skip:

And i felt like she had no kinda ambition. Doesn't work, isnt trying to get any internships popping. From the southside of ATL. Has daddy issues too:childplease:

Am i wrong for not wanting a bum chick:hubie:
you did the right thing bruh. i remember a girl i was seeing and tryna warm up to the idea of long distance relationships with blew up on me similarly earlier this year. talking about i wasted her time and emotions and shyt

1) it was only like 4 months she wasted.If she enjoyed the time we spent how was it a waste? 2) It aint my fault that I'm so suave/a catch that you fell in love with me :manny:. I always kept it real with her so that shyt was annoying. I coulda just said I'd be in a relationship with her and did my thing when she left for school. Girls will always play victim if things don't go their way. Nevermind whether you did the right thing or not...if it doesnt go their way youre a fukkboy
 
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You fukked up :ufdup:

Yep. Anytime a chick takes you off her social media, NEVER question it. NEVER. I have done stupid shyt in the past by speaking on why shorty would do that.

If I was dude, I would let her delete me and interpret it as "fukk you". :yeshrug:

Cancel her and go on to the next one.

Only way she gone come back to your social media if she actually fukks with you. But, since I don't see that really going on with homie in this case, nikka is gonna have to bite the bullet and take that L.
 
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