Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[NO-BadAzz]

So I got my first job offer out of college(Atlanta) in another city (Chicago) making amazing money,like more than my parents combined, but my feelings for a chick got me second guessing taking it. I'd be a dumb ass to not take the offer but I keep thinking, 'what if'?

Anyone been in this kinda situation and can talk some sense into a young bull?

If she's feeling the same way about you, she'll tell you to take the job and join you...

If you are the only one with the feeling, then you will lose out on a good chance to make good money.

Take the job breh

 

[Mr210]

So I got my first job offer out of college(Atlanta) in another city (Chicago) making amazing money,like more than my parents combined, but my feelings for a chick got me second guessing taking it. I'd be a dumb ass to not take the offer but I keep thinking, 'what if'?

Anyone been in this kinda situation and can talk some sense into a young bull?

Take the job breh

 

[PLK]

Why are you talking to bytches from your job anyways, and even if you do you're trying to go on dates during work hours?

What's the book called breh?

 

[Mainevent_7]

So I got my first job offer out of college(Atlanta) in another city (Chicago) making amazing money,like more than my parents combined, but my feelings for a chick got me second guessing taking it. I'd be a dumb ass to not take the offer but I keep thinking, 'what if'?

Anyone been in this kinda situation and can talk some sense into a young bull?

If you aren't married or have kids with this women, take the job. You be a fool to not take a good job to better your life because of a women.

 

[MikelArteta]

Take the job, your young this woman won't be around in a year trust me.

Unless she's your wife and you have kids take the damn job

So I got my first job offer out of college(Atlanta) in another city (Chicago) making amazing money,like more than my parents combined, but my feelings for a chick got me second guessing taking it. I'd be a dumb ass to not take the offer but I keep thinking, 'what if'?

Anyone been in this kinda situation and can talk some sense into a young bull?

 

[Soundbwoy]

So I got my first job offer out of college(Atlanta) in another city (Chicago) making amazing money,like more than my parents combined, but my feelings for a chick got me second guessing taking it. I'd be a dumb ass to not take the offer but I keep thinking, 'what if'?

Anyone been in this kinda situation and can talk some sense into a young bull?

Take the job
"You lose money chasing women, never lose women chasing money"

 

[Turbulent]

So I got my first job offer out of college(Atlanta) in another city (Chicago) making amazing money,like more than my parents combined, but my feelings for a chick got me second guessing taking it. I'd be a dumb ass to not take the offer but I keep thinking, 'what if'?

Anyone been in this kinda situation and can talk some sense into a young bull?

even if this was your girl i would tell you take the job. You're saying this is a chick that's not even your girl??

 

[FukyourFort]

So I got my first job offer out of college(Atlanta) in another city (Chicago) making amazing money,like more than my parents combined, but my feelings for a chick got me second guessing taking it. I'd be a dumb ass to not take the offer but I keep thinking, 'what if'?

Anyone been in this kinda situation and can talk some sense into a young bull?

Gotta take that job breh

 

[Bless't]

I'll say this sure someone can get sick out of blue if ate something bad within a certain time cuz happened too me and seen it happen to people

Now having said that her ass was looking for we'll I hope u get better type of response if it was legit
Could u of said that sure
Did u need to fukk No
For the simple fact some people just aren't like that anyways to say that

Second her txt saying that response was uncalled for

And u even replied u don't feel that type gave her the answer she needed

Also she just mad cuz u ain't babying her or giving long replies

Finally most likely scenario is she not sick and just cancelled which stands the reason u handle it properly regardless

I only brought up the hypothetical bout her being sick cuz rare case even then u still handled it properly

So u did well imo

U nicer than me
If I feel u flake it's off the bat unless u got a legit excuse simple as that

Clear a spot on my roster while she getting released to the bushes

 

[Bless't]

I've realized that the worst thing you can do to someone is not provide them with closure. I have a situation from 5 years ago that STILL fukks with me randomly in my current life. All because I can't make sense of the "why"

So, in return I've been hitting chicks with no closure as well. It sucks and I know it hurts but At least none of them wasted years and were in love with me. At this point an explanation is a privilege.

It's funny how heartbreak makes you a savage.

Well put. I agree.

 

[Rich Spirit]

Ok so we all know about the 3 date rule. If you havent fukked by the 3rd date to just call it a loss with the girl..

What i wanted to ask yall about is kissing...obviously you should only be going on dates" with girls your looking for a relationship in the first place...

But can you guys tell me what you do with the kissing aspect? would you say its best to do that on the first date?

sorry for sounding like a square....but im a square

we all help each other in here no matter how silly we sound. just wanted to ask you guys perspective on that.

It depends how the date goes. If we vibing and enjoying each other's company, then I'll go for the kiss at the end. No harm in doing it. You're a man, make a move

 

[lamont614]

You're in scarcity right now breh. Get into abundance. Meaning if there's one there's more. Plenty more.

Don't cope, thrive. Would you be hurt if every day you offered a chick a million bucks and she had excuses on why she didn't want it. You'd be sad for a minute cuz you can see how perfect that money would be in her life but would quickly realize that's on her and if she can't recognize that it could change her life she probably wouldn't do right by the money anyway. So why stress yourself out over a chick not being ready to step her game up? At the end of the day you're still the shyt cuz you over flow with abundance to share with anyone giving you good energy.

 

[lamont614]

You're coming off as desperate which is boosting her ego

you right

 

[360dagod]

Ok so we all know about the 3 date rule. If you havent fukked by the 3rd date to just call it a loss with the girl..

What i wanted to ask yall about is kissing...obviously you should only be going on dates" with girls your looking for a relationship in the first place...

But can you guys tell me what you do with the kissing aspect? would you say its best to do that on the first date?

sorry for sounding like a square....but im a square

we all help each other in here no matter how silly we sound. just wanted to ask you guys perspective on that.

there are no rules to dating...you go with the flow you feel...

men give limits and rules based on what they are investing monetary wise vs the return...

Within 3 dates she has to show some signs that she's invested..i agree..Even if its cooking for a nikka...I know p*ssy is the endgame, but a female who cooks for you is more invested than a female who gives you vagina

A date is another word for a hangout..even thots get taken out

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Ive been approaching/ talking/ getting rejected by chicks non stop and been getting the "I have a bf" line or fake numbers(not even fake, they just txt me pretending that they do not know who I am. I'm not going to convince no chick to get with me, she down or she isn't) My town fukking sucks. I can pull in Tampa and other cities, but my own town is just full of white folks. I just want a team of chicks I can call up and smash not interested in a girlfriend.