Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Straw Hat Luffy
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Guys you've ever lost your mojo? Like I don't know how. But I've completely lost all ability to smash a chick man. Its really fukked up. I've encountered zero p*ssy since the summer. Looking back to all the times I got girls towards now not being able to even hold a conversation with a girl without thinking "what do I say next?!" Is like watching MVP Derrick Rose turn into injury prone derrick rose missing games for the Knicks derrick rose.
shyt is fukking me up. Felt like the other day I was hooking up with chicks or having a gf or low key talking to a woman in her 40s. Now I legit have nothing.
In my mind its like I'm a virgin who girls don't find attractive or even want but at the same time I'm ignoring all the times I've smashed a chick or a girl actually liked me or who sent me nudes.
Its like I'm a total different person from that time. All of my characteristics are completely gone from the old me. And I just look back at how did I do that? Like I've become a real softy and sensitive dude over thinking every thing and worrying for some reason.
I'm not saying I want to go back to my ways entirely. I just need a female or 2 to smash or at least have convos with, feel me?
Now I've been thinking the major reason I've lost a step in dealing with women has to be my lifestyle. And the more I think about my life style my major issues are: 1.) I've become fat and lazy who never works out 2.) A huge porn addict 3.) My mental state over the situation
For number 3. It's really two things. The consent thing that feminist have pushed hard recently is stuck in my head. Instead of going for a kiss I end up thinking should I ask for one or if we might end up fukking I think to myself will she wake up and change her mind instead of hoping she doesn't think this mean we on in a relationship. And the other reason why is my father life is complete shyt because he has to many kids from to many women. Dude legit is a walking time bomb who hates his life who basically lives to make sure he can support all of the children. And that shyt scares me I'd end up like him.
Thoughts... Advice. Responses anything please.
shyt is fukking me up. Felt like the other day I was hooking up with chicks or having a gf or low key talking to a woman in her 40s. Now I legit have nothing.
In my mind its like I'm a virgin who girls don't find attractive or even want but at the same time I'm ignoring all the times I've smashed a chick or a girl actually liked me or who sent me nudes.
Its like I'm a total different person from that time. All of my characteristics are completely gone from the old me. And I just look back at how did I do that? Like I've become a real softy and sensitive dude over thinking every thing and worrying for some reason.
I'm not saying I want to go back to my ways entirely. I just need a female or 2 to smash or at least have convos with, feel me?
Now I've been thinking the major reason I've lost a step in dealing with women has to be my lifestyle. And the more I think about my life style my major issues are: 1.) I've become fat and lazy who never works out 2.) A huge porn addict 3.) My mental state over the situation
For number 3. It's really two things. The consent thing that feminist have pushed hard recently is stuck in my head. Instead of going for a kiss I end up thinking should I ask for one or if we might end up fukking I think to myself will she wake up and change her mind instead of hoping she doesn't think this mean we on in a relationship. And the other reason why is my father life is complete shyt because he has to many kids from to many women. Dude legit is a walking time bomb who hates his life who basically lives to make sure he can support all of the children. And that shyt scares me I'd end up like him.
Thoughts... Advice. Responses anything please.
Nuke Dukem
Da Bears
Okay.. so I met this poor great value version of Rihanna on a dating site maybe a month or 2 ago.. now I'm not looking to make her my wife but I do wanna fuuuuck pretty bad...
We snap n text sometimes right... I haven't met her in person yet, but she's been wanting to.. So here's the situation
-She lives about 45 mins away, on a decent traffic type of day...
-She has a kid so the kick it has to be coordinated with when she can find a sitter, so no spur of the moment shyt
- She lives with family, so no kicking it at her crib
-She don't have a car at the moment, so I'd have to pick her ass up...
She did say she'd be down to get a hotel room, but then she said if I got the room she doesn't wanna feel like she's obligated to fukk me.. I told her honestly Ima be pissed if I pay for a room and I'm just sitting there lookin at her .. so I came up with a compromise. I said let how about you pay or we go half on the hotel since she might be choosey suzy when it gets down to fukkin.. she said let's just stick with dinner and drinks at first then..
My thing now is, I'm about 85% sure I could finess the p*ssy outta her after some food/drinks/smoke...
But then I think
- I gotta drive all that way ($20 in gas)
- gotta pay for food ($35 for the both of us)
- gotta pay for drinks ( I don't really drink like outside the crib but let's say they're $6 each so $24 for drinks)
- might have to pay for the room (between $60-100 for the night)
20+35+24+60= low end I'm lookin at $140 and the p*ssy ain't even guaranteed ...
We snap n text sometimes right... I haven't met her in person yet, but she's been wanting to.. So here's the situation
-She lives about 45 mins away, on a decent traffic type of day...
-She has a kid so the kick it has to be coordinated with when she can find a sitter, so no spur of the moment shyt
- She lives with family, so no kicking it at her crib
-She don't have a car at the moment, so I'd have to pick her ass up...
She did say she'd be down to get a hotel room, but then she said if I got the room she doesn't wanna feel like she's obligated to fukk me.. I told her honestly Ima be pissed if I pay for a room and I'm just sitting there lookin at her .. so I came up with a compromise. I said let how about you pay or we go half on the hotel since she might be choosey suzy when it gets down to fukkin.. she said let's just stick with dinner and drinks at first then..
My thing now is, I'm about 85% sure I could finess the p*ssy outta her after some food/drinks/smoke...
But then I think
- I gotta drive all that way ($20 in gas)
- gotta pay for food ($35 for the both of us)
- gotta pay for drinks ( I don't really drink like outside the crib but let's say they're $6 each so $24 for drinks)
- might have to pay for the room (between $60-100 for the night)
20+35+24+60= low end I'm lookin at $140 and the p*ssy ain't even guaranteed ...
Rich Spirit
#LeveledUp
4North1Side2
Banned
Lol why can't you chill at your spot? You making this a whole lot more complicated than it needs to be. $20 in gas a day? Lol WTF are you driving that eats up gas like that.
Why do you have to pay for food and drinks? She's a grown ass able bodied human with a p*ssy, she's not broke.
Actually6Foot3
Veteran
This is what I'm thinking too honestly.
I'd tell her to bring her own bread since she ain't even fukkin. He shouldn't feel obligated to pay
especially if he's going 45 minutes or and paying for everything and driving 45 minutes back with a dry dikk? fukk that. 
Nuke Dukem
Da Bears
She's been on the roster .. and I usually just end up texting or snapping with her when I'm bored...
I haven't been putting in any real effort until I know for sure Ima fukk, and since she's been iffy on fukkin I haven't slid thru
She seems like a freak tho.. showing her nip rings to me on snap and all that tho lol
Kinda going thru the same thing...Somewhat...
I think you tend to overthink shyt just like me..when i was a younger one, i had all the energy in the world, but my game was so raw...but my energy overcame that
Like i jumped out the window halfway and had success, so why am i timid about jumping out the window fully?I've become too humbled and since im basically a loner, i dont have that energy to bounce off of
I just want 2 or 3 strong i can rock with...but my ego wants 5 or 6 and i end up pushing joints away because my head is all fukked up..
As your game becomes more refined, you tend to read the situation and either push back or fall back..
All im doing is open my eyes wide as possible and getting my game dusted off...
Im almost 30 and im in a better state of mind which gives off better vibes..
Straw Hat Luffy
Veteran
Kinda going thru the same thing...Somewhat...
I think you tend to overthink shyt just like me..when i was a younger one, i had all the energy in the world, but my game was so raw...but my energy overcame that
Like i jumped out the window halfway and had success, so why am i timid about jumping out the window fully?I've become too humbled and since im basically a loner, i dont have that energy to bounce off of
I just want 2 or 3 strong i can rock with...but my ego wants 5 or 6 and i end up pushing joints away because my head is all fukked up..
As your game becomes more refined, you tend to read the situation and either push back or fall back..
All im doing is open my eyes wide as possible and getting my game dusted off...
Im almost 30 and im in a better state of mind which gives off better vibes..
Dog exactly. I went from "say that wild shyt" to "don't say that." My entire mindset change. shyt wild af. The positive I look at is that I want I have no kids or female drama situation. shyt a blessing. But when you at the family events when all the dope ass older relatives asking how many girls you hitting and your response is "
i'm focused on school."
Dog exactly. I went from "say that wild shyt" to "don't say that." My entire mindset change. shyt wild af. The positive I look at is that I want I have no kids or female drama situation. shyt a blessing. But when you at the family events when all the dope ass older relatives asking how many girls you hitting and your response is "
i'm focused on school."
Its all an ego thing...
Your fighting against your ego breh..
i have women in my contacts that i think about kicking the tires on, but after i do that, then what
Then you gotta devote time to them etc...
i want to have my cake and eat it too at my own terms
That's too much money and work
shyt I smashed girls who lived with their parents no fukks given
Even then any girl that was out distance paid for the room and gas food for me cuz they were like I know u drove a decent distance its the least I could do then even let me smashed anyways
Bottom line if it's too much wrk not worth it especially 2 months in
I refuse to spend that much on a woman to do that much driving or work for a damn convo or a kiss or even that friend zone kiss on the cheek
And any female that says I'm not letting u smash is full of shyt
I have smash 100% any female that said that shyt and I wasn't even trying
They say that shyt to come off as conservative or I'm not like that but what they saying is I will let u smash if u show ur worthwhile imo
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
Girl I been seeing for the past 3-4 months became distant the last few weeks & told me to move on.
The last two girls I have dated have done the same. They find me exciting the first few months then quickly get bored. I guess maybe I hangout with them too much.
Im totally single, no potentials or anyone Im talking to.
The last two girls I have dated have done the same. They find me exciting the first few months then quickly get bored. I guess maybe I hangout with them too much.
Im totally single, no potentials or anyone Im talking to.
Crayola Coyote
Superstar
If ur elite at approaching women and talking too them u will be fine
If not don't bother won't end well for u
No! do bother. That how you get better at talking to women in grocery stores.