Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mr210]

You were lost once in this thread too negro

Yes I know I was giving props to the guys in here....there are a lot of lost people in this world so the fact that the guys in here are trying to learn and better themselves is a good thing. No one is above trying to better themselves

 

[Dreamzeedream]

I want me a Lil cougar

 

[twan83]

What are some qualities you look for in a wifeable woman?

Ive got some women im dealing with. And in my mind im like "Yea id fck, but i cant see myself long term with this person. Id get tired of waking up next to them everyday."

Like they look good enough to get their back blown out but not relationship material. What makes a woman wifeable to yall?

Looks aren't priority for me cuz when it was just was hell and stress and boredom

What makes a woman wifey for me
Is how she treats me
Will she be down with me in my lowest low
I have to be able to talk to her bout damn near anything cuz she is a good talker and interesting
Like is she one of my best friends in a sense
Honesty is very important even if it's brutal i will never trust a female 100% but if get to that 90-95% then we good i reserve the rest for fukkery reasons cuz I seen it all and been thru it so I don't put it past no one
Most of all how much do I enjoy spending time with u cuz I get bored way too easily


The biggest factor is not how many pros but what are ur flaws
Cuz u can have everything I want but that 1 flaw is a deal breaker

If ur flaws I see I can live with the rest of my life just need to adjust slightly ur golden

There is more im sure I can say

The looks part too me is cuz looks fade but a female treating me good means way more cuz that can be higher chance of lasting

I've been with some fine ass females but man I was cuz they brought nothing to the table to keep me preoccupied it's y
I tried all types and by chance she is a fine female even better it's a bonus

I'm more attracted to a woman's personality than her looks

 

[AlwaysLurkin]

For some reason I attract 18-20 year olds Why I can't get a decent 24 plus chick

 

[Rell Lauren]

What are some qualities you look for in a wifeable woman?

Ive got some women im dealing with. And in my mind im like "Yea id fck, but i cant see myself long term with this person. Id get tired of waking up next to them everyday."

Like they look good enough to get their back blown out but not relationship material. What makes a woman wifeable to yall?

Looks. Doesn't have to be a dime. Cute works for me.
She has passions and goals.
How she treats other people. Girl I work with has this trait locked down. Her being attractive puts her over the top.
Sense of empathy.

On an unrelated note, since the only women I interact are those I work with, it's a little wild how young the girls I work with are. I'll be 29 and a good portion of them are 22 and 23. I'm attracted to a couple and could definitely see myself in a relationship with one.

 

[Neil Tyson]

 

[MAGNETO.]

What are some qualities you look for in a wifeable woman?

Ive got some women im dealing with. And in my mind im like "Yea id fck, but i cant see myself long term with this person. Id get tired of waking up next to them everyday."

Like they look good enough to get their back blown out but not relationship material. What makes a woman wifeable to yall?

Need to find out what her insecurities are and what she values.

I don't compromise as much as I used to.

Otherwise I end up disappointed in them.

 

[kevm3]

Looks aren't priority for me cuz when it was just was hell and stress and boredom

What makes a woman wifey for me
Is how she treats me
Will she be down with me in my lowest low
I have to be able to talk to her bout damn near anything cuz she is a good talker and interesting
Like is she one of my best friends in a sense
Honesty is very important even if it's brutal i will never trust a female 100% but if get to that 90-95% then we good i reserve the rest for fukkery reasons cuz I seen it all and been thru it so I don't put it past no one
Most of all how much do I enjoy spending time with u cuz I get bored way too easily


The biggest factor is not how many pros but what are ur flaws
Cuz u can have everything I want but that 1 flaw is a deal breaker

If ur flaws I see I can live with the rest of my life just need to adjust slightly ur golden

There is more im sure I can say

The looks part too me is cuz looks fade but a female treating me good means way more cuz that can be higher chance of lasting

I've been with some fine ass females but man I was cuz they brought nothing to the table to keep me preoccupied it's y
I tried all types and by chance she is a fine female even better it's a bonus

I'm more attracted to a woman's personality than her looks

Personality definitely matters. It's just amazing how much more pleasant the experience of dealing with a woman is when she's about you and not afraid to show it and you can actually converse with her.

 

[Mr210]

Personality definitely matters. It's just amazing how much more pleasant the experience of dealing with a woman is when she's about you and not afraid to show it and you can actually converse with her.

Cosign this, I have never laughed as much with a gf like I have with my current gf nor have I learned as much

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

For some reason I attract 18-20 year olds Why I can't get a decent 24 plus chick

This.

I don't know why these young girls want me more then a chick in her mid-20s. Either that or they are in their late 30. But the mid20 ones act like they too good for a nikka unless they are chubby to fat.

 

[twan83]

This.

I don't know why these young girls want me more then a chick in her mid-20s. Either that or they are in their late 30. But the mid20 ones act like they too good for a nikka unless they are chubby to fat.

Young girls like older dudes cuz dudes in same age too immature and don't have shyt together that's y
Mid 20s just expect too much outta a breh or they just want a a$$hole bf not a nice guy
Just how the game works breh

 

[Shadow King]

The humbling I've had since deciding to work on me my mother says I'm hard on myself but I just tell it like it is.

Women try waaaayyyyy too hard to make sure u notice them.

Them sounds like handsome nikka problems

I want me a Lil cougar

Me too but I gotta get diesel for them

 

[Dreamzeedream]

The humbling I've had since deciding to work on me my mother says I'm hard on myself but I just tell it like it is.


Them sounds like handsome nikka problems

Me too but I gotta get diesel for them

Whats changed and what have u learned since u decided to do that

 

[Shadow King]

Whats changed and what have u learned since u decided to do that

It's gonna sound fukked up (just the realism in me) but the entitlement is gone. I know that in my current state, I don't deserve shyt involving females, particularly ones who areally attractive or decent. We're not supposed to go "what's wrong with me why don't they like me " but I understand the concept of SMV (sexual market value) and that today I have 0 and it's up to me to get it. Now if I wanted to slide in some wildebeest maybe but even then IG got them gassed. But I understand that if I ever want access to good-looking and/or cool girls I gotta lock myself in the hyperbolic time chamber so to speak.

I frequent here to gather gems so I'm not being a dummy when the time comes but I know now is about the self work instead of tryna play the game with no tools. I do be feeling bad I can't contribute though.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

It's gonna sound fukked up (just the realism in me) but the entitlement is gone. I know that in my current state, I don't deserve shyt involving females, particularly ones who areally attractive or decent. We're not supposed to go "what's wrong with me why don't they like me " but I understand the concept of SMV (sexual market value) and that today I have 0 and it's up to me to get it. Now if I wanted to slide in some wildebeest maybe but even then IG got them gassed. But I understand that if I ever want access to good-looking and/or cool girls I gotta lock myself in the hyperbolic time chamber so to speak.

I frequent here to gather gems so I'm not being a dummy when the time comes but I know now is about the self work instead of tryna play the game with no tools. I do be feeling bad I can't contribute though.

self Improvement is key.
Don't feel bad Breh, we in the same Boat. The first Step is to be honest with tour self and that's what your doing.No matter what Stay focused.