Dreamzeedream
Banned
I'm weird 
about spending Money on women. I need to break that
about spending Money on women. I need to break that
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
- Start date
My nikka, charge it to the game or whatever, but if im mackin to a chick, I'm tryna get some cheeks and then all that other intentions can fall in whenever.
I told her maybe we can have a future, I got the buns. It's been a few weeks and we have done the "couple" thing, but in reality, I ain't feeling her like that no more, so I wanna end it. Especially since she getting clingy now
you said this joint live 3 minutes away from you..you playing with real fire..nikkas have gotten bodied over shyt like that...
You dont know her background to be playing those type of games..If she lacked a proper and loving childhood, she not gonna just charge it to the game...if she feels abandoned, you gonna have alot of headaches to deal with...
If she is 29 with no kids, you already knew where it was headed...I would have left her on the sideline
I only deal with single mothers for fwb...
BrokePhiBroke
Superstar
Spending money on a date?I'm weird
If so, you can always do dates where you don't have to spend "too much" money or dates where you don't have to spend any. Honestly, when you're getting to know a women it's not about the date itself but about getting to know each other and seeing if y'all have some commonality.
If a woman is upset because she wasn't wined and dined like some princess just move on.
This is why I love DC in the summer. You and your lady friend grab some "chic" food from a food truck and enjoy Jazz in the Garden. $20.00 worth of food for 2 people and ambient music in the background. Inexpensive yet lively. You can even walk and go see the monuments or check out a museum.
If she's interested in you then just the company will be good for her. The wining and dining comes later. Don't get the game all messed up.
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I've read some pretty good advice here so I'm just gonna lay myself bare...and it was actually one of my female friends putting me on blast.
I'm completely lacking in actual confidence but I'm able to put up a pretty great facade. I've hooked up (Quite a lot too) but it's mostly with girls who went a step above alley-ooping the p*ssy, just straight up told me, or the moments where I just had nothing to lose.
I'm a great flirt, girls/people seem to like me, and yet...I don't like myself that much. Making a move on a girl that hasn't straight up verbalized they see me sexually. But if they don't, no matter what other signals that I see...I can't make a move even in the most intimate of settings.
Went and picked up a female friend who was a little intoxicated from a party. Gorgeous girl and among the most intelligent women I've ever met. She got into the car and was dancing, twerking, and even put her hand on my thigh when we were driving. She invited me into her place because it was raining, we sat on the couch, put on music, and just chilled/talked.
Short of it, she ended up calling me out for being a p*ssy. She told me that I mask my insecurity in fake bravado and hypercompetence. That I think too much and I'm unable to open up. And she was right and I'm pretty sure she noted that way because she was giving me all the signals but I just couldn't comprehend that she saw me like that.
I dunno, brehs. It's crazy but it's true. Even when I get matched with attractive females on Tinder/Soul Swipe, I'll p*ssy out and won't even say anything on some "It's probably a bot" or "She's way outta my league so it was just an attention thing".
Insecurity is a bytch. It's hard for me to even try dancing because I imagine how goofy that shyt will look.
Edit: I'm a complete introvert.
I'm completely lacking in actual confidence but I'm able to put up a pretty great facade. I've hooked up (Quite a lot too) but it's mostly with girls who went a step above alley-ooping the p*ssy, just straight up told me, or the moments where I just had nothing to lose.
I'm a great flirt, girls/people seem to like me, and yet...I don't like myself that much. Making a move on a girl that hasn't straight up verbalized they see me sexually. But if they don't, no matter what other signals that I see...I can't make a move even in the most intimate of settings.
Went and picked up a female friend who was a little intoxicated from a party. Gorgeous girl and among the most intelligent women I've ever met. She got into the car and was dancing, twerking, and even put her hand on my thigh when we were driving. She invited me into her place because it was raining, we sat on the couch, put on music, and just chilled/talked.
Short of it, she ended up calling me out for being a p*ssy. She told me that I mask my insecurity in fake bravado and hypercompetence. That I think too much and I'm unable to open up. And she was right and I'm pretty sure she noted that way because she was giving me all the signals but I just couldn't comprehend that she saw me like that.
I dunno, brehs. It's crazy but it's true. Even when I get matched with attractive females on Tinder/Soul Swipe, I'll p*ssy out and won't even say anything on some "It's probably a bot" or "She's way outta my league so it was just an attention thing".
Insecurity is a bytch. It's hard for me to even try dancing because I imagine how goofy that shyt will look.
Edit: I'm a complete introvert.
I've read some pretty good advice here so I'm just gonna lay myself bare...and it was actually one of my female friends putting me on blast.
I'm completely lacking in actual confidence but I'm able to put up a pretty great facade. I've hooked up (Quite a lot too) but it's mostly with girls who went a step above alley-ooping the p*ssy, just straight up told me, or the moments where I just had nothing to lose.
I'm a great flirt, girls/people seem to like me, and yet...I don't like myself that much. Making a move on a girl that hasn't straight up verbalized they see me sexually. But if they don't, no matter what other signals that I see...I can't make a move even in the most intimate of settings.
Went and picked up a female friend who was a little intoxicated from a party. Gorgeous girl and among the most intelligent women I've ever met. She got into the car and was dancing, twerking, and even put her hand on my thigh when we were driving. She invited me into her place because it was raining, we sat on the couch, put on music, and just chilled/talked.
Short of it, she ended up calling me out for being a p*ssy. She told me that I mask my insecurity in fake bravado and hypercompetence. That I think too much and I'm unable to open up. And she was right and I'm pretty sure she noted that way because she was giving me all the signals but I just couldn't comprehend that she saw me like that.
I dunno, brehs. It's crazy but it's true. Even when I get matched with attractive females on Tinder/Soul Swipe, I'll p*ssy out and won't even say anything on some "It's probably a bot" or "She's way outta my league so it was just an attention thing".
Insecurity is a bytch. It's hard for me to even try dancing because I imagine how goofy that shyt will look.
Edit: I'm a complete introvert.
What are your hobbies? I don't want to rehash my last few replies in here, but it sounds like your issue is coming from a different place. As an introvert, your strength is being able to get shyt done because you don't require being around other people. Don't know what your goals are, but having a few goals and accomplishing them will likely give you a natural boost. It needs to be something thats tough enough you will fail at a few times on the path to achieving it.
This might be my problem. I'm good at a lot of things but I'm not passionate about anything anymore.
Trapperman Dave
Basil Fawty
Brehs my homie got fukked over by this chick he was messing with 
he said he saw some of the signs but he ignored them. Now he setback cause of it.
he said he saw some of the signs but he ignored them. Now he setback cause of it.
knickscrusaderm
lead by example
Details?Brehs my homie got fukked over by this chick he was messing with
I've read some pretty good advice here so I'm just gonna lay myself bare...and it was actually one of my female friends putting me on blast.
I'm completely lacking in actual confidence but I'm able to put up a pretty great facade. I've hooked up (Quite a lot too) but it's mostly with girls who went a step above alley-ooping the p*ssy, just straight up told me, or the moments where I just had nothing to lose.
I'm a great flirt, girls/people seem to like me, and yet...I don't like myself that much. Making a move on a girl that hasn't straight up verbalized they see me sexually. But if they don't, no matter what other signals that I see...I can't make a move even in the most intimate of settings.
Went and picked up a female friend who was a little intoxicated from a party. Gorgeous girl and among the most intelligent women I've ever met. She got into the car and was dancing, twerking, and even put her hand on my thigh when we were driving. She invited me into her place because it was raining, we sat on the couch, put on music, and just chilled/talked.
Short of it, she ended up calling me out for being a p*ssy. She told me that I mask my insecurity in fake bravado and hypercompetence. That I think too much and I'm unable to open up. And she was right and I'm pretty sure she noted that way because she was giving me all the signals but I just couldn't comprehend that she saw me like that.
I dunno, brehs. It's crazy but it's true. Even when I get matched with attractive females on Tinder/Soul Swipe, I'll p*ssy out and won't even say anything on some "It's probably a bot" or "She's way outta my league so it was just an attention thing".
Insecurity is a bytch. It's hard for me to even try dancing because I imagine how goofy that shyt will look.
Edit: I'm a complete introvert.
Its just a phase bro, I was in the same position as you before. Just change the way you tihnk of yourself. Think of yourself as a dime.
Also watch Coach Corey Wayne 'Essential Fundamentals' playlist
you are what you think my nikka, you gotta fake it till you make it
Trapperman Dave
Basil Fawty
Basically she wasn't about shyt. He ignored the signs first she did some dumb shyt. She ain't got a car or phone so she calls from random numbers and she pops up at his place. He only talked to her because of the first chick he was talking to him and her were on a break or whatever. Just an all around fukked up situation.
BrokePhiBroke
Superstar
If she's interested she's not watching the actual date. Before you know it your not even spending money y'all just walking and talking.
Trapperman Dave
Basil Fawty
Dealing with women who don't have things is a big red flag.
Man just work on you and keep a few chicks around for when you need them. It is what it is. I got more women than I should. Curve most of them. Have a lot of them in the palm of my hands. And I still kick it with my ex.
Just work on yourself
Just work on yourself