Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Dushane Hill]

What exactly is your question?
I'm a woman but I can answer

It's not even a specific question but I been fukking with this girl for around a month and a half.

Every time we have a disagreement/argument it ALWAYS ends with her hysterically crying down the phone. I've never experienced anything like it.

 

[RealAssanova]

got a female coworker that i used to talk with at work. We're of the same background so we vibed quite well and she always felt close to me because of that. She always touched me...asked me shyt like what my hobbies were..worked with together with me...so i took it maybe shorty was checkin for me. She ain't my type though. Facially she cute/aight enough for nikkas to talk about her/talk to her...but naaaa.

well....i noticed she had alot of male "friends" where we work and something became just off about her. So i stopped talking to her completely. COLD. Don't even look at her either. Pretty much non-existent. Its tough because we're doing on the job training right now...and its 9 of us and she is 1 of the 9. I get along fine with every one else....i just don't fukk with her no more.

and its funny...they try to play the same thing back like oh you ignorin me...cool...i'll ignore you too. Things were cool before with everyone when she would kick it with all of us...but when its me and the rest of the group or couple of us dudes now...she doesn't come sit with us. She goes and does her own thing.

i guess i made things awkward/tense.

now couple of my brehs startin to notice how she only kicks it with them on the job but quickly leaves em when she goes home or when she goes on break or something. They also clocked i don't talk to her no more and i said... meh, it is what it is.

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

It's not even a specific question but I been fukking with this girl for around a month and a half.

Every time we have a disagreement/argument it ALWAYS ends with her hysterically crying down the phone. I've never experienced anything like it.

She has emotional issues.
I wouldn't be dealing with that a month and a half in.
She can find the help she needs with someone else.

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

got a female coworker that i used to talk with at work. We're of the same background so we vibed quite well and she always felt close to me because of that. She always touched me...asked me shyt like what my hobbies were..worked with together with me...so i took it maybe shorty was checkin for me. She ain't my type though. Facially she cute/aight enough for nikkas to talk about her/talk to her...but naaaa.

well....i noticed she had alot of male "friends" where we work and something became just off about her. So i stopped talking to her completely. COLD. Don't even look at her either. Pretty much non-existent. Its tough because we're doing on the job training right now...and its 9 of us and she is 1 of the 9. I get along fine with every one else....i just don't fukk with her no more.

and its funny...they try to play the same thing back like oh you ignorin me...cool...i'll ignore you too. Things were cool before with everyone when she would kick it with all of us...but when its me and the rest of the group or couple of us dudes now...she doesn't come sit with us. She goes and does her own thing.

i guess i made things awkward/tense.

now couple of my brehs startin to notice how she only kicks it with them on the job but quickly leaves em when she goes home or when she goes on break or something. They also clocked i don't talk to her no more and i said... meh, it is what it is.

I'm really trying to understand...

You said a lot about nothing.
Soon as you said she wasn't your type and you wasn't checking for her all that other shyt became irrelevant. You stop talking to the girl because she had alotta male friends. That's really immature. Not to mention you said you weren't checking for her.

If I misunderstood balance me out. But again, I'm seeing a person tryna make something outta nothing.

 

[RealAssanova]

I'm really trying to understand...

You said a lot about nothing.
Soon as you said she wasn't your type and you wasn't checking for her all that other shyt became irrelevant. You stop talking to the girl because she had alotta male friends. That's really immature. Not to mention you said you weren't checking for her.

If I misunderstood balance me out. But again, I'm seeing a person tryna make something outta nothing.

you right....it really is nothing.

i don't even why i even bothered posting it.

but naa...i don't talk to her because of the fact that she has alot of male friends....i just had got this odd vibe from her the more i kicked it with her. Even though i don't find her attractive at all...she still feels like she can talk to nikkas when its convenient and then ignore em when its not.

and i don't like 2 faced women regardless of their attractiveness.

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

you right....it really is nothing.

i don't even why i even bothered posting it.

but naa...i don't talk to her because of the fact that she has alot of male friends....i just had got this odd vibe from her the more i kicked it with her. Even though i don't find her attractive at all...she still feels like she can talk to nikkas when its convenient and then ignore em when its not.

and i don't like 2 faced women regardless of their attractiveness.

Ooooo ok I thought it was you who had abruptly stopped talking to her...ok yeah well fukk it.

 

[TRUEST]

It's not even a specific question but I been fukking with this girl for around a month and a half.

Every time we have a disagreement/argument it ALWAYS ends with her hysterically crying down the phone. I've never experienced anything like it.

ull be fine. lol. it cant be any worse than women that cry during sex. erection killer!

 

[Dushane Hill]

ull be fine. lol. it cant be any worse than women that cry during sex. erection killer!

Aint that classed as rape??

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

Aint that classed as rape??

Hmmm now that I reread that.

First, I thought he was talking bout like orgasmic tears.

@TRUEST what you mean?

 

[TRUEST]

Aint that classed as rape??

lol no. rape is when u fucck a girl who dont wanna be fuccked. when its a woman who begs u for sex, its different. not sure what issue she dealt with in her past, but sex was emotional for her and everytime shed be crying. i couldnt take it. it was just too weird for me.

 

[Shadow King]

Nothing will come of it but it's nice to feel a slight sense of mutual attraction

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

lol no. rape is when u fucck a girl who dont wanna be fuccked. when its a woman who begs u for sex, its different. not sure what issue she dealt with in her past, but sex was emotional for her and everytime shed be crying. i couldnt take it. it was just too weird for me.

Yeah I see.

 

[Turk]

I have a tendency to show girls too much attention (I.E. spending all day talking to them) and having them feeling me heavy just to end up retracting hard because of how my personality is structured

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

I have a tendency to show girls too much attention (I.E. spending all day talking to them) and having them feeling me heavy just to end up retracting hard because of how my personality is structured

I think we all get excited when we first start dealing with someone new.
Pace yourself.
I think when people start heavy they get bored. Y'all probably told each so much stuff in a short period of time the mystery and interest gets taken out.
Just a thought.

 

[Kokoro]

I have a tendency to show girls too much attention (I.E. spending all day talking to them) and having them feeling me heavy just to end up retracting hard because of how my personality is structured

Recipe for the friend zone IME