Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[International Playa]

It's impossible brehs literally impossible.

You can do a to y but because you don't do z.

I'd never cheat but I understand that sometimes women push men too.

What happened breh

Are u still engaged to your shawty?? How is the relationship going so far

 

[knickscrusaderm]

It's impossible brehs literally impossible.

You can do a to y but because you don't do z.

I'd never cheat but I understand that sometimes women push men too.

What happened breh

Are u still engaged to your shawty?? How is the relationship going so far

Gee Em Bee?? .

 

[1thouwow]

It's impossible brehs literally impossible.

You can do a to y but because you don't do z.

I'd never cheat but I understand that sometimes women push men too.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

I would say start acting normal around her again and play it off like it was some little shyt that he did wrong, rather than a huge back and forth and going point for point. Women don't want logical exchanges when they want to feel something from a dude. Breh can acknowledge his fukkup easily and to the point to put her mind at ease in a way that keeps the juices flowing and without turning into an apologizing simp.

i.e.

Ol' Girl:

All you do is feel on my ass and talk about sex. This is just some friendly shyt. Don't get it twisted


Breh:

Yeah, I love women and have a high sex drive. You look good so it brought the dirtbag out


Ol' Girl:

Oh, aight. Well it better not happen again

Breh:

Same goes for you


Ol' Girl:

You been acting funny these past few days. What's up wit that?

Breh:

Shiiiit, I don't know. I mighta stubbed my toe or my team mighta lost last night

But let me find out you been clockin' a nikka's movements




The major key that you should never forget about women is that when they test you, and they ALL will, not only is it nothing personal, they WANT you to pass. Most of the time, the test is the gatekeeper for her leveling up and being/doing more of what you want.

Example. Y'all have been drinking, smoking, watching movies and fukking with each other the whole time. She has your meat out playing with it, but when it comes time to take it further, she goes


Ol' Girl:

I'll play wit it, but I don't give head. That's nasty


Breh:

Word? I'm chillin', but you missing out. I've been told my dikk tastes like strawberry cheesecake

Ol' Girl:

NUH-UH!!!

Breh:

Do I look like I would lie? Look at this face

Ol' Girl:

You're an a$$hole


































































































I'ma suck it just a little, aight


Breh:

Aight



All a woman needs to know to feel comfortable with anything you got on the table is that you're a decent dude, solid in your word and unaffected by her bullshyt. If you show her that, she'll put full trust in you. The only tool they have to find those things out about you are tests.

If you reframe tests as opportunities instead of bullshyt, the sky is the limit

Test? Why not just charge them to the game when they are on that nonsense. I don't like women giving me test. I have no patience for it.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Aight this chick is down to meet, and all but I just wanna fukk....I suggested we "hang out and chill" and she responded hand out and chill where? Really don't wanna take her back to my place but don't wanna say get a room, cause i know some our flaky...suggestions?

Bring her back to your place, go to her place, or tell her to go half on a hotel. If she don't like all 3 charge her to the game some girl will be down. Women need to know it's a privilege that you are giving them your time.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Changed my approach again. Chicks I met at the bar this weekend gave me attitude, ignored me or just acted stupid. I saw this black girl that was with this white girl, so I walked up to her introduced myself, she looked at me up and down and told me she was on welfare. I told her "aight.. but I didn't ask what was you social economical background I asked for your name so where are you from. " I was already irritated by her response. So I ignored her and talk to the white girl but I wasn't feeling the white girl cause the whole bar was 80% white chicks. So I told them they are weird as fukk and went to the other side of the bar. This keeps happing over and over and this time I didn't ask them "how they felt about giving head" it's frustrating in this town.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Changed my approach again. Chicks I met at the bar this weekend gave me attitude, ignored me or just acted stupid. I saw this black girl that was with this white girl, so I walked up to her introduced myself, she looked at me up and down and told me she was on welfare. I told her "aight.. but I didn't ask what was you social economical background I asked for your name so where are you from. " I was already irritated by her response. So I ignored her and talk to the white girl but I wasn't feeling the white girl cause the whole bar was 80% white chicks. So I told them they are weird as fukk and went to the other side of the bar. This keeps happing over and over and this time I didn't ask them "how they felt about giving head" it's frustrating in this town.

Its something you doing wrong

 

[International Playa]

Test? Why not just charge them to the game when they are on that nonsense. I don't like women giving me test. I have no patience for it.

Every woman will test u breh

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Every woman will test u breh

Every woman can get charged to the game. I charged a lot on that testing nonsense .

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Its something you doing wrong

I just went up to them and introduced myself. How wrong is that? I can't quit cause if I do, I'll be in the same position I'm in so I have to move forward. But Idk how dudes meet women that are choosing them. It's like nobody choosing out here.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

I just went up to them and introduced myself. How wrong is that? I can't quit cause if I do, I'll be in the same position I'm in so I have to move forward. But Idk how dudes meet women that are choosing them. It's like nobody choosing out here.

You got the right mindset as far as not giving up. You only dry to Holla when your at the bar

 

[True Blue Moon]

Test? Why not just charge them to the game when they are on that nonsense. I don't like women giving me test. I have no patience for it.

Because all women do it. I don't necessarily mean test as in purposely stirring up shyt to test your love/attention, they just communicate with emotion. The sanest, most thoughtful woman is still going to do things that don't make sense to us as men. It's about knowing the difference between her being crazy or willfully stubborn and her just being a girl.

You could be with a bad ass Harvard grad scientist chick who came from a good family, well read and has only had healthy relationships with men, and when you ask her "What do you wanna eat babe?", she's gonna be like "I don't know, what do you want? ", the same as the dusty chick who runs her mouth too much will do.

They're not testing you, per se, they're just being women.

Like breh earlier who kept getting too handsy. Brehs chimed in and let him know that she wasn't necessarily trippin, he just needs to understand women a little better. Cutting chicks off for being dumb is a no-brainer, but every man who deals with women has to learn to deal with their emotional nature.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

You got the right mindset as far as not giving up. You only dry to Holla when your at the bar

Nah. I holla everywhere I go. I give my number out to the girl in the cologne and make up department at Macy's, but she never called or txt me back. I also gave my number out to a girl at Forever 21, she never called or text me back. Last night before I went out to the bar I went to the porn store and talked to this girl about .. well porn.. she told me she has a boyfriend that is a nurse. Idk breh.. but in reading dating books and some dude on here gave me a book on negotiating.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

A lot of y'all dropped advice for me for this goofy bytch I was trying to crack from work.. Here's the final update... @FLYINHAWAIIAN @Zeu$ @Dreamzeedream

@True Blue Moon already hollered at u bro





Fuuuuuck that biiiiiiiitchhhhhhhhh


First off here's something I didn't disclose in this thread.. when I first kicked it with the bytch LAST Friday, she told me how she was married to a female for 5 yrs from 19-24... she's like 26 or 27 now....

Now I asked her at the time "do you like dikk" she said yeah, so I thought "cool proceed on with trying to get this p*ssy"

So Ima give u the 3 examples of how last night was fukked up..


- she's telling me I should get a a tat and I get to asking if she got any piercings.. she's like yeah "ears, nose, nips"... so I try to finess it and say you gotta prove that you have the nip rings.. she's like "I'm not about to show you that"... so okay I move on from that


- she's pretty drunk and I'm sober and she grabs onto my beard so what do I do I grab onto her whole titty, like "you're grabbing me I'll grab you" she's like "okay I'll stop" and that reads that quick


- finally what made me realize this bytch wasn't on shyt.. she's drunk she's dancing and I'm leaning up again a wall, she gets close and I start grinding my dikk and try to grip some ass cheeks.. she stops me saying "don't be grinding and doing all that EXTRA shyt, and I told you I don't like when you touch my ass"


Welp bytch it was nice knowing you ADIOS BIIITCH... lol fr tho


I'm done with it ... I'm thinking she's just an actual dyke that hasn't come to terms yet or she's looking for company since she just moved to this stage a week or two ago and is lonely


Either way I'm not gonna be the one to put in work with all this EXTRA shyt.. it ain't even worth all that



I'm gonna use this as a learning experience though

Yeah all that "look but don't touch" shyt sound sack.


Watch when you start ignoring her she gone act like u tripping

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

You gonna feel that burn later on down the road

You still gotta explain yourself!