Yeah in hindsight, I should had went for it despite of what she said. I'm just not used to dealing with a woman like this. Even the harder to get females I dealt with in the past wasn't that tough to get. So in many ways, its like I'm off my square because I always had that confident/swagger mentality, now I don't so its like I'm 2nd guessing.
Man yall are dropping alot of game. I appreciate the help
And you're a man for being in here learning cuz most dudes egos don't allow them to. But that's why most dudes have bad luck with women.
Yeah man, and trust if you know your confidence and swag is off she can absolutely feel it -- even if she's never seen you with your swag on a trillion yet. You know how we talk about women being emotional? We talk about it in the negative sense, but never forget that women are far more emotionally intelligent than us and can sense when your vibe is off. They're in touch with their feelings early, while we're more logical and put our feelings to the side. Women's intuition is real, so you can say all the right things but even the slightest passivity in your energy is going to ring alarms much louder than any words that come out your mouth.
That's why going for that hard yes or hard no is so important. They're both good, because they give you information. A yes is good for obvious reasons, while a no lets you know whether you're wasting your time or not. If it's an emphatic
type no, you know that y'all aren't on the same page and don't want the same things out of life. If it's a girly, wishy washy
type no, where she makes up an excuse that seems silly or moves your hand off of her titty but doesn't seem cold, it probably means she's either not turned on enough yet or is trying to be a "good girl", which means all you gotta do is be like
"Word" and then wait for a little bit or change up your approach.
But either way, all it is is INFORMATION. If you treat it like information, you'll be detached from the outcome which means you have no reason not to have your swag and confidence on. If you're attached to the outcome, it means you're wanting her yes or no to validate your confidence and swag, which women take as a signal subconsciously that you're not the man you say you are, and on an animal level, not valuable enough for her to procreate with.
That's why I choose to hold men accountable, because we're always in the driver's seat for either getting what we want or recognizing it's time to move on. Women are more reactive and passive, so all they can do is give off signals. But when you learn to read the chess board and pick up on those signals your game will become gigantic
EDIT:
Shiiiit and bro don't be afraid to turn an awkward L into a W either. Being bold when you fukked up is just as sexy to a woman as not fukking up at all.
For instance, when you grabbed her face:
Ol' Girl: My dog does that
Breh: Oh yeah?
Well does your dog do this?
THEN KISS HER
This shyt is like verbal/mental jiu jitsu
You prob sound like Elliot Rodgers... fall back for a min. And take that L on backpages
12 women breh females notice that shyt real quick like y he talking to so many of them and getting rejected he seem desperate as hell hope he don't come over here too me
and 
all that shyt for a kiss I can least understand for some sex but a kiss 
at this point...I shouldn't be stressing this damn much over a woman 
