You dating women now?
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You dating women now?
m0rninggl0ry
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You got jokes now? Not at the moment. I'm speaking about me.
It's weird. I'm just not as open as I once was with men. I smile, very cordial.. But I'm not the type to be mushy/ open when I first meet a man.
m0rninggl0ry
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I'm being serious. But to answer your question, a lot of women are like that; the ones that you are attracted to. It happens often, but best to rebound asap to not feel emotionally drained. Dating is hard these days, and best for you to be straightforward on what you want.
m0rninggl0ry
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I'm being serious. But to answer your question, a lot of women are like that; the ones that you are attracted to. It happens often, but best to rebound asap to not feel emotionally drained. Dating is hard these days, and best for you to be straightforward on what you want.
I am straightforward and then the guys disappear. Well at first, they may stick around for a day or so and then leave.
Daiting is terrible. Well the process is. Example, I exchanged numbers with this guy and he told me he's In a relationship but not happy and wants to keep his options open. Lied prior saying he was single.
I don't like it, the last two girls I was talking to were exactly like that and its off-putting to me.
It's not that I like a melodramatic, overly fawning, extremely sensitive girl but the idea that their body language and mannerisms (and in some instances actions) weren't receptive to me caused me to figure that they weren't really interested, especially since I'm used to the opposite. Follow-up dates/texts/calls revealed that they were really feeling me or whatever but their actions didn't make it apparent.
I pick up on nuances and subtleties, sometimes I read into shyt but most of the time I catch shyt before it becomes a problem (I'd say I'm right 60/40).
Its not that these girls or you or whomever have problems to be honest, its simply compatibility. Just find a man that's just as non-receptive as you.
You might luck up and find someone that will actually put up, is faithful and loves you regardless but overall most men are going to treat you how they are treated. So if you act like there is no love or intimacy between you two he'll do the same. Which only is going to lead to fighting and cheating.
After being with someone like I'm with now that tells me 90 percent of how she feels, when she feels that way and why. I don't think I could ever go back to having to pull teeth to get feelings.
To answer your question short and sweet, yes you'll be able to date, no it wont be worth something long lasting until you change or find someone worth making that change for.
Story of my life breh. I can't speak for you but real talk I think I'm just ugly and/or I put out a thirsty vibe
I always get this feeling that women don't want to engage me in case I get the wrong idea and think that they are interested in me.
i got a girl like this right now. she forewarned me that she was like this so although i do like her and all that I'm not taking her seriously. if a girl isnt receptive a nikka gonna get tired of that. I dont like having to wonder and speculate where I am with a woman. I already smashed a few times so its whatever for me. Playing zone defense at this pt
m0rninggl0ry
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Ugh. I have and it was terrible. I wasn't always this way but the kart one I just mentioned made me realize that even if I was being open, I'd still get fukked over
m0rninggl0ry
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Damn. FOr clarity, maybe I am open but to be vulnerable with a man is out of the question. I'll smile or whatever but I will never tell a man how I'm really doing even if I'm breaking down inside
m0rninggl0ry
All Star
I don't know what you mean by "kart one" but I recommend that you deal with why you're reserved, (most people naturally have issues with vulnerabilities related to dating) and go from there.
Being fukked over really isn't any reason to not date. Its no different than not driving because of car accidents or flying because of plane crashes and those are worse.
If you're consistently getting fukked over, you need to go to the drawing board and look at the common denominator/you and figure out why you're choosing bad.
Maybe you need to learn to be alone first
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what do yall think about this
there's this chick at my job that hella creeps me out.
she obviously likes me, shes a receptionist (one of those people that watches the cameras amongst other things). but i have absolutely no interest in her. she's like 5'10/5'11. big and like just not attractive. shes not ugly per se, but for me, a woman has to act like a woman and behave as such for me to be attracted. she stands like a man. everytime i pass, she stares and it really makes me uncomfortable.
im not about to report her to hr or anything like that cause im not about taking foods out of someone else's mouth, especially a black person.
but what really irks me the most is, i get this bad feeling that she may be doing some voodoo or some nonsense like that. like on several occassions, id be chilling, and in the kitchen area making coffee, and she would happen to walk by. and from the corner of my eye, i can see her notice me and think "oh its him". then shed turn back and stay in the kitchen and act like that was her intended destination when i already saw her from the corner of my eye almost walking by. shes done this 3 times.
she admitted that she use to watch me on the camera - creepy.
but the crossing the line for me was, one time when i came in to the office early. i go to the bathroom, come out, and there she is just standing there in front of the bathroom door where i can directly see her. im like "what are you doing??? who u waiting for?". and she says in a playful manner "waiting for you..."?? i laughed kinda halfheartedly but sh1t bothered me.
i dont know what the hell shes thinking but she seems to think if i put myself around him, somehow he will magically realize haa, i like her.
ive had chicks like me before, but this is just scary type weird. something tells me she may be putting some sh1t on my chair where i sit. so from time to time id move that around and switch with someone else's chair.
also, when she sees me with any girl, its like i can see her seething with this anger and jealousy. and she already has an imposing figure, so most girls if they see that look on her face, they dont want any part of it.
this girl left the company several months ago and i was quite excited that ha finally shes gone. then, she comes back. and i just couldnt believe it. i hate making eye contact with her.
how would yall brehs go about this weird sh1t?
im legit worried if she continues with this sh1t, i might have to tell her to stop and that im not attracted to her one bit. and she needs to stop thinking she has a chance. but then that'll make an already awkward situation worse.
there's this chick at my job that hella creeps me out.
she obviously likes me, shes a receptionist (one of those people that watches the cameras amongst other things). but i have absolutely no interest in her. she's like 5'10/5'11. big and like just not attractive. shes not ugly per se, but for me, a woman has to act like a woman and behave as such for me to be attracted. she stands like a man. everytime i pass, she stares and it really makes me uncomfortable.
im not about to report her to hr or anything like that cause im not about taking foods out of someone else's mouth, especially a black person.
but what really irks me the most is, i get this bad feeling that she may be doing some voodoo or some nonsense like that. like on several occassions, id be chilling, and in the kitchen area making coffee, and she would happen to walk by. and from the corner of my eye, i can see her notice me and think "oh its him". then shed turn back and stay in the kitchen and act like that was her intended destination when i already saw her from the corner of my eye almost walking by. shes done this 3 times.
she admitted that she use to watch me on the camera - creepy.
but the crossing the line for me was, one time when i came in to the office early. i go to the bathroom, come out, and there she is just standing there in front of the bathroom door where i can directly see her. im like "what are you doing??? who u waiting for?". and she says in a playful manner "waiting for you..."?? i laughed kinda halfheartedly but sh1t bothered me.
i dont know what the hell shes thinking but she seems to think if i put myself around him, somehow he will magically realize haa, i like her.
ive had chicks like me before, but this is just scary type weird. something tells me she may be putting some sh1t on my chair where i sit. so from time to time id move that around and switch with someone else's chair.
also, when she sees me with any girl, its like i can see her seething with this anger and jealousy. and she already has an imposing figure, so most girls if they see that look on her face, they dont want any part of it.
this girl left the company several months ago and i was quite excited that ha finally shes gone. then, she comes back. and i just couldnt believe it. i hate making eye contact with her.
how would yall brehs go about this weird sh1t?
im legit worried if she continues with this sh1t, i might have to tell her to stop and that im not attracted to her one bit. and she needs to stop thinking she has a chance. but then that'll make an already awkward situation worse.
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