Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[StarGirl]

Nah, I get what the breh was saying tho. Your exes wasted your time, now it's on me to speed up my "get to know you and enjoy you" time and get married because of them?

Yeah @Atlrocafella but we're girls like we don't have lots of time to waste. I'm still really young so I'm cognizant of using my time wisely but her time might be running out. She might not be able to afford him the same luxury.

Kinda ironic we have a woman in this thread tryna backtrack on her words with quickness, another gem

I love that gif. But yeah

I've been trying on my new coli poster troll steez- the resident ho. You can check my recent posts if you don't believe me.

When I first signed up, I stayed in the gems thread.

 

[International Playa]

Nah, I get what the breh was saying tho. Your exes wasted your time, now it's on me to speed up my "get to know you and enjoy you" time and get married because of them?

Word, dated a single mother once, few months in she pressuring me in to marriage. She had a baby by a d-boi & been ran through by many nikkaz, none of them married her. I bet none of them nikkaz got pressured to marry but only few months in she tryna force me to marry her

 

[Mr210]

Fellas want to get your input on something

Let's say you are moving your GF car or driving it for whatever reason and you notice two empty glass bottles of sminoriff in the car, you also find 2 receipts from 2 different liquor stores on 2 different states showing alcohol was purchased and both took place during the day...You did not drink any of it with your GF

Would you ask her about it or keep it to yourself? Is it a big deal? You have yet to see any signs of her being an alcoholic or anything and when the 2 of you drink together it's typically 2-3 drinks

I'm also wondering is it normal to buy alcoholic drinks at 2 in the afternoon.

 

[Vilify]

Any of yall nikkas go out by yourself?

I did last night and it was alright...I definitely wasn't an exemplary solo flyer but I had some Blue Moons, watched the Jazz/Clippers, then vibed out to music for 2 hours

Any solo man pointers?

Even though I hate going out alone I've done it several times. In fact I have better results going out solo.

I sit by the bar and make it a point to stay off my phone so im approachable and It never fails. I get several women approaching or just standing around me in general and I spark up a convo. I've met several women this way and had a couple of one night stands. For some reason its easier for me to pull chicks when I'm alone. I'm more social and pick up signals better

 

[Buckeye Fever]

My art teacher was gay and classmates used to joke that he liked me. I was like

Then, one day, we had a project of drawing a full body portrait of a famous person. It was time for me to go in front of the class and show my drawing. The teacher was like "GREAT JOB, JEFFREY! THE HEIGHT, SKIN TONE, AND BODY TYPE ARE PERFECT. SHOULDERS ARE GREAT, AND THE HEAD IS TREMENDOUS."

Then he winked at me and told me to take a seat.

 

[Shadow King]

Even though I hate going out alone I've done it several times. In fact I have better results going out solo.

I sit by the bar and make it a point to stay off my phone so im approachable and It never fails. I get several women approaching or just standing around me in general and I spark up a convo. I've met several women this way and had a couple of one night stands. For some reason its easier for me to pull chicks when I'm alone. I'm more social and pick up signals better

Do you always go on the livest nights (Friday/Saturday) or have you been on more laid back nights? If so any difference? And there was probably an opening or two that I should've taken but I'll get better.

 

[Vilify]

Do you always go on the livest nights (Friday/Saturday) or have you been on more laid back nights? If so any difference? And there was probably an opening or two that I should've taken but I'll get better.

I go on the livest nights for sure. Since I'm going solo I would rather the venue be packed. The only awkward thing is when I'm walking through the parking lot and at the security checkpoint everybody is in groups of at least 2 or 3 and I'm alone but besides that I'm good.

Once I get in no one knows I came alone.


Now you'll definitely miss some opportunities that's normal. Only a real savage can holla at every chick in his vicinity LOL.

In fact one of my very first times going out alone I missed a major opportunity to take this chick back to the crib. She basically handed me the coochie on a silver platter but Instead I exchanged numbers with her thinking I would smash the next day...
when I called her the next day she did a complete 180 and was acting brand new

I learned from it though, I'll rather be too forward than too reserved.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Do you always go on the livest nights (Friday/Saturday) or have you been on more laid back nights? If so any difference? And there was probably an opening or two that I should've taken but I'll get better.

Man I love going out by myself. I see nothing wrong with it. If I like a particular restaurant or lounge, I don't need to call up someone to accompany me. I've gotten approached by some pretty women who came alone as well. Do what YOU want to do.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

I'm definitely going to have to embrace going out solo here. I only have a few homies who are down to make moves and sometimes our work schedules don't align on the prime nights.

 

[NeilCartwright]

Man I love going out by myself. I see nothing wrong with it. If I like a particular restaurant or lounge, I don't need to call up someone to accompany me. I've gotten approached by some pretty women who came alone as well. Do what YOU want to do.

How old are you breh? (If you don't mind me asking)

I'm assuming you're in atl too. I haven't done the solo thing in a while but I have seen some decent women who come out to some spots solo

Young girls trip on me if I'm not with my boys

 

[Turk]

These chicks I been talking to so trash at holding convos...dry af

Tired of this shyt. I need to get my money up so I can skip all this bullshyt

 

[chief_keef_stan]

These chicks I been talking to so trash at holding convos...dry af

Tired of this shyt. I need to get my money up so I can skip all this bullshyt

man my nikka most these chicks our age their texting/convo game dumb trash like nikkas talking to a rock

the games nikkas gotta play for these woes

 

[Deafheaven]

man my nikka most these chicks our age their texting/convo game dumb trash like nikkas talking to a rock

the games nikkas gotta play for these woes

chick I'm getting serious right now got two years on me (29). Its so much easier. She doesn't hold back shyt from me. Told me my dikk game wasn't getting it done (I was on cruise control cuz a chick never complained) and I actually went and researched how to get women off better to improve myself and blew her back out the other day . Now most nikkas would get mad at that but I appreciated the honesty. I remember i had a relationship where I bit my tongue on my girl not putting in work in the bedroom and that shyt buitl and built till I resented her lolololol. I like when a woman is confident enough in herself and you to tell it how it is. Young men/women don't do that I think.

 

[McPiff]

"Your exes didn't make you a wife, so don't put the pressure on me"

I heard a nicca tell his girl that this weekend, shyt was too cold

Any of yall nikkas go out by yourself?

I did last night and it was alright...I definitely wasn't an exemplary solo flyer but I had some Blue Moons, watched the Jazz/Clippers, then vibed out to music for 2 hours

Any solo man pointers?

Going out alone is GOAT.

 

[360dagod]

Don't take anything I ever say on thecoli too seriously. Issa joke. Was just trying to lighten the mood in the gems thread.

But a smart girl will start assessing her options- because that man is clearly planning to waste her time. Lucky for you guys,the market always corrects itself.

Fixed