Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I think I've been thrown to the bushes, brehs. my GF of the last 18 months came down to visit me for the weekend, goes through my phone and sees a mildly flirtatious txt message I sent. she got up and went back home in a huff and she needs time and she's blindsided and disappointed in me.
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"Your exes didn't make you a wife, so don't put the pressure on me" :dead:

I heard a nicca tell his girl that this weekend, shyt was too cold :wow:

:whew:

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I think I've been thrown to the bushes, brehs. my GF of the last 18 months came down to visit me for the weekend, goes through my phone and sees a mildly flirtatious txt message I sent. she got up and went back home in a huff and she needs time and she's blindsided and disappointed in me.
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:francis: You fukked up breh. All messages should be wiped and other women should be blocked from contacting you when your girl is around.
 

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What do you guys think about this had a chick at work randomly ask me where I live and if I wanted a ride home after work last week :patrice: We see each other around yet I've never spoke to her a day in my life. But she is pretty fine reminds me of Naturi Naughton.

I've always said I don't mess with girls at work but damn temptation is a motha :francis:
 

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I think I've been thrown to the bushes, brehs. my GF of the last 18 months came down to visit me for the weekend, goes through my phone and sees a mildly flirtatious txt message I sent. she got up and went back home in a huff and she needs time and she's blindsided and disappointed in me.
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you in a long distance relationship:jbhmm:
 

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What do you guys think about this had a chick at work randomly ask me where I live and if I wanted a ride home after work last week :patrice: We see each other around yet I've never spoke to her a day in my life. But she is pretty fine reminds me of Naturi Naughton.

I've always said I don't mess with girls at work but damn temptation is a motha :francis:
:patrice:You ain't never speak to her a day in your life and her first comments to you is for her to give you a ride home?

:patrice:Iono.
 

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:patrice:You ain't never speak to her a day in your life and her first comments to you is for her to give you a ride home?

:patrice:Iono.
lol girls dont know how to mack. she probably thought about it long and hard and was stressing herself out. so she just figured she put it out there and hopefully he'll get it. but ol boy was blindsided and didnt know what to say (cause how often are women that up front huh). but yeah i chuckled reading that. poor girl.

dude should hit her up on some friendly tip and ask her if she wants to join him for lunch (dont directly ask her) but lead the conversation to where she asks u.
 

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It's sad that I have to learn these lessons about women the hard way. I mean most people learn by getting fukked over but I just wish it was easier lol. I learned some hard lessons this past month but I'll be better for it in the future.

I'm finally over that fairytale idealised bullshyt I had in my head. I can do things I thought I didn't have the heart to now. I just wish that I could have learned these things without the harshness. I'm a different man now. I'm stronger and wiser. Most importantly I'm not afraid anymore about anybody leaving my life cause I love me. I love me so much that I'll never let anybody hurt me no matter what. No woman will ever have power over me I don't care who she is to me. I'll never need a woman more than she needs me.

I'll never bite my tongue for anybody again. I'll never move with fear over what a person is gonna do anyway. I'll always demand my respect. I'll always set a tone. I grew up so much.
 

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It's sad that I have to learn these lessons about women the hard way. I mean most people learn by getting fukked over but I just wish it was easier lol. I learned some hard lessons this past month but I'll be better for it in the future.

I'm finally over that fairytale idealised bullshyt I had in my head. I can do things I thought I didn't have the heart to now. I just wish that I could have learned these things without the harshness. I'm a different man now. I'm stronger and wiser. Most importantly I'm not afraid anymore about anybody leaving my life cause I love me. I love me so much that I'll never let anybody hurt me no matter what. No woman will ever have power over me I don't care who she is to me. I'll never need a woman more than she needs me.

I'll never bite my tongue for anybody again. I'll never move with fear over what a person is gonna do anyway. I'll always demand my respect. I'll always set a tone. I grew up so much.
:mjcry: my coli breh has found his soul,

This is what we want for all the brehs in here. :blessed: :salute:
 

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It's sad that I have to learn these lessons about women the hard way. I mean most people learn by getting fukked over but I just wish it was easier lol. I learned some hard lessons this past month but I'll be better for it in the future.

I'm finally over that fairytale idealised bullshyt I had in my head. I can do things I thought I didn't have the heart to now. I just wish that I could have learned these things without the harshness. I'm a different man now. I'm stronger and wiser. Most importantly I'm not afraid anymore about anybody leaving my life cause I love me. I love me so much that I'll never let anybody hurt me no matter what. No woman will ever have power over me I don't care who she is to me. I'll never need a woman more than she needs me.

I'll never bite my tongue for anybody again. I'll never move with fear over what a person is gonna do anyway. I'll always demand my respect. I'll always set a tone. I grew up so much.

Welcome breh...:wow:

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Me and my chick got into an argument because she was upset she found out I dated an old friend of hers looong ago(Nothing happened, just 2 dates). She kept asking silly questions about it while claiming not to care. I told her not to adk anything else. She worked herself up so much she started packing her things. I just sat back and kept watching the playoffs. She cleaned all of her shyt out of the room and stood by the door. I never looked up once. She unlocks the door, takes one step out, turns around comes back in, closes the door, and drops her things on the floor. She proceeds to walk to the living room, stand in front of the game with her arms crossed, and says "you were just gonna let me leave? You weren't gonna stop me? You don't care about me!"

I said so nonchalantly "Nope. Now can you please step to the side in watching the game"

So she steps to the side, and now she's starting to cry at this point..so I asked her what she was crying for. She said "You don't care about this relationship because you were willing to let me walk out, without trying to stop me!" "If you cared you would have stoped me!"

I told her straight up like this.."If u want to leave, then leave. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me. You're the one who doesn't care if you're willing to walk out on the relationship"

She said "so you wouldn't miss me?"

I replied "I would, but I'd get over it"

She went into the room and locked the door for about 30 mins, then came back out and started picking up her things from the floor and putting them back in the room. After she finished she came back out on her KNEES! Begging me to forgive her.

I'm not begging anyone to stay in my life..if you want to leave, get gone.
 
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