Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Apollo Kid]

Me and my chick got into an argument because she was upset she found out I dated an old friend of hers looong ago(Nothing happened, just 2 dates). She kept asking silly questions about it while claiming not to care. I told her not to adk anything else. She worked herself up so much she started packing her things. I just sat back and kept watching the playoffs. She cleaned all of her shyt out of the room and stood by the door. I never looked up once. She unlocks the door, takes one step out, turns around comes back in, closes the door, and drops her things on the floor. She proceeds to walk to the living room, stand in front of the game with her arms crossed, and says "you were just gonna let me leave? You weren't gonna stop me? You don't care about me!"

I said so nonchalantly "Nope. Now can you please step to the side in watching the game"

So she steps to the side, and now she's starting to cry at this point..so I asked her what she was crying for. She said "You don't care about this relationship because you were willing to let me walk out, without trying to stop me!" "If you cared you would have stoped me!"

I told her straight up like this.."If u want to leave, then leave. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me. You're the one who doesn't care if you're willing to walk out on the relationship"

She said "so you wouldn't miss me?"

I replied "I would, but I'd get over it"

She went into the room and locked the door for about 30 mins, then came back out and started picking up her things from the floor and putting them back in the room. After she finished she came back out on her KNEES! Begging me to forgive her.

I'm not begging anyone to stay in my life..if you want to leave, get gone.

You played that right

 

[Atlrocafella]

Me and my chick got into an argument because she was upset she found out I dated an old friend of hers looong ago(Nothing happened, just 2 dates). She kept asking silly questions about it while claiming not to care. I told her not to adk anything else. She worked herself up so much she started packing her things. I just sat back and kept watching the playoffs. She cleaned all of her shyt out of the room and stood by the door. I never looked up once. She unlocks the door, takes one step out, turns around comes back in, closes the door, and drops her things on the floor. She proceeds to walk to the living room, stand in front of the game with her arms crossed, and says "you were just gonna let me leave? You weren't gonna stop me? You don't care about me!"

I said so nonchalantly "Nope. Now can you please step to the side in watching the game"

So she steps to the side, and now she's starting to cry at this point..so I asked her what she was crying for. She said "You don't care about this relationship because you were willing to let me walk out, without trying to stop me!" "If you cared you would have stoped me!"

I told her straight up like this.."If u want to leave, then leave. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me. You're the one who doesn't care if you're willing to walk out on the relationship"

She said "so you wouldn't miss me?"

I replied "I would, but I'd get over it"

She went into the room and locked the door for about 30 mins, then came back out and started picking up her things from the floor and putting them back in the room. After she finished she came back out on her KNEES! Begging me to forgive her.

I'm not begging anyone to stay in my life..if you want to leave, get gone.

You stood firm. I just gave my little cousin the same kind of advice on not reacting to his girls antics, and she basically came back begging as well.

 

[Mr210]

Some powerful post the past 2 pages, I can see the confidence and power increasing in every single one of you

 

[AlwaysLurkin]

It was this chick at work I was trynna get at but she just disappeared..so I saw her on fb and messaged her.She got one of those profiles u can only message or follow.Does this come off as some weirdo shyt,its been at least 4 months since I last saw her

 

[Ohene]

I think I've been thrown to the bushes, brehs. my GF of the last 18 months came down to visit me for the weekend, goes through my phone and sees a mildly flirtatious txt message I sent. she got up and went back home in a huff and she needs time and she's blindsided and disappointed in me.

dont do anything. unfortunately the less you show you care the more likely you are to win her back

 

[TRUEST]

Me and my chick got into an argument because she was upset she found out I dated an old friend of hers looong ago(Nothing happened, just 2 dates). She kept asking silly questions about it while claiming not to care. I told her not to adk anything else. She worked herself up so much she started packing her things. I just sat back and kept watching the playoffs. She cleaned all of her shyt out of the room and stood by the door. I never looked up once. She unlocks the door, takes one step out, turns around comes back in, closes the door, and drops her things on the floor. She proceeds to walk to the living room, stand in front of the game with her arms crossed, and says "you were just gonna let me leave? You weren't gonna stop me? You don't care about me!"

I said so nonchalantly "Nope. Now can you please step to the side in watching the game"

So she steps to the side, and now she's starting to cry at this point..so I asked her what she was crying for. She said "You don't care about this relationship because you were willing to let me walk out, without trying to stop me!" "If you cared you would have stoped me!"

I told her straight up like this.."If u want to leave, then leave. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me. You're the one who doesn't care if you're willing to walk out on the relationship"

She said "so you wouldn't miss me?"

I replied "I would, but I'd get over it"

She went into the room and locked the door for about 30 mins, then came back out and started picking up her things from the floor and putting them back in the room. After she finished she came back out on her KNEES! Begging me to forgive her.

I'm not begging anyone to stay in my life..if you want to leave, get gone.

in every relationship, there comes a point when dominance is established (as in, who leads the relationship). you, my friend, just experienced one of those. it is situations like this that lets the girl know she needs to be on her best behavior cause this guy dont care.

dont go overboard with her and be a complete d1ck to her though. but keep that aloof attitude for whenever she acts a b1tch.

 

[Ohene]

Me and my chick got into an argument because she was upset she found out I dated an old friend of hers looong ago(Nothing happened, just 2 dates). She kept asking silly questions about it while claiming not to care. I told her not to adk anything else. She worked herself up so much she started packing her things. I just sat back and kept watching the playoffs. She cleaned all of her shyt out of the room and stood by the door. I never looked up once. She unlocks the door, takes one step out, turns around comes back in, closes the door, and drops her things on the floor. She proceeds to walk to the living room, stand in front of the game with her arms crossed, and says "you were just gonna let me leave? You weren't gonna stop me? You don't care about me!"

I said so nonchalantly "Nope. Now can you please step to the side in watching the game"

So she steps to the side, and now she's starting to cry at this point..so I asked her what she was crying for. She said "You don't care about this relationship because you were willing to let me walk out, without trying to stop me!" "If you cared you would have stoped me!"

I told her straight up like this.."If u want to leave, then leave. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me. You're the one who doesn't care if you're willing to walk out on the relationship"

She said "so you wouldn't miss me?"

I replied "I would, but I'd get over it"

She went into the room and locked the door for about 30 mins, then came back out and started picking up her things from the floor and putting them back in the room. After she finished she came back out on her KNEES! Begging me to forgive her.

I'm not begging anyone to stay in my life..if you want to leave, get gone.

Warrior fans

 

[ball15life]

It was this chick at work I was trynna get at but she just disappeared..so I saw her on fb and messaged her.She got one of those profiles u can only message or follow.Does this come off as some weirdo shyt,its been at least 4 months since I last saw her

If you just asked what happened to her, then not really in my book

 

[FakeNews]

You ain't never speak to her a day in your life and her first comments to you is for her to give you a ride home?

Iono.

I know man I know. I was basically like because like oh boy said it caught me by surprise

lol girls dont know how to mack. she probably thought about it long and hard and was stressing herself out. so she just figured she put it out there and hopefully he'll get it. but ol boy was blindsided and didnt know what to say (cause how often are women that up front huh). but yeah i chuckled reading that. poor girl.

dude should hit her up on some friendly tip and ask her if she wants to join him for lunch (dont directly ask her) but lead the conversation to where she asks u.

dap plus rep I was def blindsided by it. Will take your advice for sure

 

[Crayola Coyote]

I'm in France right now. Women here look 10x better than the entitled selfish unkept whores in America. I'm having trouble communicating with these heauxs out here cause I speak English. Any places in Paris that speak English n how do you pull these French chicks out here

 

[Mainevent_7]

I'm in France right now. Women here look 10x better than the entitled selfish unkept whores in America. I'm having trouble communicating with these heauxs out here cause I speak English. Any places in Paris that speak English n how do you pull these French chicks out here

I recommend learning a few phrases asap. It will set you apart from the americans that don't speak any french and make it easier to pick up french chicks. But most young French folks should know a little english but you could always walk up to them and ask parlez-vous anglais?

 

[Prynce]

Lol learning how to balance my personality is hard. Normally I just OD on the nice sweet guy route but I learned through trial and error that life don't work that way. Trying to find out when to be aloof and a a$$hole at the right time is kinda difficult to me lol. I been doing it lately just saying wild shyt to females and I'm shocked with the response I get. But I'm still not fully comfortable yet doing it.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Lol learning how to balance my personality is hard. Normally I just OD on the nice sweet guy route but I learned through trial and error that life don't work that way. Trying to find out when to be aloof and a a$$hole at the right time is kinda difficult to me lol. I been doing it lately just saying wild shyt to females and I'm shocked with the response I get. But I'm still not fully comfortable yet doing it.

What kinda Response u get

 

[Dreamzeedream]

use to catch oneitis all the time

 

[Prynce]

What kinda Response u get

They laugh and smile

Say I'm funny or crazy

I took up the habit of getting at all girls I find remotely attractive lol. I flirt and spit game at them. I been getting hella love and I just be fresh and direct with them. fukk that friendzone shyt frfr.