Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[KeysT]

When a woman tells you who she is...believe her. Don't try to change her to fit your ideal of her in your head.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

When a woman tells you who she is...believe her. Don't try to change her to fit your ideal of her in your head.

Word. Most dudes make up this idea of a woman in their mind just because she's fine as hell. That's a grave mistake that will only ruin you in the long run.

 

[KeysT]

Word. Most dudes make up this idea of a woman in their mind just because she's fine as hell. That's a grave mistake that will only ruin you in the long run.

Legit going through this now so had to share. Shawty is bad as hell, but def not someone I would want to be with in her current state. Was tripping for a while blinded by her looks but she made sure to bring me back to reality with her actions.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Legit going through this now so had to share. Shawty is bad as hell, but def not someone I would want to be with in her current state. Was tripping for a while blinded by her looks but she made sure to bring me back to reality with her actions.

You'll be better alright man. I know you'll miss the high you get from being with a fine woman but that'll pass. Happens to all of us. I just learned the hard way that I need to do a better job of vetting these women before I make any real investment in them.

 

[Cynic]

My question is though how come they are more responsible about not getting pregnant by random Men. Unlike American females who think that being a single mother is something awesome.

Feminism of course is one aspect, but there are Euro-feminist countries especially the Nordic ones that don't have high out of wedlock single motherhood.

Also when you interact with French and Spaniard Women they don't seem to carry as much mental baggage from sex with multiple Men in my opinion.

Living in Europe and visiting Europe are two very distinct experiences....

 

[Hard Times Nakamura]

Living in Europe and visiting Europe are two very distinct experiences....

I lived in Spain for a year.

My Moroccan housemate got a French girl pregnant. She was Christian he was Muslim. Both age 20.

Both agreed this is absolutely not the right time to be having a baby especially considering his parents did not even know the girl existed. And you know how Muslim parents can get.

So they got the abortion no one was the wiser except for the people on our floor.

When this polish exchange student wanted to fukk me she said don't worry I won't have your baby I have Plan B in my room.

Europeans don't play that mess in general breh...

 

[Crayola Coyote]

That's real shyt man. European women are just a different breed in general. Being sexual isn't something that's looked down upon like it is in the States. So for them, sex with someone they haven't known very long or threesomes aren't a big deal at all. The first time I knocked down my ex I already knew this woman has seen and done some shyt hahaha.

Why didn't I take French class in high school. I knew something was up with women in America. Only here they make it difficult to get sex. Always flaking, always got an attitude, always on some nonsense. I go over there one week and women cooperate heavy. American women just ain't for me Brehs. But what are the odds of finding a European chick in America?

 

[Crayola Coyote]

@Crayola Coyote Yo, breh, I'd like to hear more about your stories/time in Paris. Especially with the ladies.

I've had some interactions with Ivorian/Senegalese/French women in my 22yrs on this earth. Would be interested in how your experiences compare.

That week I was there I noticed that women are not standoffish how they are here in America. Just by approaching them and asking the questions. I left a bar at 11 because I didn't have any euros on me, so when I was walking to my cousin house I saw French white girl walking by. I was hesitant to stop and ask her if she would like to exchange a American $20 for a euro $20 because a random black man at 11 at night asking a white girl for info was just weird. You know I'm America white ppl act towards us blacks. She told me to follow her to a ATM so I can exchange cash and that was it. Got her snapchat Info also but I messed up the chat cause I told her my dad was going on a boat ride with me and her and she wanted it to be me and her.

Met a black girl from Congo on the metro and was hesitant to talk to her, but I did it anyway. cause I was only there for one week n didn't want to go back to the states wondering why I didn't talk to all the pretty girls I saw. Told her I was from Florida, she asked if I was from Miami? I told her no. But she kept on talking to me on the way to Bastille and missed her stop. Got her snapchat, asked her "so how do you feel about giving head" she was straight up down for it so we meet at another stop and went back to maison alfront were I was staying at and smashed. After that I was mad because America I would have to pull teeth, get kicked out a bar/club or some simp telling me "I'm being too aggressive" with the chicks; want to fight me. Or I would get a flake or a fake number.

Oh! we went to this bar in Bastille and saw a group of white girls. I went right up to them and started talking to the girl, but she didn't understand me cause she only spoke French. Her friend saw me, got up and said something in my ear in French. I thought she was cursing me out so I put my hands in the air waving to her that idk what she saying, cause you know in America you talk to women in groups, there's always that one dumbass/combative/cockblocking friend that does not want you talking to her friend.l even if you give all the girls in the group attention. The girl I was talking to told her girlfriend something in French, so she sat down and went back to talking to the other girls. Idk what she said to her but it was quick. I asked her for her snapchat, but she still didn't understand what I said so I had to bring my cousin over to translate the convo we had. He said to me that she told him that she cannot give me her snapchat cause she didn't know me. I told him to tell her to that it would be a great time to know me cause I'm not gonna see her again. I don't want a girlfriend or get married I just want to get to know her because she is pretty. He told her what I said to her and she told him that "why does he want my snapchat.. if he doesn't want to be my husband?" After that she started to laugh and feel up on my leg. I felt uncomfortable because I've never experienced a chick being this cooperative in America but all a sudden I'm getting play over here? I get the opposite. So We chilled for a while with the group and dipped.

 

[Brandeezy]

Y'all ever see some shyt regarding couples?

My cousin's step bro who recently moved out of his mom's place and in with his pops at age 31, got him a rich white girl who looks like this

They eat out almost every day. Eating shyt like

nikkas' IG posts are literally expensive ass food with the #eatlikeaking hashtag and shyt

Funny thing is that he told him mom years ago that he wanted a rich MILF to take care of him

Oh yeah, his mom is bringing them to Hawaii with her, my Uncle and cousin off free tickets nikka finessing.

I'm just trying to find a girl who likes me

 

[silk scarfs]

Y'all ever see some shyt regarding couples?

My cousin's step bro who recently moved out of his mom's place and in with his pops at age 31, got him a rich white girl who looks like this

They eat out almost every day. Eating shyt like

nikkas' IG posts are literally expensive ass food with the #eatlikeaking hashtag and shyt

Funny thing is that he told him mom years ago that he wanted a rich MILF to take care of him

Oh yeah, his mom is bringing them to Hawaii with her, my Uncle and cousin off free tickets nikka finessing.

I'm just trying to find a girl who likes me

that nikka need to make a pamphlet b

 

[phcitywarrior]

That week I was there I noticed that women are not standoffish how they are here in America. Just by approaching them and asking the questions. I left a bar at 11 because I didn't have any euros on me, so when I was walking to my cousin house I saw French white girl walking by. I was hesitant to stop and ask her if she would like to exchange a American $20 for a euro $20 because a random black man at 11 at night asking a white girl for info was just weird. You know I'm America white ppl act towards us blacks. She told me to follow her to a ATM so I can exchange cash and that was it. Got her snapchat Info also but I messed up the chat cause I told her my dad was going on a boat ride with me and her and she wanted it to be me and her.

Met a black girl from Congo on the metro and was hesitant to talk to her, but I did it anyway. cause I was only there for one week n didn't want to go back to the states wondering why I didn't talk to all the pretty girls I saw. Told her I was from Florida, she asked if I was from Miami? I told her no. But she kept on talking to me on the way to Bastille and missed her stop. Got her snapchat, asked her "so how do you feel about giving head" she was straight up down for it so we meet at another stop and went back to maison alfront were I was staying at and smashed. After that I was mad because America I would have to pull teeth, get kicked out a bar/club or some simp telling me "I'm being too aggressive" with the chicks; want to fight me. Or I would get a flake or a fake number.

Oh! we went to this bar in Bastille and saw a group of white girls. I went right up to them and started talking to the girl, but she didn't understand me cause she only spoke French. Her friend saw me, got up and said something in my ear in French. I thought she was cursing me out so I put my hands in the air waving to her that idk what she saying, cause you know in America you talk to women in groups, there's always that one dumbass/combative/cockblocking friend that does not want you talking to her friend.l even if you give all the girls in the group attention. The girl I was talking to told her girlfriend something in French, so she sat down and went back to talking to the other girls. Idk what she said to her but it was quick. I asked her for her snapchat, but she still didn't understand what I said so I had to bring my cousin over to translate the convo we had. He said to me that she told him that she cannot give me her snapchat cause she didn't know me. I told him to tell her to that it would be a great time to know me cause I'm not gonna see her again. I don't want a girlfriend or get married I just want to get to know her because she is pretty. He told her what I said to her and she told him that "why does he want my snapchat.. if he doesn't want to be my husband?" After that she started to laugh and feel up on my leg. I felt uncomfortable because I've never experienced a chick being this cooperative in America but all a sudden I'm getting play over here? I get the opposite. So We chilled for a while with the group and dipped.

Sounds like some French women I dealt with as well. I'll be back to Paris in a year or two, but I'll be there for more than a week and I'll be sure by then to have improved my French (taking lessons now).

Before then I'll actually head over to Francophone West Africa for some vacation and I'll get a chance to practice as well.

I should say something though: while European people, French especially, are liberal with their relations with others. You may actually be "bolder" since you're in a place you don't know.

I think when people are on vacation they tend to be more agressive or blasé when they approach and that tends to yield better results. Especially in a country where there's a language barrier.

It's almost like brash, unrestrained confidence just surged through once you hit Charles de Gaulle.

Anyway man, hope you had a dope trip. People definitely gotta travel more and expand their horizons.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

I'm heading over to Lisbon, Portugal in a couple weeks. Gonna link up with one of my AF homies who's flying over from Germany. I'll be sure to let you fellas know what it's looking like over there.

 

[Mainevent_7]

Has anyone visited Cuba before. I'm going in a few weeks and don't know what to expect.

 

[ball15life]

double

 

[BadBoy]

fukk it I'm about to go cop a one way ticket to France with a $5000 and just live life this summer