Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

Was just listening to his self-titled

Da gawd helped me woo a lovely lady this past weekend

 

[Poitier]

Da gawd helped me woo a lovely lady this past weekend

She likes Prince? Wife her.

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

She likes Prince? Wife her.

I've converted her.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Im trying to cuff me sonething decent

 

[Lo-Co]

looking back its sad how i put super attractive women on an unrealistic pedestal, making myself feel and seem lower in the process.
seeing now that im doing better with women just being simple and treating them like normal, flawed individuals. and its alright to have flaws. acknowledging them makes them easier to manage. putting them in this stencil of perfection can make them feel suffocated. if only i knew this sooner.

 

[Nuke Dukem]

What's the move for getting at women that you DONT know on

-IG

-FB


It's easy on a dating site, they're there for the same thing you are...

 

[Shadow King]

As each day passes, the desire to pursue p*ssy wanes...it's likely I'll never achieve it but the pursuit of happiness is so much more important. Been experiencing a lot of pain over the past 2 years, and "the game" won't erase it. I can't see the reward in spending hundreds to thousands on a wardrobe, spending time in setting where I'm "supposed to hunt", add pressure to myself by trying to hang with popular dudes, try and fail become the smoothest criminal around just to bat 1 for 100. Time is so valuable now.

My life will be far more lonesome than most but I have to serve my own best interests...for me. Women will never care about me like me...they never cared at all.

Lift, read, write, survive.

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

As each day passes, the desire to pursue p*ssy wanes...it's unlikely never achieve it but the pursuit of happiness is so much more important. Been experiencing a lot of pain over the past 2 years, and "the game" won't erase it. I can't see the reward in spending hundreds to thousands on a wardrobe, spending time in setting where I'm "supposed to hunt", add pressure to myself by trying to hang with popular dudes, try and fail become the smoothest criminal around just to bat 1 for 100. Time is so valuable now.

My life will be far more lonesome than most but I have to serve my own best interests...for me. Women will never care about me like me...they never cared at all.

Lift, read, write, survive.

Understandable. Perhaps you just need to recharge your compassion and wait for the 'right one' at a particular moment in time? But as you wait, focus on self improvement and personal validation.

 

[International Playa]

What's the move for getting at women that you DONT know on

-IG

-FB


It's easy on a dating site, they're there for the same thing you are...

Comment on on what u saw in their pics & build rapport , their vacation, cooking pics, hobbies etc.

Dating site is much better & easier since the woman is already open to meet someone & set in her mind that she is looking for a man

 

[International Playa]

As each day passes, the desire to pursue p*ssy wanes...it's unlikely never achieve it but the pursuit of happiness is so much more important. Been experiencing a lot of pain over the past 2 years, and "the game" won't erase it. I can't see the reward in spending hundreds to thousands on a wardrobe, spending time in setting where I'm "supposed to hunt", add pressure to myself by trying to hang with popular dudes, try and fail become the smoothest criminal around just to bat 1 for 100. Time is so valuable now.

My life will be far more lonesome than most but I have to serve my own best interests...for me. Women will never care about me like me...they never cared at all.

Lift, read, write, survive.

Adjust your focus breh, dont give up. Your happiness should never be tied to a woman breh. Always focus on your goals ( getting a career, hitting the gym etc)

Leave Friday/Saturday night to go out & hunt for women .On your downtime set up a lil profile on a dating website, take nice pics (on vacation or out having fun) & sell these women dreams in your description box, send out messages & see where it gets you.

No need to spend a lot on a nice wardrobe. Look for sales, buy nice cheap fitted shirts, or cheap fitted white tees etc. Aslong as it looks nice, the price tag dont matter

It helps befriending someone who is a player or good with women, you get to see in live action how he gets at women & he always has women around so you bound to get one of their friends.My boy before he go married he was deep in the game, half of the women I slept with, I met them through him

 

[Shadow King]

Understandable. Perhaps you just need to recharge your compassion and wait for the 'right one' at a particular moment in time? But as you wait, focus on self improvement and personal validation.

"The right one" = a situation requiring more time and affection than I have/am willing to give. And recharge my compassion for who? Women? Compassion is a desire to help someone in need...women are not in need of my presence.

Adjust your focus breh, dont give up. Your happiness should never be tied to a woman breh. Always focus on your goals ( getting a career, hitting the gym etc)

Leave Friday/Saturday night to go out & hunt for women .On your downtime set up a lil profile on a dating website, take nice pics (on vacation or out having fun) & sell these women dreams in your description box, send out messages & see where it gets you.

No need to spend a lot on a nice wardrobe. Look for sales, buy nice cheap fitted shirts, or cheap fitted white tees etc. Aslong as it looks nice, the price tag dont matter

It helps befriending someone who is a player or good with women, you get to see in live action how he gets at women & he always has women around so you bound to get one of their friends.My boy before he go married he was deep in the game, half of the women I slept with, I met them through him

I rather spend my Fridays and Saturdays trying to read a book, finishing writing my own book, or writing songs/making beats. The fact that I have to "sell dreams" is what I'm talking about.

And I've had players for friends in high school, a lot of their hoes weren't really of quality and pulled off the strength of escalating smoke sessions, I do not smoke. I'm about to be 24 and have pretty much grown apart from those friends. I don't have the desire to seek new ones just to try and find women who will hit me with more okie-dokes than ass.

I'm over the thought of auditioning for these broads. All of this is parallel with my dying dreams really. I need to heal from those, embrace that I'll be on an average everyday grind like 99.999999% percent of us, and move forward, instead of navigating and selling bullshyt to be inefficient with girls who frankly, to give myself any shot, would be 4s and 5s.

 

[Deafheaven]

Prince is the gawd. Brehs, get his music in your life
@Poitier

YES

 

[Mainevent_7]

Where are you going for the first 2 trips?

Cuba and Munich for oktoberfest

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Dope. I'm messing with Oktoberfest too. Might be in Stuttgart though. Not sure yet.

 

[Astroslik]

"The right one" = a situation requiring more time and affection than I have/am willing to give. And recharge my compassion for who? Women? Compassion is a desire to help someone in need...women are not in need of my presence.

I rather spend my Fridays and Saturdays trying to read a book, finishing writing my own book, or writing songs/making beats. The fact that I have to "sell dreams" is what I'm talking about.

And I've had players for friends in high school, a lot of their hoes weren't really of quality and pulled off the strength of escalating smoke sessions, I do not smoke. I'm about to be 24 and have pretty much grown apart from those friends. I don't have the desire to seek new ones just to try and find women who will hit me with more okie-dokes than ass.

I'm over the thought of auditioning for these broads. All of this is parallel with my dying dreams really. I need to heal from those, embrace that I'll be on an average everyday grind like 99.999999% percent of us, and move forward, instead of navigating and selling bullshyt to be inefficient with girls who frankly, to give myself any shot, would be 4s and 5s.

Work on your craft, the women will always be there