Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Supreme Leader Reinscarf said:
Another thing stop comparing yourself to other dudes , women don't care what you've done for them and women don't care if the guy they cavorting with at the moment is a barber without his own place.

All that will just frustrate you
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So true.

Truth be told, as far as women go, i feel like i was actually eating more while i was a "bum" (relatively). Comparing yourself to other men is pointless because a big percentage of it will be how the man makes her feel. And how he makes her feel depends on how he feels about himself. He could be a loser on paper but if he feels like he's The Man, she will feel like it's an honor to suck his dikk.
 
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Supreme Leader Reinscarf said:
Another thing stop comparing yourself to other dudes , women don't care what you've done for them and women don't care if the guy they cavorting with at the moment is a barber without his own place.

All that will just frustrate you
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kevm3 said:
Man bro, that's why I say never make women top priority in your life and always be prepared for them to jet... because in this day and age, they are extremely transient. Got to kind of enjoy her while she is there, but don't be surprised if she's got another or if she decides to jet. Your focus should be on other things in life to such an extent that while you might feel a sting for a little while, your life isn't wrecked because you've found so many other things to enjoy and you've kept yourself up to an extent that a lot of other women want to be in her position.
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Both of you are right. That's definitely one of my flaws. I tend to get blinded when I'm really feeling a chick & throw my better judgement out the window. I'm aware of it though & actively working on it. Sometimes it takes a major L to see how I need to improve myself to prevent this type of thing happening in the future. Looking back, I let her get the best of me & made some mistakes with how I handled it, but I'm trying to use this as a learning experience.
Reading this thread helps a lot though. Both of yall especially drop gems on every page. Preciate the feedback :salute:
 
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World War Z said:
What I'm really struggling with is girls losing interest quick.

I don't live a fascinating life. Just an average Joe blow . I don't have whole lot of fun and the women realize this . I'm not a thrill or much of an adventurer so women just move on to the next guy.

shyt hurts brehs ... Plus I'm extremely hard on hoes. One of my girlfriends said I act to macho and manly with women and I don't know how to play the game. Hearing that hurt cause I know it's true :mjcry:
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U aight breh. U just gotta find a chick that "gets you". Dating just like shopping for a suit breh.
 
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Mister_DoItNice said:
I'm not gonna pretend lifting will fix all your problems. But yo that shyt helps in a major way. So much of what causes people to be unsuccessful in their endeavors is all mental. We hold ourselves back with bullshyt hang ups. Lacking in belief in yourself will eventually stifle any chance you have of being successful with women, or with anything else for that matter.
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Its genetic, our ancestors were warriors/hunters who broke a sweat every day of their lives. So when we lift, even for a little, it awakens that primal nature to hunt, kill, and feed. Lifting only gets a bad rep from overweight/lazy people who would be useless in any era you put them in. It feels good to run, to play, to lift, to hunt, we fought our way to be here, battle is all we know, you can't just pretend that's somehow forgotten.

Plus anything that increases strength and stamina should always be seen as a benefit, both to the psyche and body.
 
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garlicbulb said:
What about your ex breh? :mjgrin:
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She's still on my mind somewhat. I try not to think about it. Some days are hard, and some days are easy.

I started talking to someone new to keep me busy but she's playing then usual text games and I don't have the energy to play around.
 
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World War Z said:
She's still on my mind somewhat. I try not to think about it. Some days are hard, and some days are easy.

I started talking to someone new to keep me busy but she's playing then usual text games and I don't have the energy to play around.
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Read Corey Wayne's book then watch his YouTube channel. Trust me, it will change your life.
 
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Damn....

I'm in the worst spot I've been in (female-wise) since the first week me and my ex broke up..

Pretty much the bytches I was banking on all bounced at once for different reasons ..

1- she bounced cuz her and her baby daddy are trying to work things out

2- this big booty white bytch just got her own spot and been acting different since, pretty sure that she got her BD living there with her

3- I flaked on this bytch a lot and now I'm pretty sure I won't get another date smh

4- I have this one that would be down but this bytch is like a 45 min drive and after I fukk I really don't wanna be there and that 45 min drive back is annoying

Plus add that the dating sites have been DRY AS HELL for me lately


Smh.. this sucks lol
 
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