Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Lo-Co]

 

[Crayola Coyote]

I'm done brehs. I'm totally done actually trying to build something with a female nowadays. Everytime it always ends up being a letdown or total waste of my time. Chicks today stay complaining that dudes just wanna fukk, but then when you actually try to put in some work & develop something meaningful with them, they start lying/bullshyttin. After this last situation, I'm completely reverting back to how I was in my early twenties, just fukking em & nothing more. Females in this generation are a fukking joke man.

THIS. Smash em n never come back

 

[Swagaveli]

HAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHA!!!

YOOOOOOOOO

This shyt is fukkin UNREAL...

Hahahaha. This nikka posting pics of hoes I've straight up passed on, due to them being very known thots. Hahahahah such a small world.

I live here, and got a lot of American homies, so I'm just gonna ask you this: Were you here to play football or basketball? You didn't post the MVP basketball hoes, so I'm gonna have to assume your sport was football. Judging by those thots though, you didn't play right in Helsinki. One of the smaller cities, like Porvoo if I had to guess.
I've been to France once. I speak 0 words of French... But it sure was nice out there for a brotha

Btw this discussion is the realest since kumbaya. Learn from your mistakes, handle biz like men, and feast on bredrin!

I don't know ...perhaps because those are feminist strongholds and black men are seen as masculine ?
plus it's cold AF there so black brehs are seen as exotic ? I don't know why breh ?

I just take advantage.....

Frenchies are the snobbiest pieces of sh!t.... and i don't like how they deal with their francophone colonies.



Finland you'll eat ...just by being black



I rawed everything there and didn't catch anything but I was younger and reckless ... I'd strap up
because guarantee they will want your babies....

Spoiler

 

[Rich Spirit]

Absolutely. It's much better to focus on getting your life together and just living in a fashion to where it's an open door in regards to women, things are a lot better. In other words, I mean, enjoy her company while she's there, but don't be disappointed if she up and leaves or she isn't as loyal as you thought. Your life should be so beautiful that if she leaves, it just frees you up to do more of what you enjoy.

If you noticed, most of those PUA/ game teacher dudes stopped or cut back and moved on to talking about something else. There's only so much you can say about 'game', and no matter how much 'game' you study, you are pretty much at the mercy of whether this girl wants to stick around or not. You can have all the game in the world and this girl can leave you because she just wants something different... Therefore, never make your happiness contingent on a woman or what she's going to do next. Give her an opportunity to participate in your life if she acts right, and if she doesn't, give her an opportunity to get it together... otherwise let her go. If she chooses to go on her own volition, congratulate her, and keep on enjoying life and just recognize that a roster spot just opened up for a woman that DOES want to act right.

this should be pinned on the top every page in this thread

 

[Swagaveli]

Kev the GOAT. Say no more, fam. Say no more

Absolutely. It's much better to focus on getting your life together and just living in a fashion to where it's an open door in regards to women, things are a lot better. In other words, I mean, enjoy her company while she's there, but don't be disappointed if she up and leaves or she isn't as loyal as you thought. Your life should be so beautiful that if she leaves, it just frees you up to do more of what you enjoy.

If you noticed, most of those PUA/ game teacher dudes stopped or cut back and moved on to talking about something else. There's only so much you can say about 'game', and no matter how much 'game' you study, you are pretty much at the mercy of whether this girl wants to stick around or not. You can have all the game in the world and this girl can leave you because she just wants something different... Therefore, never make your happiness contingent on a woman or what she's going to do next. Give her an opportunity to participate in your life if she acts right, and if she doesn't, give her an opportunity to get it together... otherwise let her go. If she chooses to go on her own volition, congratulate her, and keep on enjoying life and just recognize that a roster spot just opened up for a woman that DOES want to act right.

 

[The Frozen One]

Absolutely. It's much better to focus on getting your life together and just living in a fashion to where it's an open door in regards to women, things are a lot better. In other words, I mean, enjoy her company while she's there, but don't be disappointed if she up and leaves or she isn't as loyal as you thought. Your life should be so beautiful that if she leaves, it just frees you up to do more of what you enjoy.

If you noticed, most of those PUA/ game teacher dudes stopped or cut back and moved on to talking about something else. There's only so much you can say about 'game', and no matter how much 'game' you study, you are pretty much at the mercy of whether this girl wants to stick around or not. You can have all the game in the world and this girl can leave you because she just wants something different... Therefore, never make your happiness contingent on a woman or what she's going to do next. Give her an opportunity to participate in your life if she acts right, and if she doesn't, give her an opportunity to get it together... otherwise let her go. If she chooses to go on her own volition, congratulate her, and keep on enjoying life and just recognize that a roster spot just opened up for a woman that DOES want to act right.

 

[Brock Landers]

You can try as much as you want but then shyt like this happens

 

[jalamanta]

You can try as much as you want but then shyt like this happens

 

[Uitomy]

I get the slight feeling women look at my mind and attention as a piece of meat. Like why do women value attention so much, I just had this broad fukk my feelings up something serious. I straight up deactivated all my social media and blocked her on Snapchat just to go no contact and have her off my mind but, what's the point of using me like that? The fukk is my attention gonna do for a girl? shyt got me bugging and with my past I'm super paranoid about getting taken advantage of like this shyt making me feel real skeptical of the women I meet, finding that I don't really trust what they say and I act like a complete cynic around them now. I wish I could just talk to someone that understood their own feelings

 

[Deafheaven]

A lot of issues I see on these last few pages could be solved by just being polygamous

You don't plan on having kids date however many girls you can stomach and if she not with it charge it to the game

But if you really that nikka in her eyes she'll put up with sharing. These silly women put up with utter deadbeats because they make them feel something

 

[KeysT]

Just a quick summary would be that I got played by a chick I was talking to for like 8 months. We were basically bf/gf without the title, it just naturally progressed into that. I was spending multiple days a week with her, sex was always amazing, & after awhile I wanted it to make it official, but she always came up with bullshyt excuses like the time wasn't right, or she wasn't where she wanted to be in life. I treated this chick like gold, cooked for her, spent as much time with her as I could. She was what I wanted & the way I looked at it, I was putting in the effort to get her.

So fast forward a few months, I start hearing from her less, visits start becoming less frequent, we all know what that means. Eventually we just ended up parting ways because she started acting weird & distant. Eventually I find out that the entire time she was fukking around with this dude that she works with & now they're actually DATING. The dude is like 30 something year old fukking bartender who doesn't even have his own place. She doesn't even know that I know about it. We don't even talk.

So she basically played me. I fell for her & she reaped the benefits until I guess she got tired of it & just decided to bounce. Didn't even have the decency to be straight up & just tell me what was up. I'm more mad about the lack of communication that anything else. Had I known she was more interested in someone else that whole time, I could've saved myself a lot of time. She never admitted to seeing other people the entire time we were messing around. Why lie? I just don't understand why people do this shyt. I've been through a lot of bullshyt with females in the past & I'm just over it. No point in actually putting in efforts with these broads anymore. So until further notice I'm back on my fukk the world shyt. I'll hit up a jumpoff whenever I just need to get laid, but other than that, I want nothing to do with em anymore.

I already know what most of yall gonna say so I'll hold the L & charge it the game, but I'm forreal jaded now. It's like any chick I only wanna fukk & nothing else, always wants more....But the ones I want more with, never do. Can't win for losing.

Feel you breh especially with the bolded parts I actually just went through this with a chick. Although actions speak louder than words she still should have told me straight up she wasn't trying to put forth effort. The second bolded part is exactly how I feel right now.

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

Feel you breh especially with the bolded parts I actually just went through this with a chick. Although actions speak louder than words she still should have told me straight up she wasn't trying to put forth effort. The second bolded part is exactly how I feel right now.

Yeah man. Lack of communication is probably my biggest pet peeve in general. When I feel someone is holding shyt back from me, my mind starts to wander & it's all downhill from there. It just baffles me how people would rather throwaway a friendship/relationship instead of having a simple 5 minute conversation that could settle everything.

 

[KeysT]

Yeah man. Lack of communication is probably my biggest pet peeve in general. When I feel someone is holding shyt back from me, my mind starts to wander & it's all downhill from there. It just baffles me how people would rather throwaway a friendship/relationship instead of having a simple 5 minute conversation that could settle everything.

The worst part is the chick I was seeing would be content with the amount of info she communicated even AFTER I told her it was a problem. But would still claim she was here for our situation.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

i should tried to see if i could pull one of them chicks from Lastnight

 

[Cynic]

HAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHA!!!

YOOOOOOOOO

This shyt is fukkin UNREAL...

Hahahaha. This nikka posting pics of hoes I've straight up passed on, due to them being very known thots. Hahahahah such a small world.

I live here, and got a lot of American homies, so I'm just gonna ask you this: Were you here to play football or basketball? You didn't post the MVP basketball hoes, so I'm gonna have to assume your sport was football. Judging by those thots though, you didn't play right in Helsinki. One of the smaller cities, like Porvoo if I had to guess.
I've been to France once. I speak 0 words of French... But it sure was nice out there for a brotha

Btw this discussion is the realest since kumbaya. Learn from your mistakes, handle biz like men, and feast on bredrin!

Off course I posted hoes ...you want me to post the good Lowkey ones ?

Lol, nah breh. I never played any pro sports there because i was studying in England
and was in college at the time. And the only place I ever stayed at was Helsinki
maybe like Tampere for one weekend.

This is like 5-6 years ago though and since I only visited there like 2 weeks MAX
I never got the full spectrum like other brothers who actually live there.

I'm plotting on some somali puss next time I touch down though