Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Lo-Co]

Being a big dude puts me in a niche market
So I gotta put in more effort to get women.
Stay groomed
Wear clothes that fit Me just enough
Always smell good
Fix my personality, basically go in with more positivity and less pessimism.
And not focus too much on my weight. Even though it can be fixed.

 

[Fatboi1]

Not playing a role but bettering yourself, like the breh in the above posts said, when an athlete is sub-par, he practices a whole lot more to improve his game. Same with the game with women, you should practice trying to find out what works for you.

So with women also, we know women want a dude with a good body, a guy who dresses good, a guy who is confident & not needy, a guy who is a winner etc. These are things you should be doing already for yourself, you should be aiming to be confident & becoming a 6 figure, 6 pack dude

So many game teachers on youtube, I think the best teachers in the business are Corey Wayne & Player supreme

Coach Corey Wayne



Player Supreme

yeah Corey Wayne is that dude

 

[jalamanta]

Corey Wayne is that dude. He can be very corny in a "white people" type of way but he pretty much contributed a troubleshooting guide as far as logistics and setting shyt up to increase the odds of fukking.

Corey Wayne is GOAT. His book and videos can improve any man's life.

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

I'm done brehs. I'm totally done actually trying to build something with a female nowadays. Everytime it always ends up being a letdown or total waste of my time. Chicks today stay complaining that dudes just wanna fukk, but then when you actually try to put in some work & develop something meaningful with them, they start lying/bullshyttin. After this last situation, I'm completely reverting back to how I was in my early twenties, just fukking em & nothing more. Females in this generation are a fukking joke man.

 

[knickscrusaderm]

I'm done brehs. I'm totally done actually trying to build something with a female nowadays. Everytime it always ends up being a letdown or total waste of my time. Chicks today stay complaining that dudes just wanna fukk, but then when you actually try to put in some work & develop something meaningful with them, they start lying/bullshyttin. After this last situation, I'm completely reverting back to how I was in my early twenties, just fukking em & nothing more. Females in this generation are a fukking joke man.

Speak to us breh.

What exactly happened? .

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

Speak to us breh.

What exactly happened? .

Just a quick summary would be that I got played by a chick I was talking to for like 8 months. We were basically bf/gf without the title, it just naturally progressed into that. I was spending multiple days a week with her, sex was always amazing, & after awhile I wanted it to make it official, but she always came up with bullshyt excuses like the time wasn't right, or she wasn't where she wanted to be in life. I treated this chick like gold, cooked for her, spent as much time with her as I could. She was what I wanted & the way I looked at it, I was putting in the effort to get her.

So fast forward a few months, I start hearing from her less, visits start becoming less frequent, we all know what that means. Eventually we just ended up parting ways because she started acting weird & distant. Eventually I find out that the entire time she was fukking around with this dude that she works with & now they're actually DATING. The dude is like 30 something year old fukking bartender who doesn't even have his own place. She doesn't even know that I know about it. We don't even talk.

So she basically played me. I fell for her & she reaped the benefits until I guess she got tired of it & just decided to bounce. Didn't even have the decency to be straight up & just tell me what was up. I'm more mad about the lack of communication that anything else. Had I known she was more interested in someone else that whole time, I could've saved myself a lot of time. She never admitted to seeing other people the entire time we were messing around. Why lie? I just don't understand why people do this shyt. I've been through a lot of bullshyt with females in the past & I'm just over it. No point in actually putting in efforts with these broads anymore. So until further notice I'm back on my fukk the world shyt. I'll hit up a jumpoff whenever I just need to get laid, but other than that, I want nothing to do with em anymore.

I already know what most of yall gonna say so I'll hold the L & charge it the game, but I'm forreal jaded now. It's like any chick I only wanna fukk & nothing else, always wants more....But the ones I want more with, never do. Can't win for losing.

 

[International Playa]

I'm done brehs. I'm totally done actually trying to build something with a female nowadays. Everytime it always ends up being a letdown or total waste of my time. Chicks today stay complaining that dudes just wanna fukk, but then when you actually try to put in some work & develop something meaningful with them, they start lying/bullshyttin. After this last situation, I'm completely reverting back to how I was in my early twenties, just fukking em & nothing more. Females in this generation are a fukking joke man.

Like @kevm3 preached in the beginning of this thread, always invest in yourself always, you will never lose.

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

Like @kevm3 preached in the beginning of this thread, always invest in yourself always, you will never lose.

I feel you breh. That's all I'm doing from this point on.

 

[RebelX]

No problem breh. You talk about getting out of the game and having all this love to give. You sound washed up and you're only 23 breh! You haven't even played this game on the highest level yet. I'm 30 and I still haven't played on the highest level myself. Get your mind right. You're in ATL of all places at that. Come on man. With that attitude it's more than likely that you'll be too forthcoming with your wants and desires with a shorty that maybe fills in one or two of your checkboxes. If you do that and she has game, she'll play you for a fool and run you dry.

It's real easy for someone to be what you want if you tell exactly what that is. That's playing your hand and yourself before the game even gets started. It's a lose/lose.

Why would you give this advice when he said he wants to settle down? 23 and graduating from college is the perfect time to change mentality and try to find something longterm.

 

[kevm3]

Like @kevm3 preached in the beginning of this thread, always invest in yourself always, you will never lose.

Absolutely. It's much better to focus on getting your life together and just living in a fashion to where it's an open door in regards to women, things are a lot better. In other words, I mean, enjoy her company while she's there, but don't be disappointed if she up and leaves or she isn't as loyal as you thought. Your life should be so beautiful that if she leaves, it just frees you up to do more of what you enjoy.

If you noticed, most of those PUA/ game teacher dudes stopped or cut back and moved on to talking about something else. There's only so much you can say about 'game', and no matter how much 'game' you study, you are pretty much at the mercy of whether this girl wants to stick around or not. You can have all the game in the world and this girl can leave you because she just wants something different... Therefore, never make your happiness contingent on a woman or what she's going to do next. Give her an opportunity to participate in your life if she acts right, and if she doesn't, give her an opportunity to get it together... otherwise let her go. If she chooses to go on her own volition, congratulate her, and keep on enjoying life and just recognize that a roster spot just opened up for a woman that DOES want to act right.

 

[Jone2three45]

Absolutely. It's much better to focus on getting your life together and just living in a fashion to where it's an open door in regards to women, things are a lot better. In other words, I mean, enjoy her company while she's there, but don't be disappointed if she up and leaves or she isn't as loyal as you thought. Your life should be so beautiful that if she leaves, it just frees you up to do more of what you enjoy.

If you noticed, most of those PUA/ game teacher dudes stopped or cut back and moved on to talking about something else. There's only so much you can say about 'game', and no matter how much 'game' you study, you are pretty much at the mercy of whether this girl wants to stick around or not. You can have all the game in the world and this girl can leave you because she just wants something different... Therefore, never make your happiness contingent on a woman or what she's going to do next. Give her an opportunity to participate in your life if she acts right, and if she doesn't, give her an opportunity to get it together... otherwise let her go. If she chooses to go on her own volition, congratulate her, and keep on enjoying life and just recognize that a roster spot just opened up for a woman that DOES want to act right.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Absolutely. It's much better to focus on getting your life together and just living in a fashion to where it's an open door in regards to women, things are a lot better. In other words, I mean, enjoy her company while she's there, but don't be disappointed if she up and leaves or she isn't as loyal as you thought. Your life should be so beautiful that if she leaves, it just frees you up to do more of what you enjoy.

If you noticed, most of those PUA/ game teacher dudes stopped or cut back and moved on to talking about something else. There's only so much you can say about 'game', and no matter how much 'game' you study, you are pretty much at the mercy of whether this girl wants to stick around or not. You can have all the game in the world and this girl can leave you because she just wants something different... Therefore, never make your happiness contingent on a woman or what she's going to do next. Give her an opportunity to participate in your life if she acts right, and if she doesn't, give her an opportunity to get it together... otherwise let her go. If she chooses to go on her own volition, congratulate her, and keep on enjoying life and just recognize that a roster spot just opened up for a woman that DOES want to act right.

Bingo!

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

Absolutely. It's much better to focus on getting your life together and just living in a fashion to where it's an open door in regards to women, things are a lot better. In other words, I mean, enjoy her company while she's there, but don't be disappointed if she up and leaves or she isn't as loyal as you thought. Your life should be so beautiful that if she leaves, it just frees you up to do more of what you enjoy.

If you noticed, most of those PUA/ game teacher dudes stopped or cut back and moved on to talking about something else. There's only so much you can say about 'game', and no matter how much 'game' you study, you are pretty much at the mercy of whether this girl wants to stick around or not. You can have all the game in the world and this girl can leave you because she just wants something different... Therefore, never make your happiness contingent on a woman or what she's going to do next. Give her an opportunity to participate in your life if she acts right, and if she doesn't, give her an opportunity to get it together... otherwise let her go. If she chooses to go on her own volition, congratulate her, and keep on enjoying life and just recognize that a roster spot just opened up for a woman that DOES want to act right.

I definitely needed to hear this right now

 

[Bless't]

Just a quick summary would be that I got played by a chick I was talking to for like 8 months. We were basically bf/gf without the title, it just naturally progressed into that. I was spending multiple days a week with her, sex was always amazing, & after awhile I wanted it to make it official, but she always came up with bullshyt excuses like the time wasn't right, or she wasn't where she wanted to be in life. I treated this chick like gold, cooked for her, spent as much time with her as I could. She was what I wanted & the way I looked at it, I was putting in the effort to get her.

So fast forward a few months, I start hearing from her less, visits start becoming less frequent, we all know what that means. Eventually we just ended up parting ways because she started acting weird & distant. Eventually I find out that the entire time she was fukking around with this dude that she works with & now they're actually DATING. The dude is like 30 something year old fukking bartender who doesn't even have his own place. She doesn't even know that I know about it. We don't even talk.

So she basically played me. I fell for her & she reaped the benefits until I guess she got tired of it & just decided to bounce. Didn't even have the decency to be straight up & just tell me what was up. I'm more mad about the lack of communication that anything else. Had I known she was more interested in someone else that whole time, I could've saved myself a lot of time. She never admitted to seeing other people the entire time we were messing around. Why lie? I just don't understand why people do this shyt. I've been through a lot of bullshyt with females in the past & I'm just over it. No point in actually putting in efforts with these broads anymore. So until further notice I'm back on my fukk the world shyt. I'll hit up a jumpoff whenever I just need to get laid, but other than that, I want nothing to do with em anymore.

I already know what most of yall gonna say so I'll hold the L & charge it the game, but I'm forreal jaded now. It's like any chick I only wanna fukk & nothing else, always wants more....But the ones I want more with, never do. Can't win for losing.

(top bold)Yeah, that sucks. fukk her.

(bottom bold) But keep pushing. I've been there and was in this exact type of situation before and it'll put you into savage mode, most definitely. Just dont shun or avert any potential woman who may be a good one. Refine your sensors and have fun but also keep your eyes open for a lady who deserves you and wants what you want.

 

[Bless't]

Absolutely. It's much better to focus on getting your life together and just living in a fashion to where it's an open door in regards to women, things are a lot better. In other words, I mean, enjoy her company while she's there, but don't be disappointed if she up and leaves or she isn't as loyal as you thought. Your life should be so beautiful that if she leaves, it just frees you up to do more of what you enjoy.

If you noticed, most of those PUA/ game teacher dudes stopped or cut back and moved on to talking about something else. There's only so much you can say about 'game', and no matter how much 'game' you study, you are pretty much at the mercy of whether this girl wants to stick around or not. You can have all the game in the world and this girl can leave you because she just wants something different... Therefore, never make your happiness contingent on a woman or what she's going to do next. Give her an opportunity to participate in your life if she acts right, and if she doesn't, give her an opportunity to get it together... otherwise let her go. If she chooses to go on her own volition, congratulate her, and keep on enjoying life and just recognize that a roster spot just opened up for a woman that DOES want to act right.