Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I just turned 23 but im ready to get out the game, even here in ATL:mjcry:

Im tired of running the streets. I went out last night and friday, i cant do this shyt long term:snoop: too much wear and tear on my body

Im graduating in a couple weeks. I just wanna settle down with a bad lil baby, i have so much love to give, too much for these one night stands:mjcry:

Talking like that is gonna get your world turned upside down by a woman with more game than you.

Facts from the breh @Mister_DoItNice .

@NeilCartwright Breh you are only 23. The women around your age haven't even figured themselves out yet. You seem worn out, the best thing for you to be doing is probably take a break from dealing with these random women in general and focus your energy on something else. Maybe a business venture? new job opportunity? Find a new hobby, just DONT become vulnerable to these women.
 

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How so, breh

Expound on this

No problem breh. You talk about getting out of the game and having all this love to give. You sound washed up and you're only 23 breh! You haven't even played this game on the highest level yet. I'm 30 and I still haven't played on the highest level myself. Get your mind right. You're in ATL of all places at that. Come on man. With that attitude it's more than likely that you'll be too forthcoming with your wants and desires with a shorty that maybe fills in one or two of your checkboxes. If you do that and she has game, she'll play you for a fool and run you dry.

It's real easy for someone to be what you want if you tell exactly what that is. That's playing your hand and yourself before the game even gets started. It's a lose/lose.
 

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My mindset is smash as many women as possible until you find a good/dream girl you wanna settle down.

Dating different women helps you build confidence with women, you learn what you actually want from women & how to deal with women. Most of this cant be learned from a book, only through experience.

By the time you meet your dream girl, you will be confident enough to get her & keep her
So would you say some men have to play a role to do so?
 

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So would you say some men have to play a role to do so?

Not playing a role but bettering yourself, like the breh in the above posts said, when an athlete is sub-par, he practices a whole lot more to improve his game. Same with the game with women, you should practice trying to find out what works for you.

So with women also, we know women want a dude with a good body, a guy who dresses good, a guy who is confident & not needy, a guy who is a winner etc. These are things you should be doing already for yourself, you should be aiming to be confident & becoming a 6 figure, 6 pack dude

So many game teachers on youtube, I think the best teachers in the business are Corey Wayne & Player supreme

Coach Corey Wayne



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Not playing a role but bettering yourself, like the breh in the above posts said, when an athlete is sub-par, he practices a whole lot more to improve his game. Same with the game with women, you should practice trying to find out what works for you.

So with women also, we know women want a dude with a good body, a guy who dresses good, a guy who is confident & not needy, a guy who is a winner etc. These are things you should be doing already for yourself, you should be aiming to be confident & becoming a 6 figure, 6 pack dude

So many game teachers on youtube, I think the best teachers in the business are Corey Wayne & Player supreme

Coach Corey Wayne



Player Supreme


A breh can become a 6 figure 6 pack dude and still be the prototypical "nice guy", or perhaps someone who is too sincere to project "I just want fun and sex" off the rip without explicitly stating so. That's what I mean by playing a role because looking the part is a given.
 

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Broke up with my girl. Just wasn't feeling the relationship.
There is never ever a time where a dude breaking up with a girl makes him not look like a a$$hole unless they mutually agree to go their separate ways.
But I find it better to have broke it up with her now instead of having her around getting deeper into the relationship wasting our time.
 

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Broke up with my girl. Just wasn't feeling the relationship.
There is never ever a time where a dude breaking up with a girl makes him not look like a a$$hole unless they mutually agree to go their separate ways.
But I find it better to have broke it up with her now instead of having her around getting deeper into the relationship wasting our time.

In my experience breaking up with a woman is HARD. They usually never accept it until they get you to do something fukked up that will make them no longer want you in THEIR mind. It's like they can't deal with you just not wanting them.

I don't think I've ever had a straightforward breakup where the girl was just like "okay."

But that's why you just gotta end it and hold your stance. Because if you waver and stay friends, eventually they'll recover emotionally and just walk away for whatever reason they come up with in their heads. Leaving you sitting there like :dwillhuh:
 

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I just turned 23 but im ready to get out the game, even here in ATL:mjcry:

Im tired of running the streets. I went out last night and friday, i cant do this shyt long term:snoop: too much wear and tear on my body

Im graduating in a couple weeks. I just wanna settle down with a bad lil baby, i have so much love to give, too much for these one night stands:mjcry:

We've all felt like that. You just had a bad weekend. If you do settle down there's a high chance you'll get bored and want to be free again. Grass is always greener breh..
 

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In my experience breaking up with a woman is HARD. They usually never accept it until they get you to do something fukked up that will make them no longer want you in THEIR mind. It's like they can't deal with you just not wanting them.

I don't think I've ever had a straightforward breakup where the girl was just like "okay."

But that's why you just gotta end it and hold your stance. Because if you waver and stay friends, eventually they'll recover emotionally and just walk away for whatever reason they come up with in their heads. Leaving you sitting there like :dwillhuh:
I felt bad doing it but it had to be done. Its weird though. People praise someone who they don't know or even a fictional character like Don Draper from Mad Men as the cool guy when hes out here breaking women hearts while going on to the next one. But when I break up with a girl everyone talks down on me as the a$$hole.
Like fukk I'm 22. Last time I checked people my age were supposed to be in multiple relationships to find out what they actually want. To make myself clear, Dudes always got a specific "type." The thing is these dudes who believe they have a type actually don't know if they like that type because either A.) they never actually dated the type or B.) They actually have a type they prefer better yet they just don't know for the simple fact they haven't encountered that type of girl yet. This is why dudes who be in these long ass relationships, where they get ol girl pregnant, and marry her flop hard af.

I thought this girl was my type and found out that type isn't actually what I wanted. She was a very nice girl who is very pretty and no one knew her because she lived in a different town plus she was the quiet type. But god damn the relationship was doing nothing for me. This is gonna sound dikkish but it was like what else did she have to offer me besides sex? But you know what fukk it. I should be like this because I'm taking care of myself. Its either that or be in a long ass relationship I didn't want to be in where I'm going to her family gathers and shyt. She was that girl who had nothing to bring to the conversation. And you don't know how important that could be for you, for in this instance me, until you actually go through it.


What I was did was for the best for both of us.


Plus I feel like I'm a guy stuck in the being a hoe stage:mjgrin:
 

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Not playing a role but bettering yourself, like the breh in the above posts said, when an athlete is sub-par, he practices a whole lot more to improve his game. Same with the game with women, you should practice trying to find out what works for you.

So with women also, we know women want a dude with a good body, a guy who dresses good, a guy who is confident & not needy, a guy who is a winner etc. These are things you should be doing already for yourself, you should be aiming to be confident & becoming a 6 figure, 6 pack dude

So many game teachers on youtube, I think the best teachers in the business are Corey Wayne & Player supreme

Coach Corey Wayne



Player Supreme


Corey Wayne is that dude. He can be very corny in a "white people" type of way but he pretty much contributed a troubleshooting guide as far as logistics and setting shyt up to increase the odds of fukking.
 

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We've all felt like that. You just had a bad weekend. If you do settle down there's a high chance you'll get bored and want to be free again. Grass is always greener breh..
Its not even about a bad weekend breh, i got two numbers. Got a couple females on reserve who are down to come thru.

I just fell back from approaching from 18-21. Got my money/career right, then got back in the game. My own spot, decent money, car, etc. Now its not too hard to find casual sex, women are out here busting it open. Im just tryna find something long term with a bad one:mjcry:
 
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