thanks bruh, it's tough out here cause I be getting looks too, I just get all in my head and dont execute
how should I go by this?
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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thanks bruh, it's tough out here cause I be getting looks too, I just get all in my head and dont execute
how should I go by this?
I'd say start off by just smiling at women you see whilst out and about with some eye contact all types not just the hot ones, now don't be creepy breh haha, maybe just a lil smirk. The amount of times something so simple has opened the door for me is crazy.
Then build up to starting random conversations with them when you see them outside say in the grocery store, getting gas, wherever you can be sociable without any effort. Easy way is to mention something that is linked to where you're at like gas prices, expensive dog food whatever. It's important that you go into those interactions with no expectations and not be an inconvenience, in fact just be social and dip. With time that should get you more comfortable being around them etc.
Eventually you'll want to build up to approaching them whether it's during daytime (slept on) or during night at bars and what not. Doing it at clubs is fruitless in my opinion.
Some dudes in here may be able to recommend some books for you.
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
Think im going to have to cut off this chick i like.
Seen her like 6-7 times in the month i known her , first time being a date we went on,
and then rest of the times was me sleeping over at her place. All those times i slept over
at her place , we didnt have sex at all which i can respect if you dont want to give it up
right away but one thing that i aint cool with is that she ain't affectionate either which i am.
I have only gone to her place to watch tv and fall asleep , and i told her from the start that i aint
looking for a friendship but it feels like she is friendzoning me if she haven't yet. Right now we both
are taking finals so we havent seen each other in like 2 weeks but if i end up seeing her again , ill
just tell her straight up that if she is looking for a tv-watching buddy then that aint me.
Im really into her which i think she can tell as well.
You sound way too open off this chick fam. Stop hitting her up for a while and get at some other shorties. Either she'll hit you up and ask where you've been or she won't. Either way you'll be doing your thing. Why would you allow yourself to have your time wasted?
This 19 year old pushing her way out the minor leagues to my roster
Think im going to have to cut off this chick i like.
Seen her like 6-7 times in the month i known her , first time being a date we went on,
and then rest of the times was me sleeping over at her place. All those times i slept over
at her place , we didnt have sex at all which i can respect if you dont want to give it up
right away but one thing that i aint cool with is that she ain't affectionate either which i am.
I have only gone to her place to watch tv and fall asleep , and i told her from the start that i aint
looking for a friendship but it feels like she is friendzoning me if she haven't yet. Right now we both
are taking finals so we havent seen each other in like 2 weeks but if i end up seeing her again , ill
just tell her straight up that if she is looking for a tv-watching buddy then that aint me.
Im really into her which i think she can tell as well
Sounds like you are being too passive aggressive.
If you spend the night with a chick you should be hitting it.
If you tell her you are not looking for friendship but then you are acting like a friend. That means you are not living up to your word as a man which is a bad look on you.
The next time yall hang out you should be feeling her up and if she's not receptive you need to bounce.
the beliefs you decide to adopt have a strong influence on shaping your reality...Me & ol girl broke up like 7 months ago after 5 years... I had a good run while I was single. But Ima be honest .. my ex is the only girl I'm attracted to enough to have any ambition for. We started talking again.
Idk what to do. I gotta decide between being happy with the only girl I'll be happy with & unhappy with not having the freedom... or having the freedom & totally unhappy with all the girls I'll be with
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
Use the gym environment to open dialogue.
- If she struggling to lift, offer to spot her lift a heavy weight.
- If her form is wack, just tell her you noticed her form is not how its supposed to be and you dont want her to hurt herself & proceed to show her how to perform the exercise
- If she struggling to add weight on her bar, off to help add weight etc.
After the opener, lead the conversation to how often does she come to the gym a week, what her gym goals are, diet regimes, gym clothes, is she getting in shape for a specific occasion (wedding,vacation) etc.
Or when you are both going out of the gym at the water cooler, stumble in to her then be apologetic & say some bullshyt about you always see her in the gym, you seem dedicated, are you getting in shape for something.
After the small talk , tell her your name & ask what her name is. If she got an unusual name, give a compliment on her name.If she seems receptive so far, ask for her number.
Youseenmywork
KING
A women can only pay a man in two ways. What's between her legs or what's between her wallet. Make her pick one and be consistent.
the one bytch i've fukked via the gym...i caught while she was getting the spray/napkin to whipe a machine down. i was very straightforward / honest with it and ended saying anyways i dont wanna keep you from your workout...you mind if i get your #?
she was older though so she wasnt with the bs games. a crazy chick though.
you gotta be attractive enough to get their juices flowing...but you have to be enough of an aint shyt nikka to the point where they wont want anything more.
in other words...be an a$$hole and dont show them your best side. in your interactions keep everything about sex and fun topics. dont go discussing your career, dreams and self improvement and shyt with a girl you dont want to be there for the long haul
Yeah i did , like 2 weeks after knowing each other. She said she rather take it slow because 2 weeks aint enough to know if you want to be in a relationship , so i gave it a month but we haven't made much progress.
I actually dont be blowing up her phone and only text back when she responds to my previous message. im mostly too open when im laying right next to her on her bed. Most of the times , she the one that be inviting me over and on the day we met and went out , she the one that went for the kiss and hugs and shyt. Maybe she was feeling me when it didnt seem that i was that much into her.
Sounds like you are being too passive aggressive.
If you spend the night with a chick you should be hitting it.
If you tell her you are not looking for friendship but then you are acting like a friend. That means you are not living up to your word as a man which is a bad look on you.
The next time yall hang out you should be feeling her up and if she's not receptive you need to bounce.
Yeah next time i see her , ill be more aggressive ..the worse that can happen is her saying no and ill know im just wasting my time and cut her off. I also started talking to other women to get distracted from her.
Alfred0Santana
I used to drop Lewinsky off at the White House.
Damn. This chick I used to talk to is coming to town today for a baby shower and she got a hotel for us. I forgot to tell her I had plans already. She bought the room last night sending me screenshots and all saying I better show up because she can't get a refund. 
I'm chilling with this other chick tonight already for cinco de mayo like the whole night. Cooking..drinking...etc. Im about to just tell her cancel the room. I dont got a good lie at the moment 
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I'm chilling with this other chick tonight already for cinco de mayo like the whole night. Cooking..drinking...etc. Im about to just tell her cancel the room. I dont got a good lie at the moment .
QuintessentialBM
GoldenAgeGamer82 - PSN ID
This is something someone would ask from the movie How to Be a Player. lolDamn. This chick I used to talk to is coming to town today for a baby shower and she got a hotel for us. I forgot to tell her I had plans already. She bought the room last night sending me screenshots and all saying I better show up because she can't get a refund.