Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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She's just not that type of girl for YOU. I'm 98.3% sure her phone is filled with nasty sext messages from the dude she fukking.

You just have to take that L and move on breh. There's a way you can get out the friend zone and I've done it before, but its really not worth it. You'd be better off spending that energy on someone new.

I think it was @Supreme Leader Reinscarf who said this, but while you're out here scrapping for a second, third, fourth chance with this chick, there is a decent woman out there praying for her first with someone real.

Play the game accordingly.


Bruh, AMEN to all of this. Nothing else needs to be said.
 
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Understand that there is a reason that the "Read" message notification in the DM's exists in Snapchat, IG, Facebook and if I'm not mistaken, even in them iPhones too, mane (I own an Android tho). It's meant to save you a headache and weed out who do and don't give af. Don't play yourself. If she's not responding or saying generic shyt to you, just bounce asap. Don't be one of them nikkaz that blow up a hoe's dm and she screenshots it and puts it on social media.

 

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This is the most confused I've ever been with a woman. Last month we were hanging out and I had bought her a present for her birthday. Now almost a month later she won't talk to me and appears to have blocked me. This is extremely baffling especially considering the fact that the last time I spoke to her everything was cool and she was asking me when we were gunna hang out again :mindblown:

Ain't no sense in worrying bout it. On to da next one. That dirty bytch was prolly married or got a STD.
 

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I find myself back with a similar mindset I had when I was younger. I don't really care about these shorties. I shoot my shot and I enjoy their company but that's it. I'm more focused on myself and what I have to do. I look for reasons to cut em' as opposed to looking for reasons to keep em'. A few of my joints have already sensed the shift in my actions. This summer will be very interesting.
 
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And another thing, whenever SHE decides to hit you the fukk up and initiate a conversation via text/social media, you answer that shyt asap. Chick's will DEF make sure u reply to her shyt when she hollers. Even if she gotta start liking a cpl of your posts/pics

It's a huge difference between when SHE decides to hit HIM up VS HE trying to hit SHE up.....

When we do it, we gotta say something correct or be gone. Then rinse, wash & repeat.
 

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And another thing, whenever SHE decides to hit you the fukk up and initiate a conversation via text/social media, you answer that shyt asap. Chick's will DEF make sure u reply to her shyt when she hollers. Even if she gotta start liking a cpl of your posts/pics

It's a huge difference between when SHE decides to hit HIM up VS HE trying to hit SHE up.....

When we do it, we gotta say something correct or be gone. Then rinse, wash & repeat.

I wouldn't say asap but give it like 5-10 minutes. Women on one hand don't want you to be TOO responsive because it makes it look like you have no life but they also want to be able to rely on you if they have an issue and need a quick response.

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I wouldn't say asap but give it like 5-10 minutes. Women on one hand don't want you to be TOO responsive because it makes it look like you have no life but they also want to be able to rely on you if they have an issue and need a quick response.

:shaq2:


It's like 5 mins tops for me when they hit me up. I'll holler back but no longer than no 10 mins. By then, bytch could easily change her mind. But I feel u. I stay doing me all day without worrying about to trying to waste my day talking to a bish, mane.
 

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I'm starting to realize the importance of the aura. I am positive that despite an unassuming look, mine is likely dark as the depths of hell. But to change that, I'm feeling like a fresh start is necessary...letting dreams die, relocation for cheaper COL and working for my independent like a grown man.

That veered off the topic of women but the aura they see won't be lightened by any amount of weights lifted, books read, or things written. A nikka gotta move.
 

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I'm starting to realize the importance of the aura. I am positive that despite an unassuming look, mine is likely dark as the depths of hell. But to change that, I'm feeling like a fresh start is necessary...letting dreams die, relocation for cheaper COL and working for my independent like a grown man.

That veered off the topic of women but the aura they see won't be lightened by any amount of weights lifted, books read, or things written. A nikka gotta move.

Yeah I think some nikkas just have like you said an aura. I apparently have really really welcoming aura to women despite dressing in all black and generally looking disinterested when I'm going about. I've had dozens of chicks just randomly say shyt like I love your fashion or you are so approachable and I'm like :dahell: I'm over dressed like a fukking warlock and I'm approachable. I guess looking so drammatically different from the normal black dude does it or something? But yeah I try to be dark but despite my efforts apparently I'm still welcoming or w/e so I get what youre saying. like we can't escape our true nature lol.
 

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Yeah I think some nikkas just have like you said an aura. I apparently have really really welcoming aura to women despite dressing in all black and generally looking disinterested when I'm going about. I've had dozens of chicks just randomly say shyt like I love your fashion or you are so approachable and I'm like :dahell: I'm over dressed like a fukking warlock and I'm approachable. I guess looking so drammatically different from the normal black dude does it or something? But yeah I try to be dark but despite my efforts apparently I'm still welcoming or w/e so I get what youre saying. like we can't escape our true nature lol.
You wanna trade then? :skip:
Everybody has an aura. Mine is just more than likely dark and repelling.
 

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You wanna trade then? :skip:
Everybody has an aura. Mine is just more than likely dark and repelling.
Naw it works for me :takedat: I get to dress like a gothic Prince and still have biddies biting :takedat:

real talk once you have some more confidence in yourslef I'm sure your dark aura will start to transform to something different. you can't really hide your true self from bytches they have a sixth sense to sniff out bs and yours much be really apparent since they not having to dig to deep to sniff it out no offense brehlito:hubie:
 

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Naw it works for me :takedat: I get to dress like a gothic Prince and still have biddies biting :takedat:

real talk once you have some more confidence in yourslef I'm sure your dark aura will start to transform to something different. you can't really hide your true self from bytches they have a sixth sense to sniff out bs and yours much be really apparent since they not having to dig to deep to sniff it out no offense brehlito:hubie:
I'm not offended because in my opinion I bring nothing to the table, I know this and I'm sure it radiates. And I'm not some well dressed, get fly nikka to throw it off and never will be as long as quality clothing costs what it does. But I'm just not happy and that comes from being told I'm bright all my life and that intelligence becoming a burden as I got older, so now there's nothing to show for it. That's why I spoke about moving and all that other shyt because as long as I'm unhappy the confidence will not grow.

Ironically enough I'm fairly confident in my ability to maintain any woman's interest after forming a bond (sex). But I'm aware of the importance of superficial impressions so I don't bother pursuing.
 
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Man you guys just ever met a straight up evil girl?
Like a chick just so disrespectful and rude. Straight up ass hole.
Before anyone comes in and say those type of girls just want to be checked by a alpha to take her over.
Nah I'm talking about a girl who been rude af since she was a kid and just grew up to be a big bytch where she causes problems from regular people to her family.

I know one. I'd say shes like a 7.5 with some big ass titties on her slim body. So that shyt just bumps her to a 8.
Not once have I had a interaction with her or seen her fb shyt or stories from other people that didn't make me think. God damn shes crazy and a straight up bytch.
Like based off her shyt on the net. She hops from family member to family member house every 4 to 5 months because she keeps getting kicked out for being a bytch.

Why is she like that?
 
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