Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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This white girl I talk to once in a while always wants to hang out with me and always comments on my snapchat vids cause I go out to different places a lot. She always ask me "when are we going to Tampa" I know women are looking for some kind of simp or come up so they can tell their friends that they got some dude tied around their finger for bragging rights. So I told her "wtf do you mean we? Go to Tampa by yourself." She called me a ass and stormed off. She always do this. I mention the places I want to visits she says "me and you can go!" I'm like nah I'm good. Cause I know women feelings change like the weather so she is talking shyt. She is 18 years old also. She offer me cookies and soda today at work I told her thanks and left.
tbh i feel like you're thinking too deep into this
sounds like an easy smash. shes asking u to hang out w/ her alone. just redirect the convo into hanging out somewhere locally
 

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This white girl I talk to once in a while always wants to hang out with me and always comments on my snapchat vids cause I go out to different places a lot. She always ask me "when are we going to Tampa" I know women are looking for some kind of simp or come up so they can tell their friends that they got some dude tied around their finger for bragging rights. So I told her "wtf do you mean we? Go to Tampa by yourself." She called me a ass and stormed off. She always do this. I mention the places I want to visits she says "me and you can go!" I'm like nah I'm good. Cause I know women feelings change like the weather so she is talking shyt. She is 18 years old also. She offer me cookies and soda today at work I told her thanks and left.

Ehh there's nothing really wrong with going on a trip with a woman-friend as long as she doesn't expect you to pay.

Even if you don't fukk her, being out with a woman friend is an easy way to get laid, especially if she's down to wing.

I definitely wouldn't of snapped at her like that considering she hadn't really done anything bad.
 

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Ehh there's nothing really wrong with going on a trip with a woman-friend as long as she doesn't expect you to pay.

Even if you don't fukk her, being out with a woman friend is an easy way to get laid, especially if she's down to wing.

I definitely wouldn't of snapped at her like that considering she hadn't really done anything bad.

I told her she gotta put in work to show me she is interested in being around me as a "friend." But I told her I talk to other women and I'm not there to babysit her if she does anything stupid.(get drunk, sucks multiple dikks or get in fights cause you know women when they are on alcohol their judgment is all messed up) I told her that if a dude is going to talk to her then she better tell the dude to leave her alone or give him some play cause she is not my wife or girlfriend. I'm not on some Whitney Houston bodyguard type stuff. She said okay cool and suggested I do my thing and she will tag along. She just graduated from high school this month. I also noticed is that she has this look in her eyes of desire. I try not to think anything of it cause she likes guns, is white, has a leopard tattoo on her foot. That's a sign she a hoe. im very skeptical of women because they are deceptive.
 

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tbh i feel like you're thinking too deep into this
sounds like an easy smash. shes asking u to hang out w/ her alone. just redirect the convo into hanging out somewhere locally

Yes. I find women to be deceptive that why I think critical of them. At first I was hesitant to give her my number cause I had a feeling she was on some bullshyt. So I gave it to her anyway n from the jump I told her I'm not interested in friendship or being your gay best friend, I'm only want to hook up that it. I didn't want to hook up with her, I was just using her as practice to get use to talking to women. She is ugly too. I'm not getting play from chicks but I refuse to lower myself to this chick just because she smiled at me.
 

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I told her she gotta put in work to show me she is interested in being around me as a "friend." But I told her I talk to other women and I'm not there to babysit her if she does anything stupid.(get drunk, sucks multiple dikks or get in fights cause you know women when they are on alcohol their judgment is all messed up) I told her that if a dude is going to talk to her then she better tell the dude to leave her alone or give him some play cause she is not my wife or girlfriend. I'm not on some Whitney Houston bodyguard type stuff. She said okay cool and suggested I do my thing and she will tag along. She just graduated from high school this month. I also noticed is that she has this look in her eyes of desire. I try not to think anything of it cause she likes guns, is white, has a leopard tattoo on her foot. That's a sign she a hoe. im very skeptical of women because they are deceptive.

U talkin ya self out da puss
 

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I told her she gotta put in work to show me she is interested in being around me as a "friend." But I told her I talk to other women and I'm not there to babysit her if she does anything stupid.(get drunk, sucks multiple dikks or get in fights cause you know women when they are on alcohol their judgment is all messed up) I told her that if a dude is going to talk to her then she better tell the dude to leave her alone or give him some play cause she is not my wife or girlfriend. I'm not on some Whitney Houston bodyguard type stuff. She said okay cool and suggested I do my thing and she will tag along. She just graduated from high school this month. I also noticed is that she has this look in her eyes of desire. I try not to think anything of it cause she likes guns, is white, has a leopard tattoo on her foot. That's a sign she a hoe. im very skeptical of women because they are deceptive.

You cant make this shyt up:dead:
 

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Yo Crayola how old are you fam? You're taking HOH a bit too literal homie. If this particular woman hasn't done you wrong I don't see why you need to treat her so harshly. If you don't want her on the team, since she's ugly, then cut her loose. Not that difficult. Get something better.
Is he really though?
-"I'm not interested in friendship/venting phone calls"
-"Smashing is a priority as far as women I meet"
-"If we're out and you're drunk, I'm not your bodyguard" (so her incentive to act stupid should go down)
I feel like this is what nikkas are generally afraid to say but he said it :manny:
 

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It's not a matter of being afraid to say it. You can easily convey the very same things with your actions. That's why I asked him how old he was. If he's young then I can understand why he's not as adept with the subtleties of interpersonal communication.


I see nothing wrong with what hes doing although he could be a bit smoother, but shes young and in her prime. Him puttin his foot down like that is a good thing.


Ive done both (smooth & slow or straight up) and without fail females esp the young ones with ADHD/a million options love it. It shows ur dominant and not with the games. Ive tried to finnesse my way with them & they get bored quick or try to friendzone me, too many games.
 

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Is he really though?
-"I'm not interested in friendship/venting phone calls"
-"Smashing is a priority as far as women I meet"
-"If we're out and you're drunk, I'm not your bodyguard" (so her incentive to act stupid should go down)
I feel like this is what nikkas are generally afraid to say but he said it :manny:

Most salespeople don't give a fukk about you, but they don't tell you that...

If you want any success with people you gotta understand subtle wording
 

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Most salespeople don't give a fukk about you, but they don't tell you that...

If you want any success with people you gotta understand subtle wording
I don't know I feel like in this particular situation, that straight up shyt is a benefit. She's 18, like @Hennessypapi said these broads have the attention span of a pigeon so finesse will bore them and give them room to play games. This isn't a 28-year-old "independent woman" waiting to be sold dreams (which I don't advocate for anyway) on settling down and have a whole bunch of shyt left for interpretation.

@Crayola Coyote is too direct in general lol but I think his cynicism is fukking him up for this particular girl more than being too direct.
 

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I don't know I feel like in this particular situation, that straight up shyt is a benefit. She's 18, like @Hennessypapi said these broads have the attention span of a pigeon so finesse will bore them and give them room to play games. This isn't a 28-year-old "independent woman" waiting to be sold dreams (which I don't advocate for anyway) on settling down and have a whole bunch of shyt left for interpretation.

@Crayola Coyote is too direct in general lol but I think his cynicism is fukking him up for this particular girl more than being too direct.

I will concede that.

If she is younger you gotta be in that kinda vein
 
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