Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

No one is perfect there is no perfect relationship and if there was someone would get bored fast.

Thanks to Disney and corny movies and ish women's minds are warped.

I feel u on having doubts and that's fine and I can understand that but like u said not communicating would piss me off too
It's the least u can do so we could work it out and see what makes u feel that way in case ur doing something wrong and u don't see it or she misinterpret things wrong on your end

I'm married and I feel sometimes wtf is the point
Say I Do females become a new person u didn't even know existed at all

As I get older and longer stay married I realize COMMUNICATION might just be the most important factor cuz when u ain't shyt is a bytch and relationship or marriage killer

I'm sick of hearing these fairy tale as stories females want or think gonna happen even damn dudes
It's not even like that and even if it's a really good or happy thing u got going on truth be told some conflict is needed in it so u can see that side of that person and know how-to handle it
shyt make up sex is godly cuz of conflict

I tell people mines ain't no perfect thing shyt she pisses me off on a daily basis but at same time there is a understanding we have COMMUNICATION we have that works with 90% trust ( i never will trust a female 100% 90 is the max for me ) etc....
At same time she knows and I know we don't need to stay married cuz we both will be aight on our own so it's not forced either

 

[twan83]

homie, there's a question you might want to ask yourself. at what point do you stop being the one being broken up with? at what point do you stop being the one on a message board, talking to strangers about ur woman problems? at what point do the women YOU want stop breaking up with u? i understand ur a religious guy. and i find that admirable. but it is not the desire of your god to see ur heart heavy with worry. your guardian angel does not desire to see u live in a almost constant state of disquiet. something has to change.

we can all tell u the different rules of the game. do this, dont do that. but until u perform an internal tune up, this will be a recurring theme for you.

i knew a guy who is very, very good with women. i dont envy a lot of people but i envy this dude at the ease with which women throw themselves at him. one thing he told me was, when i would tell him my woman problems. he said, dude, i goto be honest with u, i cant remember the last time ive felt the way u feel. that heavy pain in the pit of ur stomach, ur heart rate beating fast, terrifying imaginations of some other dude going up inside ur girl.

i envied this dude. so i decided to watch what he does. and the way he's able to avoid being attached is by having multiple women around him. and if he's not with a woman, he throws himself into his work. and some of the women who really liked him always tried to join him when he's working on his projects and he always says no.

my point here is this, do what you must to never find urself attached to any woman. i cant tell u to juggle multiple women if that doesnt vibe with ur personality. but juggle something else, besides the woman ur dating. ur life cant revolve around any woman. dont matter even if shes ur wife.

He sound like how I am in a sense and how I do things when I'm single to be honest
I revised myself and just didn't let them get too me so everything came natural too me

 

[twan83]

No one is perfect there is no perfect relationship and if there was someone would get bored fast.

Thanks to Disney and corny movies and ish women's minds are warped.

Breh and that has always been issue bored
People ask me y I didn't marry this bad ass model or some of these dime pieces I tell em BORING looks aren't my priority u can have her if u want tho I tell em
I get bored so easily and quickly with females faster than usian bolt

 

[Lord Bison]

homie, there's a question you might want to ask yourself. at what point do you stop being the one being broken up with? at what point do you stop being the one on a message board, talking to strangers about ur woman problems? at what point do the women YOU want stop breaking up with u? i understand ur a religious guy. and i find that admirable. but it is not the desire of your god to see ur heart heavy with worry. your guardian angel does not desire to see u live in a almost constant state of disquiet. something has to change.

we can all tell u the different rules of the game. do this, dont do that. but until u perform an internal tune up, this will be a recurring theme for you.

i knew a guy who is very, very good with women. i dont envy a lot of people but i envy this dude at the ease with which women throw themselves at him. one thing he told me was, when i would tell him my woman problems. he said, dude, i goto be honest with u, i cant remember the last time ive felt the way u feel. that heavy pain in the pit of ur stomach, ur heart rate beating fast, terrifying imaginations of some other dude going up inside ur girl.

i envied this dude. so i decided to watch what he does. and the way he's able to avoid being attached is by having multiple women around him. and if he's not with a woman, he throws himself into his work. and some of the women who really liked him always tried to join him when he's working on his projects and he always says no.

my point here is this, do what you must to never find urself attached to any woman. i cant tell u to juggle multiple women if that doesnt vibe with ur personality. but juggle something else, besides the woman ur dating. ur life cant revolve around any woman. dont matter even if shes ur wife.

Realest shyt I never said. I was and still am a very introverted dude. The problem is that I became a victim of my own introversion when it came to women. It wasn't until I got around a homie that was killing it in the game that I was able to understand how the game goes. Homeboy was like Kobe out there. Somedays he was 14-21, other days he was 9-34 . The point is that he wasn't afraid to shoot his shot.

My turning point for me was when I was in a bad car accident that should have killed me. Thankfully I walked away with just a busted lip, but it could have been much much worse. That accident made me realize that whatever depression I was dealing with in terms of the opposite sex was petty and it allowed me to break my introversion. It was like God gave me the chance to press continue after dying on the inside multiple times. Ever since then I've never allowed any woman to get the best of me because I know deep down I could be 6 feet deep. So at the end it's not that major.

@Supreme Leader Reinscarf

Even though the situation sucks and she hurt you pretty bad, just remember to appreciate the pain that you're going through right now. Because that pain means that you're alive, and the opposite of alive is dead. Embrace that pain and remember that relationship was all a part of the second chance at life God gave you. Her letting you go gave you an opportunity to appreciate the smaller things in life again. You'll be a stronger man because of it.

 

[MikelArteta]

This is why I love this thread

 

[Ohene]

homie, there's a question you might want to ask yourself. at what point do you stop being the one being broken up with? at what point do you stop being the one on a message board, talking to strangers about ur woman problems? at what point do the women YOU want stop breaking up with u? i understand ur a religious guy. and i find that admirable. but it is not the desire of your god to see ur heart heavy with worry. your guardian angel does not desire to see u live in a almost constant state of disquiet. something has to change.

we can all tell u the different rules of the game. do this, dont do that. but until u perform an internal tune up, this will be a recurring theme for you.

i knew a guy who is very, very good with women. i dont envy a lot of people but i envy this dude at the ease with which women throw themselves at him. one thing he told me was, when i would tell him my woman problems. he said, dude, i goto be honest with u, i cant remember the last time ive felt the way u feel. that heavy pain in the pit of ur stomach, ur heart rate beating fast, terrifying imaginations of some other dude going up inside ur girl.

i envied this dude. so i decided to watch what he does. and the way he's able to avoid being attached is by having multiple women around him. and if he's not with a woman, he throws himself into his work. and some of the women who really liked him always tried to join him when he's working on his projects and he always says no.

my point here is this, do what you must to never find urself attached to any woman. i cant tell u to juggle multiple women if that doesnt vibe with ur personality. but juggle something else, besides the woman ur dating. ur life cant revolve around any woman. dont matter even if shes ur wife.

game

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Y'all better be lifting!!!

 

[TRUEST]

Y'all better be lifting!!!

the benefits

 

[DaHNIC82]

When you're a single dude with no options, Women gonna smell the clingy and desperation all over you.


Society often makes men feel guilty for "playing the field" or "having options". I can't even phantom the many times these bytches have lead me on and lied subconsciously to me only to either go back to the current nikka whom either treated them like dirt or continue to chase them. The men they claim to hate are the ones they secretly desire so instead of looking for "ride or die" chick you would have build yourself a team of women until eventually one shows those qualities you look for to go levels.

 

[Mr210]

Y'all better be lifting!!!

I'm at the gym right now

 

[TheArchitect]

So, aside from actually getting out (won't be able to until next week), I've been trying to "change my vibrations"(refraining from negative thoughts, improving physically, etc.). I figure maybe that'll help, since usually it was the opposite and it never helped me. Ive even refrained from fapping, hoping maybe it'll help in some sort of way. Ive been desiring female attention for quite some time, so i figure maybe if i don't think so much about it and think positive things, something good may happen for me sooner or later. They say shyt happens when you least expect it, right? Problem is its hard to put it out of your head when youve been DYING for the shyt for god knows how long...

 

[Shadow King]

Y'all better be lifting!!!

Just came from there. Past 2 weeks been horrible though

 

[360dagod]

So, aside from actually getting out (won't be able to until next week), I've been trying to "change my vibrations"(refraining from negative thoughts, improving physically, etc.). I figure maybe that'll help, since usually it was the opposite and it never helped me. Ive even refrained from fapping, hoping maybe it'll help in some sort of way. Ive been desiring female attention for quite some time, so i figure maybe if i don't think so much about it and think positive things, something good may happen for me sooner or later. They say shyt happens when you least expect it, right? Problem is its hard to put it out of your head when youve been DYING for the shyt for god knows how long...

When you start getting out more and traveling, it will pick up..I plan to hit the club tomorrow and do a personal "heat check"...

in other words,a higher power has always put me in the surroundings of vagina that i haven't hunted for...

i've methodically hit rock bottom with my "roster"..Either they went MIA or were DOA as soon as they violated..

Im gonna just approach on some Mike Shanahan 1-cut scheme type shyt and just have fun..

Just go somewhere where no one knows you and experiment...

And always keep ya head up and walk at a solid pace

 

[Atlrocafella]

@Supreme Leader Reinscarf you'll bounce back breh, you are one of the OG's when it comes to dropping gems on women.

I know you still disagree on my stance of having a deactivated roster in a relationship, but in times like these, it would definitely help ,

 

[MikelArteta]

@Supreme Leader Reinscarf you'll bounce back breh, you are one of the OG's when it comes to dropping gems on women.

I know you still disagree on my stance of having a deactivated roster in a relationship, but times like these would definitely help ,

everyone is different just can't do it, I do see how it helps though