homie, there's a question you might want to ask yourself. at what point do you stop being the one being broken up with? at what point do you stop being the one on a message board, talking to strangers about ur woman problems? at what point do the women YOU want stop breaking up with u? i understand ur a religious guy. and i find that admirable. but it is not the desire of your god to see ur heart heavy with worry. your guardian angel does not desire to see u live in a almost constant state of disquiet. something has to change.
we can all tell u the different rules of the game. do this, dont do that. but until u perform an internal tune up, this will be a recurring theme for you.
i knew a guy who is very, very good with women. i dont envy a lot of people but i envy this dude at the ease with which women throw themselves at him. one thing he told me was, when i would tell him my woman problems. he said, dude, i goto be honest with u, i cant remember the last time ive felt the way u feel. that heavy pain in the pit of ur stomach, ur heart rate beating fast, terrifying imaginations of some other dude going up inside ur girl.
i envied this dude. so i decided to watch what he does. and the way he's able to avoid being attached is by having multiple women around him. and if he's not with a woman, he throws himself into his work. and some of the women who really liked him always tried to join him when he's working on his projects and he always says no.
my point here is this, do what you must to never find urself attached to any woman. i cant tell u to juggle multiple women if that doesnt vibe with ur personality. but juggle something else, besides the woman ur dating. ur life cant revolve around any woman. dont matter even if shes ur wife.
