Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Mister_DoItNice

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Don't be afraid to make moves solo fellas. I only mess with a few people out here for real and we don't always have coinciding work schedules. Decided to make moves to this restaurant by the beach for dinner and met this cute ass Cape Verdean waitress with a ridiculous ass. One of the benefits of being one of the few black people on this island is if you're remotely handsome these chicks are choosing automatically. I know most people don't like going out alone but fukk it. You gotta be comfortable with yourself.
 

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Don't be afraid to make moves solo fellas. I only mess with a few people out here for real and we don't always have coinciding work schedules. Decided to make moves to this restaurant by the beach for dinner and met this cute ass Cape Verdean waitress with a ridiculous ass. One of the benefits of being one of the few black people on this island is if you're remotely handsome these chicks are choosing automatically. I know most people don't like going out alone but fukk it. You gotta be comfortable with yourself.
Island? Where you at breh? But yeah going out solo is nice and simple. I've been saying lately moving in groups is a safety thing, at least here it is.
 

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Cold approached this 2 women i saw on the train today but i was only interested in one, we were waiting on the D train which got delayed so i started a conversation with that ...asked her for her instagram which she said she didnt have so im like ok
then we get on the train where we keep talking and once her stop was approaching , i asked her for her number which she then revealed that she does have an instagram but doesnt give it out like that but she gave it to me . not really expecting anything
to come out of this especially since i think her boyfriend might have called her while we were talking but i pretended to not hear it. ill dm her tomorrow night but im mostly using this as experience.
 

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How do you respond to "Hello, how are you?" text? :patrice:

I met her today, we talked a little, then exchanged numbers.

Usually I try to bring up something funny from our first interaction when texting/talking to a girl, but this text has me stomped for some odd reason.
So we've been texting non-stop for the past week. But I swear to God this chick sometimes gives me nothing to respond to. Her last text "Just finished work. I'm here at a restaurant relaxing."

How am I suppose to respond to that shyt?
 

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Women really be expecting you to entertain them and be dry af holding a conversation. Got her number yesterday and already deleted it

I have no time for chicks who can't hold a conversation...shyt makes things so awkward.

Like I need shyt to go off of...when a chick doesn't have much to say I assume she ain't into me and I keep it moving.
 

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I got this white chick at my job number. We were talking and it went like

Me:"Aww yea seattle center is dope"-

Her:"never been :usure:"

Me: " yea got swings, food, EMP"

Her: "yup never been :usure:"

Now I realized she wanted me to make the step so I did..

Me: we should exchange numbera
Her: yea!!!you wanna go?! :shaq:"


Got the number..thing is my money ain't right so I don't have time goto museums with broads so I didn't hit her up. Seen her in belltown a week later with some dude and I walk by and she shakes her head :mjlol:

:manny:

I'm not sweating it..I move at my own pace. I try to avoid females because my life and mental health is all fukked up yet they be on me so much it's annoying.

I try to keep it cordial at work but then these thirsty broads get mad because you ain't tryna get they number.
 

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So we've been texting non-stop for the past week. But I swear to God this chick sometimes gives me nothing to respond to. Her last text "Just finished work. I'm here at a restaurant relaxing."

How am I suppose to respond to that shyt?

Go for the date asap...

You might have to bush it...

I just went thru this:russ:

Everything was cool and then after the date she changed up on a nikka:manny:

I wasn't on it like that so Its not a biggie but yeah you gotta go for the date asap and get at least 1 phone call in...

That heavy text stuff only works on chicks you got history with..
 

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Go for the date asap...

You might have to bush it...

I just went thru this:russ:

Everything was cool and then after the date she changed up on a nikka:manny:

I wasn't on it like that so Its not a biggie but yeah you gotta go for the date asap and get at least 1 phone call in...

That heavy text stuff only works on chicks you got history with..
I would have taken her out on a date already, but our work schedules conflict. She works at night and I work in the day. So texting is the only thing we can do at the moment.
 
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