Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[TRUEST]

I see this young girl at the gym on and off. I usually frequent my closest gym because it's more serious.

Long story short I saw her tonight and she was complimenting me on my pants I was wearing (a breh has legs and ass too). I invited her to go eat with me after. She asked why doesn't she pick up some food and I meet her at my place. So I'm in

We get to her place it's just her and I there. We talk about random shyt but we are on her couch eating and we got real familiar with one another. I was even rubbing her legs.

So she was trying to go to bed, shower, etc. Before I was leaving I was looking at her with "fukk me" eyes

I go in for a kiss and she pushes back like "eh"



So wait...you buy me food and invite me to go eat at your place and we are alone. Am I missing something here?!

I wasn't weird about it though and was polite. Thanked her for the food and bounced.

the idea ofmaking out with a stranger after yall literally just ate. and it depends on what yall ate. she probably wont be feeling in the mood if the food she just ate is making her gassy.

and dont be giving them the "fucck me eyes" loll. thats hella creepy unless u know what ur doing.

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

I've seen her at the gym for the past 3-4 months. I think she saw me doing something and she asked about it and I offered her suggestions. I even recall one time at the gym she got her friend to introduce herself to me because she forgot my name.

One night I saw her downtown and she ran and hugged me. I barely recognized her because of her change in hair color.

Tonight I was talking to her for over an hour because we were working out adjacently. She's 26 and I'm 33 so I naturally teased her and her friend a bit.


She just texted me saying she would like to go shooting guns with me

Why would you fukking invite me to your PLACE instead of just eating out with me somewhere...

Eh.

At this point if your interested just see where it goes.

If you feel like she tryna have a "best friend" and that's not what you about then abort mission.

But just know that if you looking for something serious friendship is a must so don't be so hasty.

Good luck.

 

[ViShawn]

Eh.

At this point if your interested just see where it goes.

If you feel like she tryna have a "best friend" and that's not what you about then abort mission.

But just know that if you looking for something serious friendship is a must so don't be so hasty.

Good luck.

Nah she was cute with a phat ass, but she was a bit of a stoner. I just wanted to fukk a few times I won't lie.

Chick looked like Jada Stevens a bit.

Most girls I attract ate 27+ to be honest and girls like this that are 26 and younger it's a mixed bag for me with them.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Breh my last few girlfiends have given me so much perspective when I see fine ass women on the internet. Now my first thought is, "I bet they're difficult to deal with."

I'm really trying to make it work with my current girl but I'm not sure we can ever get on the same page. You ever just have a 90 minute back and forth with someone and just get NOWHERE? shyt is exhausting. I'm like do we keep having issues. What did I do now?

 

[Astroslik]

edit

 

[ViShawn]

what's the problem here? should be an easy smash

Damn man I just wrote three paragraphs explaining

 

[Astroslik]

Damn man I just wrote three paragraphs explaining

yeah i saw that, my bad

 

[Bless't]

S

I've seen her at the gym for the past 3-4 months. I think she saw me doing something and she asked about it and I offered her suggestions. I even recall one time at the gym she got her friend to introduce herself to me because she forgot my name.

One night I saw her downtown and she ran and hugged me. I barely recognized her because of her change in hair color.

Tonight I was talking to her for over an hour because we were working out adjacently. She's 26 and I'm 33 so I naturally teased her and her friend a bit.


She just texted me saying she would like to go shooting guns with me

Why would you fukking invite me to your PLACE instead of just eating out with me somewhere...

She may actually like you and wants to take it slow.




That is crazy strange to invite someone over if you just want to be "friends" or whatever. I'd do something together (a walk, drinks, dinner) and take another shot at kissing her. If she curves you again, then I'd just leave it at that and stop hanging out.

 

[Mr210]

I see this young girl at the gym on and off. I usually frequent my closest gym because it's more serious.

Long story short I saw her tonight and she was complimenting me on my pants I was wearing (a breh has legs and ass too). I invited her to go eat with me after. She asked why doesn't she pick up some food and I meet her at my place. So I'm in

We get to her place it's just her and I there. We talk about random shyt but we are on her couch eating and we got real familiar with one another. I was even rubbing her legs.

So she was trying to go to bed, shower, etc. Before I was leaving I was looking at her with "fukk me" eyes

I go in for a kiss and she pushes back like "eh"



So wait...you buy me food and invite me to go eat at your place and we are alone. Am I missing something here?!

I wasn't weird about it though and was polite. Thanked her for the food and bounced.

You played it all wrong, but it's ok...learn from it

 

[MikelArteta]

Good luck breh, there is no perfect relationship out there, all you can of is work on the communication and that's it

Breh my last few girlfiends have given me so much perspective when I see fine ass women on the internet. Now my first thought is, "I bet they're difficult to deal with."

I'm really trying to make it work with my current girl but I'm not sure we can ever get on the same page. You ever just have a 90 minute back and forth with someone and just get NOWHERE? shyt is exhausting. I'm like do we keep having issues. What did I do now?

 

[360dagod]

Breh my last few girlfiends have given me so much perspective when I see fine ass women on the internet. Now my first thought is, "I bet they're difficult to deal with."

I'm really trying to make it work with my current girl but I'm not sure we can ever get on the same page. You ever just have a 90 minute back and forth with someone and just get NOWHERE? shyt is exhausting. I'm like do we keep having issues. What did I do now?

 

[Poitier]

Feeling bitter today.

Can anyone chime in on what it was like to date a foreign woman in her country? I don't mean an idealistic account or some sex tourism shyt but like an unbiased account of the dynamic. Was it all confusion, heartache and heartbreak like with American women? I get certain things are women just being women but I do wonder if foreign women value different things in men?

 

[Poitier]

Breh my last few girlfiends have given me so much perspective when I see fine ass women on the internet. Now my first thought is, "I bet they're difficult to deal with."

I'm really trying to make it work with my current girl but I'm not sure we can ever get on the same page. You ever just have a 90 minute back and forth with someone and just get NOWHERE? shyt is exhausting. I'm like do we keep having issues. What did I do now?

Been there, done that. Bush that, bro. You're wasting valuable time

 

[MikelArteta]

Everyone has faults, you can deal with one chick and she gets angry easily but is loyal, attractive faithful etc. You break up then the next chick is the sweetest ever , she's attractive but she ain't loyal and faithful, next chick is the sweetest ever, loyal faithful but she ain't attractive.

You can't have it all you just gotta decide what you can work with

 

[ViShawn]

It's difficult to balance not caring what someone thinks of you all while exposing yourself enough for a potential companion to get to know you.