Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Lord Bison

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It's difficult to balance not caring what someone thinks of you all while exposing yourself enough for a potential companion to get to know you.


What you just said is the reason why I feel it's better to adjust your lifestyle to be on some Dan Blizerian type shyt. I feel like once a man comes up on the money and has been burned enough times, he won't have it in him to trust a woman to share his resources with her.

The best thing you can do is be selfish about your goals and dreams and don't make women a high priority.
 

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What you just said is the reason why I feel it's better to adjust your lifestyle to be on some Dan Blizerian type shyt. I feel like once a man comes up on the money and has been burned enough times, he won't have it in him to trust a woman to share his resources with her.

The best thing you can do is be selfish about your goals and dreams and don't make women a high priority.


Not talking resources I'm talking about genuine connections and companionship.

I'm a bit jaded though by some experiences but I still try and be authentic as possible.

Honestly buying shyt doesn't make me feel better it's about the friends family and freedom I have.

Sometimes I wish I could just be indifferent though.

I do agree putting women second to your goals and pursuits though.
 

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Not talking resources I'm talking about genuine connections and companionship.

I'm a bit jaded though by some experiences but I still try and be authentic as possible.

Honestly buying shyt doesn't make me feel better it's about the friends family and freedom I have.

Sometimes I wish I could just be indifferent though.

I do agree putting women second to your goals and pursuits though.

If buying shyt doesn't make you feel better... then let a nicca hold somethin :patrice:

I feel you tho breh. I've definitely been through enough to admit that I'm jaded my damn self. I'd be lying if I said I didn't enjoy the genuine connection and companionship with the opposite sex. But given the nature of these chicks these days, it's hard to give your all when you know at some point she's going to bounce. I've started to realize that women see men more as a utility than anything else. :mjcry:


I think reaching that state of indifference is exactly what you need to get to the next level. When you no longer care, you appreciate living in the moment more and you cut off that constant battle in your head of why shyt aint going the way you think it should.

Appreciate your family, friends and the freedom to do what you want, when you want. I know plenty of married brehs that wish they could have their freedom back.
 

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Ole girl who I had talked about earlier in this thread who blocked me for no reason hit me up today and was salty I didn't recognize the # that she texted me with :gucci:

Why would she block you and then text you?
 

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Everyone has faults, you can deal with one chick and she gets angry easily but is loyal, attractive faithful etc. You break up then the next chick is the sweetest ever , she's attractive but she ain't loyal and faithful, next chick is the sweetest ever, loyal faithful but she ain't attractive.

You can't have it all you just gotta decide what you can work with

That's real. That's why I struggle with relationships to be honest. I'm such an ambitious upward climber in all other aspects of my life that I can't help but be an opportunist in relationships. I'll figure it out tho.
 

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Well after nearly 2 years of being a Single man...im no longer a free Agent and is currently in a relationship :wow:

I tried so hard to remain friends with her but it was becoming more difficult. We really connected on a spiritual Ievel. She doesnt care about what I have, she just wants me to treat her well. She's into me more than im into her, looks good, is encouraging and vibes well with my family.

And she got a college degree and is Working on getting another :ehh:

I think i won:blessed:
 

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the idea ofmaking out with a stranger after yall literally just ate. and it depends on what yall ate. she probably wont be feeling in the mood if the food she just ate is making her gassy.

and dont be giving them the "fucck me eyes" loll. thats hella creepy unless u know what ur doing.

This. Yeah yeah, we're trying to fukk as fast as possible, throw her to the bushes if she's playing games, no time wasted etc etc etc.

But the Andre 3000 line is some grown man shyt. "I'm the type of guy that notice subtle signs, when I cuddle mine, she ain't even trying, to look sexy, but even if she was, so what, motherfukker grow up, don't mean to be so abrupt but that let's me know that she's a human being..."

Bro, her breath might have been foul, she might have had to take a dump, might have had gas, bloated, acid reflux, her p*ssy might not be fresh ... etc. You get that comfort ass when it's your girl and y'all know each other. The first time fukking, she's not going to pull those panties off unless it's going to be a dynamite occasion.

All of that is speculation, but the point is that it could be any number of things. Hold tough to your principles, but you gotta know to read the energy and not be so pressed that you take your ball and go home any time you don't get instant ass. You gotta warm any woman up to fukk. That might take 30 minutes for some and 3 days for others depending on how you go about it.

Recognize when games are being played, but at the same time don't talk yourself out of some puss just because you're not up by 15 points in the first quarter :manny:
 
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nikka :mjlol:

Women don't operate like that.
You shoulda just gotten her number if you didn't have it and go from there. If she wanted to fukk I'm pretty sure she woulda sent other signals besides what you thought was "fukk me eyes".

:patrice: However, it is kinda strange she invite you over without really knowing you.

Did y'all ever talk for extensive periods before this?

Aw man, that just mean her puss wasn't fresh at da time.

She did ya a favor.

U still good, she def gone let u ram in da future.
 

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So in regards to the older Armenian chick from the gym I brought up earlier in this thread , I've been smashing consistently but now I'm getting bored and want something new.. crazy because I put this chick on such a high pedestal like an idiot before I got to smash..

It's never enough for me man :snoop:
 

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Everyone has faults, you can deal with one chick and she gets angry easily but is loyal, attractive faithful etc. You break up then the next chick is the sweetest ever , she's attractive but she ain't loyal and faithful, next chick is the sweetest ever, loyal faithful but she ain't attractive.

You can't have it all you just gotta decide what you can work with


So true, my GF now has a masters, no kid, owes a house, very low maintenance, into reading, but she smokes....she never smokes around me though and is trying to quit...normally smoking is a deal breaker for me
 

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Brehs I finally bushed that toxic young broad that I've been talking to for the past year...hoe skipped out on my birthday dinner a couple of weeks ago saying she had to babysit (she has no baby)..so I bushed her....and life's been going great! I met a new chick who jumped in my DMs literally the day after my birthday....and I smashed a chick who I've had sexual tension with for the past 10 months....life is good :blessed:
 
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