Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Well after nearly 2 years of being a Single man...im no longer a free Agent and is currently in a relationship :wow:

I tried so hard to remain friends with her but it was becoming more difficult. We really connected on a spiritual Ievel. She doesnt care about what I have, she just wants me to treat her well. She's into me more than im into her, looks good, is encouraging and vibes well with my family.

And she got a college degree and is Working on getting another :ehh:

I think i won:blessed:
I need this :wow:
 

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So true, my GF now has a masters, no kid, owes a house, very low maintenance, into reading, but she smokes....she never smokes around me though and is trying to quit...normally smoking is a deal breaker for me

you just gotta accept it or if its a deal breaker cut your losses, but then your back on the market and you cant find a chick with all those qualities and if you do she got a kid.

That's why the market is filled to the brim with older women 30 plus who had a good guy in their prime but didn't feel the "spark" or he was missing something . You'll never find the "perfect someone"
 

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even look at this ish, im not speaking out of my azz


Amazon.com: Customer Reviews: Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough

look at these reviews

" I was sadly like many of the younger women in this book and went with the fireworks my first marriage, only to end up single with a month old baby at 30 years old. I then dated for 5 years to constant disappointment.
It was only after I started reading Evan Marc Katz which led me to Gottlieb's Atlantic article and this book, that I started opening my eyes to what truly matters in a relationship and how my terribly picky ways and sense of dating entitlement led me to overlook a number of perfectly fine matches."

Now I have met someone who I would have easily overlooked a couple years ago but now I am perfectly happy, he treats me better than any of my exes and gives me a type of love I never thought was possible. We are expecting our first child in a month"



Don't let the title of the book defer you from reading this book. This book was a true eye opener for me that has changed my personal prespective about my own relationship. I realized after reading this book that I was asking for perfection from my partner. Little things like being messy and not being an early bird on weekends or lack of motivation to go to the gym made me feel like we were not right together. This book made me realize his positive attributes such as being sincere, kind, trustworthy, and very open to communicating are absolutely wonderful to have. I am not settling nor lowering my standards to be with him. I truly appreciate him and now feel a renewed sense of devotion to him. I am so glad to have found this book. Otherwise I was ready to make a decision I would of regretted.


I think I had 70 dates in a year before deciding to date one guy exclusively who has been my boyfriend now for 2 years. I love him, but I also look at the flaws and think, the grass is greener, if I date again I'll find the right one. Your book is helping me realize he is a total catch and I'm getting in the way of myself. I just need to water my own grass instead of looking for greener pastures.


I'm 31 and in a relationship with a great guy who looks nothing like the image of Prince Charming I had dreamed up.
I'm so thankful I read this book now at the start of this relationship so I can spend my time appreciating all the things about him that are great (and important for a future marriage) instead of focusing on all the ways in which he doesn't meet the standard of my dream guy.


This is what many women think until reality hits em
 

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This book made me realize his positive attributes such as being sincere, kind, trustworthy, and very open to communicating are absolutely wonderful to have.

I'm always this but I would be lying if I said I didn't think about hitting the gym, turning my physique into a disgusting meathead, and selling women dreams since they love falling for the deceptive sales pitches:wow:
 

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"That was not about you" :russell::russell::duck:. At least keep it one hundred. Why resort to lies.
Took you a long ass time to answer my text though. :camby:

I'm going to stop putting my focus and attention on you. I'm tired of the games. :camby:
 

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you just gotta accept it or if its a deal breaker cut your losses, but then your back on the market and you cant find a chick with all those qualities and if you do she got a kid.

That's why the market is filled to the brim with older women 30 plus who had a good guy in their prime but didn't feel the "spark" or he was missing something . You'll never find the "perfect someone"


Yea Im just realizing that recently
 

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If a female starts off by telling you what you’re not gonna do (hit it, game her, etc.) CHARGE HER TO THE GAME. She has to repeatedly tell herself stuff like that so that she believes it. A real woman displays it in her demeanor and actions, not her words. A real woman commands respect. Insecure women gotta keep talking about it. No need to waste your time dealing with a woman going thru an identity crisis.
nope..

my girl always said that i wouldn't hit cause she didn't want to come across as easy, a hoe.. and she thought that i was the type to smash and dash

of course as she got to know me, she realized that wasn't the case.. and she gave it up.. no issues since
 
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