Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

so todays my birthday, my doorbell rings and its my ex fiance she brings a card and a gift for me. I say thanks and she acts what im doing today I said nothing, she said if you want to go out I said no.

Then she leaves all upset like this is what you wanted you dumped me, I never asked for a gift I never asked to hang out on my bday sorry I wasn't jumping for joy at the sight of receiving a bday gift

 

[ViShawn]

Dating and introducing yourself to women is exhausting.

But I think the reward is the unknown. The spontaneity of it all!

 

[twan83]

you just gotta accept it or if its a deal breaker cut your losses, but then your back on the market and you cant find a chick with all those qualities and if you do she got a kid.

That's why the market is filled to the brim with older women 30 plus who had a good guy in their prime but didn't feel the "spark" or he was missing something . You'll never find the "perfect someone"

even look at this ish, im not speaking out of my azz


Amazon.com: Customer Reviews: Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough

look at these reviews

" I was sadly like many of the younger women in this book and went with the fireworks my first marriage, only to end up single with a month old baby at 30 years old. I then dated for 5 years to constant disappointment.
It was only after I started reading Evan Marc Katz which led me to Gottlieb's Atlantic article and this book, that I started opening my eyes to what truly matters in a relationship and how my terribly picky ways and sense of dating entitlement led me to overlook a number of perfectly fine matches."

Now I have met someone who I would have easily overlooked a couple years ago but now I am perfectly happy, he treats me better than any of my exes and gives me a type of love I never thought was possible. We are expecting our first child in a month"



Don't let the title of the book defer you from reading this book. This book was a true eye opener for me that has changed my personal prespective about my own relationship. I realized after reading this book that I was asking for perfection from my partner. Little things like being messy and not being an early bird on weekends or lack of motivation to go to the gym made me feel like we were not right together. This book made me realize his positive attributes such as being sincere, kind, trustworthy, and very open to communicating are absolutely wonderful to have. I am not settling nor lowering my standards to be with him. I truly appreciate him and now feel a renewed sense of devotion to him. I am so glad to have found this book. Otherwise I was ready to make a decision I would of regretted.


I think I had 70 dates in a year before deciding to date one guy exclusively who has been my boyfriend now for 2 years. I love him, but I also look at the flaws and think, the grass is greener, if I date again I'll find the right one. Your book is helping me realize he is a total catch and I'm getting in the way of myself. I just need to water my own grass instead of looking for greener pastures.


I'm 31 and in a relationship with a great guy who looks nothing like the image of Prince Charming I had dreamed up. I'm so thankful I read this book now at the start of this relationship so I can spend my time appreciating all the things about him that are great (and important for a future marriage) instead of focusing on all the ways in which he doesn't meet the standard of my dream guy.


This is what many women think until reality hits em

My brother from another mother dropping dimes as usual

If the flaws ain't a Deal breaker keep her
If they are

 

[MikelArteta]

Dating and introducing yourself to women is exhausting.

But I think the reward is the unknown. The spontaneity of it all!

ish is nauseating to me, like I said a few pages back. Just having to go through it all the chase, the texting, the phone calls, wasting money on dates to maybe finding someone with some of the attributes you desire, then getting to know them. Especially as I'm now 32 the whole process makes me want to vomit, while the reward can be great

I signed up to pof two days ago, not that im looking to date, i dont do that rebound ish, just for the ego boost to remind myself I am a damn catch, i got like 25 messages in two days didn't reply to any. i guess its true when your a man 30 plus you really dont have to do anything to get women to fawn over you. But in reality it made me sick to my stomach, I ain't doing this ish again.

If anything this failed engagement opened up my eyes more to the stuff I always used to say and talk about, imagine if I had a kid or was married and one day after a little petty argument that's it.

 

[MikelArteta]

My brother from another mother dropping dimes as usual

If the flaws ain't a Deal breaker keep her
If they are

man i actually found the pdf of that book and read it today its a eye opener , its crazy how many women think.


and it goes for both genders its crazy when you think of it but the older you get the less likely you'll find something better than what you got. It's why second and third marriages fail at a even higher clip 70% than first marriages.

 

[MikelArteta]

heres the pdf
book is interesting if you got time
http://docdro.id/rt6OsBh

 

[twan83]

man i actually found the pdf of that book and read it today its a eye opener , its crazy how many women think.


and it goes for both genders its crazy when you think of it but the older you get the less likely you'll find something better than what you got. It's why second and third marriages fail at a even higher clip 70% than first marriages.

Count me in that more than 1 marriage clip


Ain't doin this shyt again

Even before I got married first time I've always known I'm good on my own even as a father

I just let it happen if I find a good partner unfortunately life throws u some serious curveballs even if ur not ready for it or see it coming

It's what u do next time around

And just sometimes even if u do right to fix it ur just not meant to be with a lifelong partner in marriage and just stay single or just as a couple that doesn't get married

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

It's saturday..ain't got the money to club so imma just walk the areas with my guitar post up and holla at broads because I know they choosing

I'm on no fap so this I what I have to do to chase that nut

But I been working on my game like this...I see a chick leaving the bar solo I approach them first because chances are she wasn't getting the attention she wanted inside...especially if it's early...atleast that is my thinking...that and when they solo I feel more comfortable about being aggressive..

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

It's 5 am here in Portugal and I just got the mouth from a dope ass caramel skinned Brazilian chick. Literally in the middle of it I thought to myself "there are too many fine ass women out here to be stressed over ONE" Hope you gentlemen have nights that are equally as successful. Bless up.

 

[Prynce]

I just hit a thick ass Puerto Rican

The ass was so fat and she was bad

 

[DaRealness]

Brehs listen, and I mean really listen to 1:14:00 - 1:32:08

 

[MarcusDigital]

Ole girl who I had talked about earlier in this thread who blocked me for no reason hit me up today and was salty I didn't recognize the # that she texted me with

Dont even reply breh next that chick and keep it moving.

She trying to put you on her simp roster

 

[Nuke Dukem]

What's the best way to "approach" women on NON dating sites like Instagram..?

They have where you can search by tagged locations, so there's this at where a lot of bad bytches tag themselves at, and it's about 10 mins away so I know they're most likely local ..


What's the best way to get at em on IG tho, I don't wanna look like a goofy or thirsty...

 

[Actually6Foot3]

Anybody got any text game tips for sites like soul swipe. Never did this before and I've had it for just under a week and I have about 55 matches. A lot of em are bad (in the good way )

Not even gonna front I get way more matches on Soul swipe than tinder but those white and Asian chic's on tinder like lame jokes and dry homour. shyt that would have a white chic will have a black chic like and that's the shyt I'm good at smh. Add to that tinder chic's put every into their bio giving me something to feed off of. All these soul swipe chic's put "educated black woman" 99% of the time and that's it

I'm matching with some baddies and I keep flopping. I just need more experience. On the phone im Gucci with pretty much any chic black or otherwise but over text some things don't translate as well and I trip up before I can even get the # to call or just skip that and go straight to a date

Help a breh out

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Well after nearly 2 years of being a Single man...im no longer a free Agent and is currently in a relationship

I tried so hard to remain friends with her but it was becoming more difficult. We really connected on a spiritual Ievel. She doesnt care about what I have, she just wants me to treat her well. She's into me more than im into her, looks good, is encouraging and vibes well with my family.

And she got a college degree and is Working on getting another

I think i won

Cherish her breh. She sounds awesome.