its crazy the same common problems you have in one relationship (getting bored after awhile, fights over little things, incompatible in different areas) you'll have in the next, the only difference is that you may find someone who actually wants to work through it.
yeah but breh, i goto be honest with u. judging from what uve said so far in this thread about ur girl, i really believe ur situation could have been salvaged.
there were a few things i saw u were doing wrong at the onset, and i had a tingling feeling something was going to go awry. but i just aint wanna rain on ur parade. so i let it be.
1. ur life revolved around this girl. u saw her damn near every day. whenever u post, u were always on some "my girl this, my girl that. me and my girl did this, look what my girl did. if u got a good one like my girl, things are so easy." - u were consumed by her.
--- to someone like me who know women more than they know themselves, i just knew u were so, so deep in the rabbit hole. and u were heading for disaster. no matter what a woman says, she doesnt want to know u are THAT enthralled by her!!! it'll only make her feel superior to you.
--- i'll put it to you like this. next time ur dating a girl, try and imagine how u would feel if she fuccks someone else. the moment u find yourself horrified by the prospect of that happening, thats the moment u know u are genuinely fuccked. try to avoid getting to that point mentally. think of it like this. if u went on a date with a dime. u take her home and u fucck her. but a few days later, u find out she fuccked someone else just a few days after u.
would u be jealous? angry? lose sleep over it? of course not. why? because u have not had too much time to allow her to plant roots in ur mind.
2. we talk so much about being aloof in this thread, and making sure the girl likes u more than u like her. in ur case, u took the rule book and u straight tossed it in the pacific ocean. being aloof is not just an act. its a state of mind. u cant "act" aloof. well, u can act it, but u will be outed fast enough cause girls know when they've got u wrapped around their finger. being aloof and being able to REMAIN aloof means
U MUST NOT ALLOW ANY WOMAN BE THE CENTER OF UR UNIVERSE. for some men, they deal with that by juggling multiple different women. for others, they wrap themselves in activities that have a potential to bring them profits...i.e. a business.
My question to you, or the question u should ask urself is, have you really learned ur lesson? i dont think u have. because from ur recent posts, u keep finding a way to point the blame back to her.
as much as i want to blame ur girl here, honestly, i believe the blame rests more like 65% on you. girls like ur fiance
DO NOT leave a man who acts like and is an alpha. they dont. nothing about her speaks to her being a whore. but, it is in a woman's nature to gravitate and to submit completely to men that are superior to them. superior men arent consumed by the thoughts of their girl. matter of fact, superior men almost alway wish their women would cheat because that means they have free reign to go wild on new puccy!
also, there's a vindictive air about u that is repelling. u need to stop that. the "ooo u broke up with me and now u expect me to be jumping with excitement at ur gifts" - that needs to stop. it is extremely juvenile. this goes back to what i said about being aloof. an aloof guy woulda took her up on the offer to go out. went out and had a good ass time. and when they parted ways that evening, if they dont fucck, she would have gone home seriously doubting her decision to call off the wedding.
but nah, not u, u completely played it wrong on some "hey u broke up with me. now, ima spite you" type sh1t.
do with this what u will, my dude. but for ur own benefit, stop blaming her and take responsibility.
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