Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Bruh, these heauxs were in our bungalow with "bride to be" t-shirts on getting fukked in the jacuzzi, bathroom and bedrooms. I only fukked with chicks who "claimed" they were single.

If your fiancé says she's going to Vegas for her bachelorette party, break off that engagement asap :ufdup:

Which pool party did you go to breh?

You ain't tell no lies either..
 

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What's the heat fam?
@True Blue Moon Been reading the sex god book, What were those other books again you mentioned?


Re-posting from a couple pages back. Just some books and practices that have been dope for me. See if something jumps out as you as useful and take action :wow:

I just feed my brain on the daily. Me and my lady only have streaming service logins and no cable, so I'm on audiobooks and helpful YouTube channels all day every day while I work from home.

I'll list some off the top of my head that I've taken in the past few years. Live with them and play around with the info, testing it out, as opposed to locking down one belief without experimentation. Make it a lifestyle of always perfecting your flaws until you die, as opposed to just some quick, gimmicky self help.

But anyway, here's some good books off the top of my head.

  • The Alchemist
  • The Way of the Superior Man
  • No More Mr. Nice Guy
  • Blue Truth
  • Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends on It
  • Think and Grow Rich
  • The Way of the Peaceful Warrior
  • You Are a Badass
  • You Are a Badass at Making Money
  • The Universe Has Your Back
  • The Art of War
  • The War of Art (not a double/typo. They're two different books)
  • The Kyballian
  • The 50th Law
  • The 48 Laws of Power
  • The Art of Seduction
  • Mastery
  • Black Privilege (Charlamagne's new book)
  • The 5 Second Rule
  • Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself: Lose Your Mind and Create a New One
  • Pimp by Iceberg Slim
  • Rosebudd Bitterdose
  • Mating in Captivity
  • My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday
  • The Upside of Your Dark Side
  • Ego is the Enemy
  • The Obstacle is the Way
  • The Power of Vulnerability
  • The Tao Te Ching
  • The Bible (Step out of the way we've been taught for a second and look up some people who take a more mental/esoteric interpretation on YouTube. Watch some videos by Rev. Ike and Neville Goddard and then go back and read the same scriptures. Let your life experience, gut, spirt and intuition live with it for a while and use the teachings in any way that makes sense to you as a human)
  • The King Within: Access the King in the Male Psyche
  • Wild at Heart
  • Relentless by Tim S. Grover (He trained Michael Jordan, Kobe and other top athletes. Touches on their mental and drive)
  • Enlightened Sex by David Deida
Some of the YouTube channels you should check out include Elliott Hulse, RSD Tyler, rsdfreetour, JulienHimself, Aubrey Marcus, Tom Bilyeu, Brandon Carter and Eric Thomas (etthehiphoppreacher).

Just dabble man. Have fun with it and get hype over how much your life is about to change :blessed:

Fellow warrior on the path :salute:

Pushing your mind and body is so crucial because they're one and the same. The body leads the mind and vice versa. When you have good info and a strong body, you'll have the confidence and will to both remember and put the knowledge you learned into action with a clear mind.

Trusting the intelligence in your body (i.e. your feelings and gut instincts) is definitely the way to become the total package as a man. Aligning those energies to serve you makes you feel like you can do anything.

Off the top of my head, when I'm doing the following, I feel like the world is mine and I can do anything:

  • Reading and listening to quality self-development content
  • Eating clean -- lean meats, smoothies with kale/spinach, avocado, bananas and other good nutrients
  • Regular meditation
  • Jiu-jitsu, yoga and pushups (haven't gotten back to the weights yet, but I'm going to)
  • Cold showers multiple times per day
  • Journaling to organize my thoughts, dump the brain clutter and review the things that are important for me to remember
  • Cutting porn out completely
  • Deep breathing exercises
There's so much we're not taught about our minds, bodies, testosterone and sexuality. When your life becomes about being the highest version of yourself in all of these ways, you'll feel like a king no matter what path you're taking :blessed:

I invite you and everyone else to keep dropping literature that you're reading or that has helped you.

You're right about this thread being powerful. We need time apart from women to sharpen each other up as men with no ego involved.

You see, @Dmitri , you might have felt alone in what you're going through, but because you had a safe place to put your ego aside and share with your brothers, you can quickly see that it's not just you. Me, @Mister_DoItNice and probably a hundred other dudes in this thread have similar experiences.

We can only be so vulnerable around our women, so I don't take these kinds of conversations lightly, because we can become better men instead of suffering by ourselves.

I'm in action mode right now, so the 5 books I would currently recommend are going to reflect that. With that in mind, I'd probably go with these five, because they get you in touch with yourself, so that you then have the tools to feel your way toward which areas of weakness you need to strengthen or which direction you want to head:

The Alchemist

Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends on It

The 5 Second Rule

Ego is the Enemy

The Obstacle is the Way

And then that can probably help drive you toward which of the other 20 books you go toward next. Appreciate the love homie.

I can't stress enough, action over everything. Because on the outside looking in, it can easily look like we're posting some goofy shyt. But by reading a few chapters and putting it into action it'll inform the next book that you should grab as you keep feeling your way through and getting better.
 

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Re-posting from a couple pages back. Just some books and practices that have been dope for me. See if something jumps out as you as useful and take action :wow:







I can't stress enough, action over everything. Because on the outside looking in, it can easily look like we're posting some goofy shyt. But by reading a few chapters and putting it into action it'll inform the next book that you should grab as you keep feeling your way through and getting better.
Any more downloads? Mainly that superior man book
 

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We were at the cosmopolitan, our bungalow was basically attached to Marquee day/night club. All we had to tell these girls was "hey you wanna come chill on our bungalow" and it was a wrap after that :wow:,
Damn breh, cosmo is :wow:. Best hotel on the strip imo


shyt is too easy at Vegas pool party with a table, literally shooting fish in a barrel
 

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Damn breh, cosmo is :wow:. Best hotel on the strip imo


shyt is too easy at Vegas pool party with a table, literally shooting fish in a barrel
:wow: bruh I'm telling you. I had a bride to be tell me straight up that I needed to not be around her cause my muscles was going to make her not have a fiancé anymore :dead:
 

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I'll try to include the important shyt and make this as short as possible..


* Met a Korean/Black female on tinder on July 5th.. Found out she lived about 30 mins away.
* Seen her on snap with some chubby white ghetto bytch and brought up the (bad) idea of doing a double date with my guy n her girl & me n her
* She was sending me nudes and calling me daddy n sending me booty pics on snap lol
* She also asked me if she should wear panties on the date.. lol
* The double date was going to be a hotel party, typical smoke,drink, 2k, scary movies kick it type thing
* Buddy wasn't getting a good vibe off the fat white chick on Snapchat when he told her at the end of the night he'd get a solo room for him & her so he bailed
* I set up a new date with this chick which would've been a regular date and end up in a hotel
* The date was set for Saturday (just me and her) then on the day of she text me "my girl wants to know what's going on?" So I text her lemme ask my guy once if he's down for this hotel party.. He just broke up with his girl and actually says yes... So we agree to the hotel.. Keep in mind that my dates friend doesn't get off work until 11pm
* Now here's where shyt got goofy... We get out to her place around 9 and she gets in the car... She lives in a shytty part of town so we decided to go back 30 mins where I stay and get a hotel there.. First we try a motel 6, and they're COMPLETELY booked up ... So we go to the Super and end up getting a TWO BED room for $112 ..

So we're in the room smoking drinking music and playing 2k... My guy is chillin on the bed being DJ and I'm playing 2k with her grabbing on her while she plays n she's doing the same..


So then her fat ghetto white friend shows up and fukks up the whole vibe... My date goes from sitting on the bed with me to up in the mirror snapchatting with her girl.. Then the fat friend sits in between the beds in a chair playing music and my guy says fukk this and goes to sleep...

So then I ask my date when her girl is leaving she says "soon cause she has to work" I said c"ool, should I get my guy an uber ?" She said "she was leaving too because her sitter was leaving soon" (now its 2am wtf would a sitter being doing leaving at 2am gtfoh lol)

So both bytches end up bailing out and I spent my Saturday night in a super 8 with one of my guys.... I'll make another post about the funny shyt she said after she left



TLDR; Met a chick on tinder, setup a hotel party for me, her, my guy, and her friend, her fat friend killed the vibe & she was on some bs, Ended up staying in double bed hotel with my guy for $112 on Saturday night
 
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Contemplating breaking up with my girl. I just moved to Atlanta and we're doing long distance and we might not be on the same page going forward for future goals.

I'm already pondering what kind of spin she's going to put on what I say in order to be the victim. :comeon:

A lot of these girls just CANNOT accept responsibility for their own actions and are so quick to play the victim role.
 

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I'll try to include the important shyt and make this as short as possible..


* Met a Korean/Black female on tinder on July 5th.. Found out she lived about 30 mins away.
* Seen her on snap with some chubby white ghetto bytch and brought up the (bad) idea of doing a double date with my guy n her girl & me n her
* She was sending me nudes and calling me daddy n sending me booty pics on snap lol
* She also asked me if she should wear panties on the date.. lol
* The double date was going to be a hotel party, typical smoke,drink, 2k, scary movies kick it type thing
* Buddy wasn't getting a good vibe off the fat white chick on Snapchat when he told her at the end of the night he'd get a solo room for him & her so he bailed
* I set up a new date with this chick which would've been a regular date and end up in a hotel
* The date was set for Saturday (just me and her) then on the day of she text me "my girl wants to know what's going on?" So I text her lemme ask my guy once if he's down for this hotel party.. He just broke up with his girl and actually says yes... So we agree to the hotel.. Keep in mind that my dates friend doesn't get off work until 11pm
* Now here's where shyt got goofy... We get out to her place around 9 and she gets in the car... She lives in a shytty part of town so we decided to go back 30 mins where I stay and get a hotel there.. First we try a motel 6, and they're COMPLETELY booked up ... So we go to the Super and end up getting a TWO BED room for $112 ..

So we're in the room smoking drinking music and playing 2k... My guy is chillin on the bed being DJ and I'm playing 2k with her grabbing on her while she plays n she's doing the same..


So then her fat ghetto white friend shows up and fukks up the whole vibe... My date goes from sitting on the bed with me to up in the mirror snapchatting with her girl.. Then the fat friend sits in between the beds in a chair playing music and my guy says fukk this and goes to sleep...

So then I ask my date when her girl is leaving she says "soon cause she has to work" I said c"ool, should I get my guy an uber ?" She said "she was leaving too because her sitter was leaving soon" (now its 2am wtf would a sitter being doing leaving at 2am gtfoh lol)

So both bytches end up bailing out and I spent my Saturday night in a super 8 with one of my guys.... I'll make another post about the funny shyt she said after she left



TLDR; Met a chick on tinder, setup a hotel party for me, her, my guy, and her friend, her fat friend killed the vibe & she was on some bs, Ended up staying in double bed hotel with my guy for $112 on Saturday night
don't double date or do group activities with chicks you haven't fukked yet breh. Gotta keep it real, how else was the night supposed to end? :francis:
 

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I don't mess with the porn anymore but I realize my standards have changed as well. Where as before, I would hit a chick that I knew was unattractive "just to get the nut" now I just fall back. Had a shorty try to come through on Saturday that I ended up curving because I knew she didn't look like shyt without her clothes on. I can't just smash anything these days.


its maturity. dont have to fucck anything that pops in front of u.
 
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