With the poisoning our sisters (us too) are going through...I can't ever see myself serious with an American sista 
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
I've said this numerous times in this thread, but y'all gotta stop this "grass in greener" mentality when it comes to women outside of the US. It's a lie you tell yourselves to ease your feelings. These are modern times we're living in. The internet/social media has changed things forever. This is the new normal. These chicks doing the same dirt EVERYWHERE. Accept that. Internalize it, and become better at navigating this landscape going forward.
Of course, as with everything, there are exceptions to the rule. Just don't think that's exclusive to women living outside of the states. I've been traveling with the military for the last few years. I've seen the fukkery firsthand. I'm glad I did though.
Of course, as with everything, there are exceptions to the rule. Just don't think that's exclusive to women living outside of the states. I've been traveling with the military for the last few years. I've seen the fukkery firsthand. I'm glad I did though.
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Dreamzeedream
Banned
What happenLast night's shenanigans....brehs I dont wanna get old.
Me and my nikkas really living
Drop her. If she's not your same wave length and doesn't have the real goals for the future then she's wasting your time.Contemplating breaking up with my girl. I just moved to Atlanta and we're doing long distance and we might not be on the same page going forward for future goals.
I'm already pondering what kind of spin she's going to put on what I say in order to be the victim.
A lot of these girls just CANNOT accept responsibility for their own actions and are so quick to play the victim role.
Welcome to the A breh, you will eat out here
Real facts. I only point out American women cause I've only dealt with women from here. Since you've traveled outside of the states, I'll take your word that women are all the same all over.
Do it
Not to mention ldrs are hard
Not to mention ldrs are hard
Contemplating breaking up with my girl. I just moved to Atlanta and we're doing long distance and we might not be on the same page going forward for future goals.
I'm already pondering what kind of spin she's going to put on what I say in order to be the victim.
A lot of these girls just CANNOT accept responsibility for their own actions and are so quick to play the victim role.
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
No doubt. I only mentioned it again because I saw another dude reference it after you. We gotta keep each other sharp. Some of these women are like predators man. They seek a mark from a mile away and will play whatever role they think you want them to play.
Lord Bison
Superstar
I'm tired of shooting my shot at women over the age of 35. Most of them are looking for resources that I am unwilling to provide. Their standards are through the roof while becoming a depreciating asset. I don't ever see myself giving my time, attention and money to 35+ women again. If she isn't DTF, then she aint for me. It seems that I have the hardest time sealing the deal on these old hoes, even on tinder. I'm done.
What being honest gets you, had a fun time with the dr already told her I'm not looking for anything nor will I lead her on she said the same, but she asked me when my last relationship was and I told her may.
Today get the I'm not comfortable with your last relationship just ending in may I hope you understand bye.
Can't even hang out with a broad for fun without them expecting something
Today get the I'm not comfortable with your last relationship just ending in may I hope you understand bye.
Can't even hang out with a broad for fun without them expecting something
Yea breh wasn't as bad when I first joined living overseas as the years went by and I went back overseas the game changed from what I saw and heard
Social media really killed that shyt
Before it wasn't as bad when the MySpace blackplanet yahoo chat room were popping off then it got worse
Don't get me wrong if I was single and I'm confident and still get hollered at now even tho married but the quality is
and that is being niceI've been married more than once and saw that change in game in first marriage thru my friends and Co workers and now it's way worse
It use to be guys had the power then it became girls got the power and then some
True Blue Moon
Superstar
Devil's Advocate time though, breh. Did you bring up the "I'm not looking for anything serious" conversation, or did she? Even though in your head it's just honest small talk, if you brought it up, you were the one that took it from fun and in the moment to a serious discussion
And women are intuitive feelers, so it's possible that she correctly read your vibe that you're not over the chick yet.
I could be completely off base, so take that for whatever it's worth. But I can't stress enough how useless it is for brehs to continuously chalk things up to women being crazy or flakey. That has its place, but there's no lesson there. We have the control.
Nothing kills the fun, new energy more than a serious talk. There'll be plenty of time for that once y'all have developed a rapport.
Yeah man, I didn't even get into depth I just said May
Devil's Advocate time though, breh. Did you bring up the "I'm not looking for anything serious" conversation, or did she? Even though in your head it's just honest small talk, if you brought it up, you were the one that took it from fun and in the moment to a serious discussion
And women are intuitive feelers, so it's possible that she correctly read your vibe that you're not over the chick yet.
I could be completely off base, so take that for whatever it's worth. But I can't stress enough how useless it is for brehs to continuously chalk things up to women being crazy or flakey. That has its place, but there's no lesson there. We have the control.
Nothing kills the fun, new energy more than a serious talk. There'll be plenty of time for that once y'all have developed a rapport.
I said from the beginning as soon as she gave me her number. That I'm not looking for anything, I don't want to lead her on but I have no issue with hanging out etc., and she said she was cool with it.
im like a newb again, need to bridle my tongue and just go with it
My ego is saying I should be laid up with something I like this fall/winter. Reality says keep building 