Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Shadow King]

I feel you, I felt the same til I got an entry level gig in a field I'm passionate about. I got to keep my ego in check though. I'm cooking at a bar with dime bartenders and customers in the city.


Stay low and build breh, you'll look back at all the fukkery and laugh at it.

Possibly though I truly do think the older I get without experiencing a fling the steeper the learning curve will be. Not a series of one night stands I'm not attractive enough to pull anyway. Not some 30-month intense love rollercoaster. Just a fukking 6 month flame.

I guess the blessing is that nikkas around me are having babies so as long as women aren't touching me I'm not joining the baby mama epidemic anytime soon.

 

[Alfred0Santana]

bytches these days really get mad if you don't show them off on the gram immediately. Lol. I be like, for what? So that another nikka can plot on your bytch? While there's nothing wrong with showing off, shyt does have consequences if not handled correctly. It goes for the nikkas too...

You ain't lying lol. These broads be thirsty as hell to put a nikka on they snap or IG. Especially these young chicks. They just be wanting somebody to see they ass. shyt is corny.

 

[Nuke Dukem]

What's the correct way of asking a bytch if she's trying to fuk with you or not...

Now I've dealt with the two types

1.) Is really feeling you, blows up your phone... constantly trying to make dates etc

2.) Not feeling you at all, leaves you on read , always hits you with a "maybe, I'll see" when you ask em to kick it...

But what about the 3rd type who's in the middle..?

I have one that says flirty shyt, n ask why I don't text her when I go over a day without doing it... But at the same time really ain't on shyt when I'm texting/talking with her (if that makes sense)


So what's the correct way to say " Are you trying to fukk with me or nah...?"

 

[TRUEST]

What's the correct way of asking a bytch if she's trying to fuk with you or not...

Now I've dealt with the two types

1.) Is really feeling you, blows up your phone... constantly trying to make dates etc

2.) Not feeling you at all, leaves you on read , always hits you with a "maybe, I'll see" when you ask em to kick it...

But what about the 3rd type who's in the middle..?

I have one that says flirty shyt, n ask why I don't text her when I go over a day without doing it... But at the same time really ain't on shyt when I'm texting/talking with her (if that makes sense)


So what's the correct way to say " Are you trying to fukk with me or nah...?"

Come over, grab some bottles of beer on ur way

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

You ain't lying lol. These broads be thirsty as hell to put a nikka on they snap or IG. Especially these young chicks. They just be wanting somebody to see they ass. shyt is corny.

They want to be seen just so that they can have something to talk about to their Co workers, friends and etc...it's like if they're not in a relationship, they're the ones envious of others...then they get a new nikka, get stuck in that infacination stage and wanna make it seem her relationship better than her peers...

These Hoes just want to keep up with society...rather than make decisions for self....and that has a price....

 

[Chef]

Possibly though I truly do think the older I get without experiencing a fling the steeper the learning curve will be. Not a series of one night stands I'm not attractive enough to pull anyway. Not some 30-month intense love rollercoaster. Just a fukking 6 month flame.

I guess the blessing is that nikkas around me are having babies so as long as women aren't touching me I'm not joining the baby mama epidemic anytime soon.

I had similar thoughts, I felt like I would screw myself over with that thinking. I just try talk to ladies at the market and comment about the food, etc and keep it pushing. If they bite, they bite and they don't -

 

[Data-Hawk]

u dont have to believe water is wet my friend. it is what it is. if it was that simple, this thread wouldnt be this long. im gonna presume ur probably a teenager or ur no more than 24 years old. but thats ok. u will learn, whether u like it or not.

theres nothing wrong with liking a woman a lot. but when u find urself consumed by her, u are setting urself up for some serious problems. a breakup isnt just a breakup. a breakup can shatter ur life in so many ways...i.e. ur job performance takes a hit (cause u cant concentrate), u descend into very destructive behavior (drinking, drugs...etc), which leads to jealousy, anger, which can then lead to crimes (beating up whoever ur ex is now dating, stalking). then u find out all the time and money u put into the relationship have been reduced to memories, memories that are now wrapped in sadness and sealed with regret.

youve been warned.

After what I just went through, this post hit home. My job performance suffered and a big project I was working on fail all because I couldn't concentrate because I was consumed with her, tried to give her the world etc.

But like true said you're going to learn one way or the other. I take all blame though and don't blame her. This way I won't repeat that mistake.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

After what I just went through, this post hit home. My job performance suffered and a big project I was working on fail all because I couldn't concentrate because I was consumed with her, tried to give her the world etc.

But like true said you're going to learn one way or the other. I take all blame though and don't blame her. This way I won't repeat that mistake.

You have the right mindset. Taking on the blame is the only way to really internalize the lesson. Good shyt.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Possibly though I truly do think the older I get without experiencing a fling the steeper the learning curve will be. Not a series of one night stands I'm not attractive enough to pull anyway. Not some 30-month intense love rollercoaster. Just a fukking 6 month flame.

I guess the blessing is that nikkas around me are having babies so as long as women aren't touching me I'm not joining the baby mama epidemic anytime soon.

We gotta get u outta that mind set... we both gotta get out of it

 

[Shadow King]

I had similar thoughts, I felt like I would screw myself over with that thinking. I just try talk to ladies at the market and comment about the food, etc and keep it pushing. If they bite, they bite and they don't -

How old are you breh?

We gotta get u outta that mind set... we both gotta get out of it

What mind set? That I can't be 28, 29, 30 just starting to attempt to manage relatively light dating situations? I'm not that age yet but that's the truth. The older you get, the higher the bar is set.

And you're not in the same place I am breh you talking about completing rosters

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Quick lil random thought... For as much grief as guys get about not being ready/serious when it comes time, a lot of these women aren't either.

I met my last two girlfriends at a point where I was ready to settle down and wife someone up. I came into it with that mindset and laid out the vision. Both of them were too immature at that point to go further. And these are 28 year old educated women I'm talking about. It's kinda funny.

And what I mean by immature is that they both were selfish and way too caught up in trivial things in life to understand that compromise is necessary for them to get the dream marriage they want.

 

[Deafheaven]

Soooo uhhh brehs I would strongly advise against dating any chick on that feminist shyt Ive had my last foray with that shyt. No matter how bad they are I can do it again

 

[NerdNash]

Finally over my ex brehs. Took me 2 stressful years......posts in here, got arrested, begged, pleaded, etc.........woooooooooooo it feels good. New women in my life, traveling, money back right, working out.


let her go my brehs .

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

u dont have to believe water is wet my friend. it is what it is. if it was that simple, this thread wouldnt be this long. im gonna presume ur probably a teenager or ur no more than 24 years old. but thats ok. u will learn, whether u like it or not.

theres nothing wrong with liking a woman a lot. but when u find urself consumed by her, u are setting urself up for some serious problems. a breakup isnt just a breakup. a breakup can shatter ur life in so many ways...i.e. ur job performance takes a hit (cause u cant concentrate), u descend into very destructive behavior (drinking, drugs...etc), which leads to jealousy, anger, which can then lead to crimes (beating up whoever ur ex is now dating, stalking). then u find out all the time and money u put into the relationship have been reduced to memories, memories that are now wrapped in sadness and sealed with regret.

youve been warned.

I'm completely co-signing TRU on this one.

nikkaz these days get sprung TOO quick in the early stages. They'll THINK they have the right woman, even if that bytch had a very slutty past. But, they won't even question that because, they're already investing $ on their girls nails, hair, food, bills and who knows what else in order to smash. nikkaz start becoming over-protective on social media, comment more than once on her pics....and start flipping out if they see another nikka commenting on their girls page.

It's all gravy when the girl and dude both rock with each other (AT THE TIME).....but, nikkaz NEVER prepare themselves when the nikka is doing more of the liking than the girl is doing.....when that shift of energy happens (for whatever reason), it's clear the nikka is no longer needed (in her eyes)....then they'll rinse, wash, repeat and look for the next nikka...In the end, the GIRL is going to continue to do her with zero fukks given.....meanwhile, the nikka is hurt and can't even function in society correctly because of the heart break....that's how it always is.

A woman is going to do what she's going to do. Even WHEN she's with a nikka. That should already tell men something. How do I know this? My parents are going on 32 years of marriage and never had no problems. They may have disagreed on some shyt, but they still stayed committed to each other, never had extra-marital shyt going on. I don't see NONE of these broads making it to no 32 in todays age....

 

[MaxPain]

The streets need that guide on " what to do when your girlfriend finds out you cheated" @Hennessypapi

This one wont last long but basically if u are caught red handed with sending nudes or in the act just be as cold as u can be. What do I mean by that? If u have no other possible way of finessing the situation then with as shameless as possible with a straight face say u cheated , it happened, and what does she want to do (dont apologize or say sorry though). 9/10 she will stay with u. Just keep ur eyes on the swivel though afterwards


If she only caught u halfway like found some panties or texts of u talking to another girl or any other slight ways of finding out ur cheating then gas light her. Make her think shes crazy, tell her shes imagining things. Flip it on her.Are u cheating urself? Why are u going thru my stuff? Why are u so insecure? What are u doing behind my back that u feel the need to check up on me? Basically be a spin artist. Everything she accuses u of accuse her back and play victim. "idk why i put up with ur insecurity so much, its turning me off". Threaten to break up with her.Ive legit had exes beleive every word I said and hustled my way out that situation. Its demonic but it works. Suprisingly alot of women who go looking to find out ur cheating are cheating themselves so there a chance shes not shyt herself. Keep ur eyes peeled

If ur a good dude though just admit to it, apolgize and break up with her. Or dont do it at all.Call it a day.


U need to actively be working towards NEVER gettin caught, or just not cheating at all. Thats in Cheating For Dummies