Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Now you know in case there's a next time, never beg or plead for someone to want to be with you

Finally over my ex brehs. Took me 2 stressful years......posts in here, got arrested, begged, pleaded, etc.........woooooooooooo it feels good. New women in my life, traveling, money back right, working out.


let her go my brehs .
 

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Many women of today want perfection, which doesn't exist.




Quick lil random thought... For as much grief as guys get about not being ready/serious when it comes time, a lot of these women aren't either.

I met my last two girlfriends at a point where I was ready to settle down and wife someone up. I came into it with that mindset and laid out the vision. Both of them were too immature at that point to go further. And these are 28 year old educated women I'm talking about. It's kinda funny.

And what I mean by immature is that they both were selfish and way too caught up in trivial things in life to understand that compromise is necessary for them to get the dream marriage they want.
 

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I told my ex don't add me on Snapchat. She said she wants to do it so she can send pics of the kids.

Next thing I know is she looking at my story. Now i gotta put this shyt on friends only

IF she wants to send photos of the kids she can use whatsapp
I'd rather not have a chick im dating or even a ex on social media, you'll find yourself clicking on all their likes or their friends and many use it for jealously tactics
 

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How do you deal with stuff like this brehs? :patrice:

Had drinks with this girl on Monday. Prior to that we were hitting it off and extremely flirty before meeting. During it we did the normal icebreaker stuff and asked questions.

Later that night she said that I was nervous during our date. I explained myself (too much) that I wasn't and any sort of nervousness is normal meeting someone with romantic intent.

We texted a little but she stopped Tuesday. She texts me this afternoon. I haven't texted her back. Should I even bother with her mind games? She's attractive and I thought we had in commin, but I could be wrong.
it aint mind games famo...she's actually giving you the game like @TRUEST said.

women translate nervousness to you placing them on a higher value than they are - a one way ticket to "oh we should just be friends" or "ive just been so busy with work and school"

if youre that fukkin nervous around her, jack off before you go on the date. lol :dame:
iceberg slim said he used to do it before he would go and meet with his roster. he said he couldnt be focused on layin game down being too sexually aroused.

take a shot of remy, meditate, chant some mantras, do whatever you gotta do to kill the nervousness. remember that this chick bleeds once a month...farts and shyts...and her bathroom might stank like a fish market. she breathes the same air as you do breh!

most girls dont give you a second chance. you got this breh...dont fukk it up!
 

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IF she wants to send photos of the kids she can use whatsapp
I'd rather not have a chick im dating or even a ex on social media, you'll find yourself clicking on all their likes or their friends and many use it for jealously tactics


Thing is I told her this. Even when we was together we didn't follow each other on social media. She can easily send me texts with video's and pics.

I just found it funny that she added me then started watching my story soon after

I've decided to tell her to remove me from Snapchat
 

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Stop telling these damn women what they wanna hear
Tell them what they need to hear and u can do it respectfully also

Random girl ask me if I think she fat cuz guys say I'm thick
Told her you are overweight but at same time accept yourself for who u are and work on doing better for your health and yourself not just to please some damn dude
U ain't gotta have the perfect body but being healthy is important too u and whoever ur with in the future


Needless to say she took that as :noah:
And real quickly started to holler at me told her im giving u advice not hollering at u don't get it twisted:camby:
Somebody had to keep it 100 with u and not keep giving u this false narrative of being something your not and correct ur head put u on right path

I do same shyt too my wife and kids tell em what they need to hear not what they wanna hear

Except kids at certain age bout Santa and other kiddy shyt tho :whew:
 

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Chick I hung out with today was chill. Sexy as hell. We went to this pool/spring area and she joked saying "You get to see me with no makeup and bikini to see what I really look like!"

The thing is she is going through a divorce right now and she is probably emotionally everywhere. Even today she decided to dip out because of something she had to deal with.

I noticed that she had some small scars, therefore she used to be into cutting herself so she probably had issues early on. She seemed very funny and outgoing around me though.

I like her but she may be emotionally unavailable. Her friend told me to hang out with her more so I will do just that from time to time.
 
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since I've been on a date with this chick... women are suddenly giving me play:francis: pawgs were trying to get at me at an event but i was actually like:hubie: I ain't say no I just didn't play their games

it's like pheromones really exist

if they can smell that you haven't been around a female they get put off

shyt is the same with employment I got more interviews after and during my last job
 

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since I've been on a date with this chick... women are suddenly giving me play:francis: pawgs were trying to get at me at an event but i was actually like:hubie: I ain't say no I just didn't play their games

it's like pheromones really exist

if they can smell that you haven't been around a female they get put off

shyt is the same with employment I got more interviews after and during my last job

its desperation. when ur on a job interview and dont already have a job, and u live on ur own, u are nervous as sh1t. u may not think ur giving away any nervous signals, but ur lips may be quivering, ur eyes twitching. for someone looking directly at u, these signals are clear. u can mask ur nervousness or timidity next time with alcohol and weed. these two substances will numb those involuntary movements that often kick into effect when ur under duress. dont abuse them though.

when it comes to women. when u got chicks already lined up. u are already in a place of abundance. the aforementioned sense of lack will not cause any nervousness because when push comes to shove, at the end of the date, u know u got other chicks lined up. really with women, they like to be free. so if a girl senses a guy can take it or leave it, then to her, that means she can fucck with him freely and he wont trying to clip her wings.
 

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Had a dope ass weekend chilling in Sao Miguel. It's the largest island in The Azores. Rolling solo as usual. I ended up meeting a group of older black women when I was out having dinner on Saturday night. They were inside at the bar and peeped me when I came inside to talk to the host about getting a table outside.

They came out and asked if they could sit with me. We end up all kicking it and having a good time together for the rest of the night. They were shocked to find out I was 30. Said they thought I was much older based on how I carried myself.

Make sure you guys are getting out there and experiencing life. Don't get discouraged if you have to roll somewhere solo. If you're confident and comfortable in your own skin, women will sense that and eat it up. Leave that nervous bullshyt for the lames.
 

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Chick I hung out with today was chill. Sexy as hell. We went to this pool/spring area and she joked saying "You get to see me with no makeup and bikini to see what I really look like!"

The thing is she is going through a divorce right now and she is probably emotionally everywhere. Even today she decided to dip out because of something she had to deal with.

I noticed that she had some small scars, therefore she used to be into cutting herself so she probably had issues early on. She seemed very funny and outgoing around me though.

I like her but she may be emotionally unavailable. Her friend told me to hang out with her more so I will do just that from time to time.


Man, this screams danger....
 

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Chick I hung out with today was chill. Sexy as hell. We went to this pool/spring area and she joked saying "You get to see me with no makeup and bikini to see what I really look like!"

The thing is she is going through a divorce right now and she is probably emotionally everywhere. Even today she decided to dip out because of something she had to deal with.

I noticed that she had some small scars, therefore she used to be into cutting herself so she probably had issues early on. She seemed very funny and outgoing around me though.

I like her but she may be emotionally unavailable. Her friend told me to hang out with her more so I will do just that from time to time.

Cutting herself :patrice:
 

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For an example of how soft men have become peep that 30 year old bachelor thread. A single 30 year old man that has achieved any modicum of success and kept up his physical appearance literally holds his destiny in the palm of his hands and you got dudes scared of their own potential. Rushing to give it away to the first bidder. Sad as fukk.
 
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