Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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For real man. I've never seen a group of men that were afraid of life at 30 being single. I feel like women have successfully projected their own insecurities of them becoming less valuable at the age of 30 onto men. At 33 I feel like I'm in the prime of my life. Living life well doing my thing dolo and stacking my bread. If a woman comes along cool. If not, I'll find something to do.

It's not for everybody, but rolling dolo is underrated around these parts. Back when I was rolling with my crew or hugged up under a chick, I never had the freedom to maneuver around like I do now. Now that I'm dolo it's like being a king on a chess board with every square available.

Most brehs are scared of being single at 30+ because of the quality of single women available at that age, (single mothers, women with baggage etc). Most brehs desire to marry a woman free of baggage
 
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im 32 and im literally the best I've ever been in my life, making the most money I ever made, in the best shape of my life, no kids

When my pops was 32 he ain't have no kids.....when I was born, he was 35 and my momz was 39. You got the right mindstate. Don't let nobody tell you otherwise.
 

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Most brehs are scared of being single at 30+ because of the quality of single women available at that age, (single mothers, women with baggage etc). Most brehs desire to marry a woman free of baggage

even in your 30s you can get with a woman in her twenties.

I'm 32 and i'd have zero issue dating a 25 year old nor would it be hard

more single childless women at any age than ever before, and for me personally some of the most messed up women I've been with was when I was in my early to mid twenties, you can find a good woman at any age and you can also find a horrible one at any age.

And lets be real every woman has baggage and so does every man, now theres a big difference from a carry on and 2 checked luggages.
 

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Most brehs are scared of being single at 30+ because of the quality of single women available at that age, (single mothers, women with baggage etc). Most brehs desire to marry a woman free of baggage



Being single at 30 as a man is different than being single at 30 as a woman. Personally I find women above the age of 32 to be off-putting. They're too focused on trying to score that 99 yd hail mary TD (marriage) instead of taking their time by getting down the field with a few first downs.

Men don't have that problem. The greatest gift a man can ever give to a woman is his commitment. It's not until after 30 women realize this and also realize they have taken that said commitment for granted. That's why I don't feel sorry for any single women in their 30's. They had their chance. Why should I as a man give a woman the best years of my life when she wouldn't give me the best years of hers?
 

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I went to Cuba this summer and I didn't want to come back to the states.

breh its wonderful, the people are so friendly, its so safe, people have literally nothing and are so happy. Come back to the west and people complain over the most worthless crap

cuba is wonderful
 

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Being single at 30 as a man is different than being single at 30 as a woman. Personally I find women above the age of 32 to be off-putting. They're too focused on trying to score that 99 yd hail mary TD (marriage) instead of taking their time by getting down the field with a few first downs.

Men don't have that problem. The greatest gift a man can ever give to a woman is his commitment. It's not until after 30 women realize this and also realize they have taken that said commitment for granted. That's why I don't feel sorry for any single women in their 30's. They had their chance. Why should I as a man give a woman the best years of my life when she wouldn't give me the best years of hers?

:damn:
 

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Most brehs are scared of being single at 30+ because of the quality of single women available at that age, (single mothers, women with baggage etc). Most brehs desire to marry a woman free of baggage
Imma be 35 ficking with college chicks fukk societalnorms. Im not settling for shyt
 

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Being single at 30 as a man is different than being single at 30 as a woman. Personally I find women above the age of 32 to be off-putting. They're too focused on trying to score that 99 yd hail mary TD (marriage) instead of taking their time by getting down the field with a few first downs.

Men don't have that problem. The greatest gift a man can ever give to a woman is his commitment. It's not until after 30 women realize this and also realize they have taken that said commitment for granted. That's why I don't feel sorry for any single women in their 30's. They had their chance. Why should I as a man give a woman the best years of my life when she wouldn't give me the best years of hers?

No lies have been told. This is Gospel.
 

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This is my first heartbreak. And this thing is hurting as a mother******.

Plus, I'm the one who initiate the break up. I'm literally paralyzed : I can't work, go out, nothing.

A brother is suffering.
 

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This is my first heartbreak. And this thing is hurting as a mother******.

Plus, I'm the one who initiate the break up. I'm literally paralyzed : I can't work, go out, nothing.

A brother is suffering.

Why did you break up with her?

It'll past, just go no contact ad the guilt will subside
 

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Why did you break up with her?

It'll past, just go no contact ad the guilt will subside

I'm 29 and I want to settle down and even if I love her, I don't think she's the one. We have a lot of differences, from racial background to the way we see marriage. Even though we're enjoying ourselves right now, things will go south at some point. Knowing that, I started feeling guilty because she's 30 and she needs to be with someone who will marry her. So I decided to let her go. She's hurt and I'm hurt. But I wanted to do it now rather than in a year. I can't waste her time. I feel guilty because I knew this before entering in the relationship with her and she's been hurt in her previous relationships. But that thing was so sudden. We used to hang out a lot and one day we caught feelings.
 

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Being single at 30 as a man is different than being single at 30 as a woman. Personally I find women above the age of 32 to be off-putting. They're too focused on trying to score that 99 yd hail mary TD (marriage) instead of taking their time by getting down the field with a few first downs.

Men don't have that problem. The greatest gift a man can ever give to a woman is his commitment. It's not until after 30 women realize this and also realize they have taken that said commitment for granted. That's why I don't feel sorry for any single women in their 30's. They had their chance. Why should I as a man give a woman the best years of my life when she wouldn't give me the best years of hers?
:ehh:


This is really thought provoking.

A man that gives a woman his 30's is def giving her the prime of his live. Where as a woman is in her prime around in her 20's to early 30's.
 

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I'm 29 and I want to settle down and even if I love her, I don't think she's the one. We have a lot of differences, from racial background to the way we see marriage. Even though we're enjoying ourselves right now, things will go south at some point. Knowing that, I started feeling guilty because she's 30 and she needs to be with someone who will marry her. So I let her go. She's hurt and I'm hurt. But i wanted to do it now rather than in a year. I can't waste her time. I feel guilty because I knew this before entering in the relationship with her. But that thing was so sudden. We used t hang out a lot and one day we caught feelings.


As cheesy as it sounds "true love" conquers all of what your stressing over. However it doesn't mean that it would be a healthy or happy relationship. You probably made the best choice, the best advice I can give you is give yourself some time and its going to take time...probably a lot of it. Don't rush into anything else.


I also fine that people that break up with people they are happy with tend to usually have other reasons in the back of there heads that push them to do it. (Age difference, they feel they can do better, bored, or just want space)
 
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