Thats a intrinsic problem that shouldn't be solved by a external solution. If you like having a bunch of women around because you like to fukk a variety of things on a whim cool. but if its because you scared to be alone for a bit when the one youre dating leaves that's weakness not strength to me. this is just my opinion ofc. As long as you don't want a woman more than she wants you you can never be too torn up when she decides to leave. the heartbreak comes when you paint fairytale pictures in your head that this is the one and she'll never leave etc. I've come to the realization for the most part that it aint never your girl really, its just your turn. If she wanted to she could go to the club one night and leave with 18 suitors if she is at least decently attractive. If she wants to stay let her, if not oh well. nikkas would lose they brain cells if they have a endless supply of puss on demand and yet expect women to curtail their desires forever because we don't live the world they do.
tldr. have a roster if you like variety, or are polyamorous. Don't have one to supplicate the empty spot you have when you have no woman in your life. go make some money. get a hobby. anything. you miss a bus another one comes in time. sure you can have lyft, uber, a taxi, and your nikka on speed dial to pick you up but is all that effort really worth it when you know another bus is right around the corner thats probably nicer than the one you was gonna catch anyway![]()
Sorry Im verbose sometimesYou know you basically just gave a more in depth breakdown of the same thing I said right? Lol. I agree 100%.
All these old feelings came back and now I'm depressed
I'm a damned fool
Other women, money and material shyt don't do anything to help missing a muthafukka
this embarrassing but fukk it.
When we were dating she hit me up and told me some dude approached her and she told em she was taken.. Now breh i didn't know she took the nikka number. So she finally admitted that her new "female friend" was actually a dude. And she slept with this dude.
Her explanation was " we got drunk at his place and my back was hurting so i layed down.. And he kissed me"
And whats crazy we been day ones for 5 years beforehand and i stayed loyal to her by dropping my roster![]()
where are the dumb dudes in this thread who were against checking up on their girl? u coulda saved urself the pain ur feeling right now if u had checked up on her.
guys need to understand, if a girl tells u about the men who are approaching her - dont be deluded into believing that's a good thing - its not. its actually a very bad thing. thats her way of numbing ur spider senses so u believe shes out there shutting down guys for u.
THIS. Always have a roster so you can drop her dumb ass.
Being single at 30 as a man is different than being single at 30 as a woman. Personally I find women above the age of 32 to be off-putting. They're too focused on trying to score that 99 yd hail mary TD (marriage) instead of taking their time by getting down the field with a few first downs.
Men don't have that problem. The greatest gift a man can ever give to a woman is his commitment. It's not until after 30 women realize this and also realize they have taken that said commitment for granted. That's why I don't feel sorry for any single women in their 30's. They had their chance. Why should I as a man give a woman the best years of my life when she wouldn't give me the best years of hers?
where are the dumb dudes in this thread who were against checking up on their girl? u coulda saved urself the pain ur feeling right now if u had checked up on her.
guys need to understand, if a girl tells u about the men who are approaching her - dont be deluded into believing that's a good thing - its not. its actually a very bad thing. thats her way of numbing ur spider senses so u believe shes out there shutting down guys for u.
this embarrassing but fukk it.
When we were dating she hit me up and told me some dude approached her and she told em she was taken.. Now breh i didn't know she took the nikka number. So she finally admitted that her new "female friend" was actually a dude. And she slept with this dude.
Her explanation was " we got drunk at his place and my back was hurting so i layed down.. And he kissed me"
And whats crazy we been day ones for 5 years beforehand and i stayed loyal to her by dropping my roster![]()
this embarrassing but fukk it.
When we were dating she hit me up and told me some dude approached her and she told em she was taken.. Now breh i didn't know she took the nikka number. So she finally admitted that her new "female friend" was actually a dude. And she slept with this dude.
Her explanation was " we got drunk at his place and my back was hurting so i layed down.. And he kissed me"
And whats crazy we been day ones for 5 years beforehand and i stayed loyal to her by dropping my roster![]()