Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mister_DoItNice]

I dont, I needed someone to put their foot in my ass and be blatant bc it's the first time I've went through a breakup like this.

Okay, I'll accept that and move forward. How do I ease the hurt and stuff though? Just accept it and it'll pass?

Yes, accept that things are over. You can’t just flip a switch and be good to go obviously but you can shift your focus. Make yourself the best version of you possible. Whatever areas you feel can be worked on, attack them. And if you see another shorty anywhere that intrigues you, go after her. It doesn’t necessarily need to be you pursuing a relationship but just establishing a connection can be enough to change your outlook on things. You’ll come out of this a much better man. Don’t stress.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Yes, accept that things are over. You can’t just flip a switch and be good to go obviously but you can shift your focus. Make yourself the best version of you possible. Whatever areas you feel can be worked on, attack them. And if you see another shorty anywhere that intrigues you, go after her. It doesn’t necessarily need to be you pursuing a relationship but just establishing a connection can be enough to change your outlook on things. You’ll come out of this a much better man. Don’t stress.

That's true, I do need to run some bands up and I still have been thinking about switching my major to nursing...I just can't imagine a job at a desk.

And there is ole girl in my apartment the med student I said what's up to yesterday. And I do live alone, with my dog

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Most women you date/talk will either complain about their ex,tell you about their trust issues,talk about boring topics (celebrity gossip),be on social media all day.Just sit back and noticed their behavior

 

[Deafheaven]

Most women you date/talk will either complain about their ex,tell you about their trust issues,talk about boring topics (celebrity gossip),be on social media all day.Just sit back and noticed their behavior

sadly very true. A lot of women are utter narcissists. which in itself isn't the worst thing but when combined with their lack of interesting qualities outside of their appearance it becomes draining dealing with a lot of them.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

I’ve said most are more trouble than they’re worth but... what’s the alternative? I just don’t take any interaction I have with them too seriously anymore. It has helped my sanity remain intact.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

sadly very true. A lot of women are utter narcissists. which in itself isn't the worst thing but when combined with their lack of interesting qualities outside of their appearance it becomes draining dealing with a lot of them.

That's thing a pretty face can fool you but once you get to the personality and core your like

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Got a girl from my class Snapchat today. Talked with her on the way out of class. Asked for it. Snapped her like 3 mins later lol. Convo with her for a little. Fell asleep n woke up to her following me on the gram out of nowhere.


IMO she don't look like the type of girl to be down to take the D which means aka she down to take the D. From my experience its always the ones u never expect taking it the most leaving u like damn I thought u was innocent.


And since I feel like she down to smash there is no reason to act extra or act any other different way than I have been about her or try to impress her with my hobbies or what not..


The thing about dudes talking themselves out of p*ssy is so fukking true. Females be down to smash meanwhile we talk to much or do to much not realizing she's already down then it makes her ssy I'm not fufkiny this dude lol.

 

[DamienWayne]

Got a girl from my class Snapchat today. Talked with her on the way out of class. Asked for it. Snapped her like 3 mins later lol. Convo with her for a little. Fell asleep n woke up to her following me on the gram out of nowhere.


IMO she don't look like the type of girl to be down to take the D which means aka she down to take the D. From my experience its always the ones u never expect taking it the most leaving u like damn I thought u was innocent.


And since I feel like she down to smash there is no reason to act extra or act any other different way than I have been about her or try to impress her with my hobbies or what not..


The thing about dudes talking themselves out of p*ssy is so fukking true. Females be down to smash meanwhile we talk to much or do to much not realizing she's already down then it makes her ssy I'm not fufkiny this dude lol.

Very tru , talked to a girl for three months, when I finally smashed she said she was ready to smash on date two and was wondering why I hadn't made a move, she was beginning to assume I didn't like her. Mind u on date two she did nothing but drink her coffee and look look at me

 

[360dagod]

This semem retention stuff might have some legs to it...

 

[True Blue Moon]

This semem retention stuff might have some legs to it...

It's most definitely the truth. Speak on it for the thread breh.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Tomorrow is shoot your shot Fridays!, let’s end the last day of summer by shooting that muthafuking shot

Stop staring at the girl my G, find out whether she wants to kick it or not .

Go into the weekend with some confidence, win or lose

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Very tru , talked to a girl for three months, when I finally smashed she said she was ready to smash on date two and was wondering why I hadn't made a move, she was beginning to assume I didn't like her. Mind u on date two she did nothing but drink her coffee and look look at me

Yup. The only reason why we do that is because girls have always told us they want to take things slow which is never really been true. If she really feeling a dude she down for the cause.

I also feel like there is so much negativity towards a male going out trying to smash some females nowadays like you can get clowned on social media, you could get in trouble, you got male feminist saying how u approach a chick is wrong, then you got people In general throwing insults at a dude looking at a chick just for sex and nothing else.

With all that shyt balled up dudes be putting themselves in friend zones or waiting for the right opportunity forever instead of just shooting their shyt.

 

[sheedteef]

Yup. The only reason why we do that is because girls have always told us they want to take things slow which is never really been true. If she really feeling a dude she down for the cause.

I also feel like there is so much negativity towards a male going out trying to smash some females nowadays like you can get clowned on social media, you could get in trouble, you got male feminist saying how u approach a chick is wrong, then you got people In general throwing insults at a dude looking at a chick just for sex and nothing else.

With all that shyt balled up dudes be putting themselves in friend zones or waiting for the right opportunity forever instead of just shooting their shyt.

eggfukkingsacly! steph curry approach. There's 1.4 million people in my city. Half of them are women that I'm sure would like to see what's up if you got that confidence and something going for yourself

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

eggfukkingsacly! steph curry approach. There's 1.4 million people in my city. Half of them are women that I'm sure would like to see what's up if you got that confidence and something going for yourself

Yup just shoot that shot.

And when u shoot ur shot n miss. The cliche of its not u its them could most likely be true. Like don't start thinking negative of because one person turned u down. Like we don't know what she could be going thru. Family issues, she might be getting back with her man, she might be on her period, she might just have a disease n she protecting u.

So there's plenty fish in the sea.


And that's what makes the single lifestyle amazing when u in a big city or college town n never been a tied down person

 

[Calmye]

If a woman is in to you, she will make it easy for you.

She will make it easy for you to see her, she will make it easy for you to setup dates, she will make it easy for you to contact her, she will return your missed calls or texts as soon as she can, she will make it easy for you to have flowing conversations, she will make it easy for you to fukk her. Etc

If a woman is NOT in to you, she will make it hard for you & put up roadblocks in the hope you get it that she is not interested

She will put up roadblocks such as she is busy, she got school, her life is hectic, she will let you know, she is not feeling well, she wont return your calls, she will take hours to respond back to your texts (women always have their phone in their hand lol)

Here are examples I experienced this past year

A female I dated for few months, she came to the first date & she was sick, nose running, had a fever & a headache. She should have cancelled the date, but she later told me she didnt want to cancel, she didnt want me to think I wasnt interested. This female clearly had high interest in me.

Another female recently, I tried to set up a date to meet up, she kept on making excuses & told me she will let me know. She never did let me know. I saved my myself time & money, I could have wasted time & money only to find out she aint interested after a few dates. She had low interest or no interest at all.

Brehs its important to quickly read a womans level of interest in you. It saves you time & money before you go on numerous dates that go nowhere.

Advise every man should give his son