Crayola Coyote
Superstar
This! Women I want Im not getting. I rather be alone than get with a woman that likes me but I don't like her.
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This! Women I want Im not getting. I rather be alone than get with a woman that likes me but I don't like her.
By join clubs do you mean clubs based on hobbies/activities? If so this a lot more appealing than posting up in some location "hunting" though I need to enter hobbies for myself.dudes out here at college tryna smash the drunk thot at the bars who got tinder matches out the ass, 20 dudes messaging her, 15 dudes snapping her, she came with her guy friend and she and her friend are meeting more guy friends while other dudes planning on hollering at her at the same time.
I've took the route to join clubs with the intention of making friends from diverse backgrounds. And on top of that try to smash one of the females in those groups.
One of the groups is me and another dude then there are like 10 females.
Jackpot
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I'm surprised no one gave a thought on this but I think at the end of the day men are being thrown onto a foreign terrain when it comes to what's expected of us and what to expect from females because of this third/fourth-wave feminism. We were always cool with how the dynamic was, but women shook our little snow globe and now honestly they don't even have any consistent guideline on what they accept and don't.
I believe women are being allowed to show their true colors in some aspects but in others, act contrary to their nature to prove something to us. This is why when the "real man" or the person they perceive as hypermasculine comes through, submission occurs and their agenda becomes support and cherish him instead of finesse and draw things from him.
This isn't to say men don't participate in gaming or fukking women over but for the most part cats just want tranquility, nourishment, and to bust a nut 3-4x a week and are looking for avenues to get it, some will serial date, others will shoot 3 for 100 and juggle them.
But at the end of the day, one half of our society is obligated to old rules while the other half is given a pass to freestyle, and that half is the one that doesn't have to initiate anything or be held responsible for any situation. So the half that is held accountable, is on some "do what works" shyt because we're obligated to start, maintain, and finish things. Men just have to do what works.
Straw Hat Luffy
Veteran
Yeah clubs/activities/classes.
Of course join shyt for yourself. I'm just saying my plan is to smash some of those chicks instead of going the distance with tryna smash a drunk chick at a bar considering everyone is doing the later instead of doing what I'm doing.
because if there was no challenge, no tension, no conflict, and no potential for loss, it wouldn't feel as fulfilling. people would manufacture all these things if they weren't there.
RealAssanova
Vagitarian
i've always thought and said that. Really fukked up.
That and the girls you want seem to be the ones that come with the BS and the one's you indifferent about are the ones that want you. i think subconsciously (atleast for me) i act different around women i want then around women i don't want...even though i tend to think i don't.
and its not even eagerness or thirst....so i don't know why that shyt happens.
About the semem retention stuff...
I haven't had sex since I started it which was like a month ago...
Pretty much work/gym/home...
I think the body goes thru some changes to readjust...
shyt had me in a
mood earlier....
I feel more energetic overall..
Going to the gym def helps circle that energy into something constructive...
I haven't had sex since I started it which was like a month ago...
Pretty much work/gym/home...
I think the body goes thru some changes to readjust...
shyt had me in a
mood earlier....I feel more energetic overall..
Going to the gym def helps circle that energy into something constructive...
ZoeGod
I’m from Brooklyn a place where stars are born.
Brehs I need advise. So I'm in school in a doctorate program. I got an apartment near campus with my homeboy. We cleaned and really turned it into a nice bachelor's pad. My homeboy already got girl here in Connecticut bur he still cheats on her (
). Anyway the advise I have is how can I utilize the apartment to get broads coming over. The apartments are near the dorms. So I see alot of undergrad hunnies around campus. And homecoming is coming soon so imma stay that weekend and not go back to Brooklyn like I usually do.
And secondly my tinder profile isn't getting any hits (smh). Any advise on making it better?
). Anyway the advise I have is how can I utilize the apartment to get broads coming over. The apartments are near the dorms. So I see alot of undergrad hunnies around campus. And homecoming is coming soon so imma stay that weekend and not go back to Brooklyn like I usually do. And secondly my tinder profile isn't getting any hits (smh). Any advise on making it better?
Crayola Coyote
Superstar
i've always thought and said that. Really fukked up.
i think subconsciously (atleast for me) i act different around women i want then around women i don't want...even though i tend to think i don't.
and its not even eagerness or thirst....so i don't know why that shyt happens.
THIS. fukk that might as well be single
Crayola Coyote
Superstar
Brehs I need advise. So I'm in school in a doctorate program. I got an apartment near campus with my homeboy. We cleaned and really turned it into a nice bachelor's pad. My homeboy already got girl here in Connecticut bur he still cheats on her (
And secondly my tinder profile isn't getting any hits (smh). Any advise on making it better?
fukk tinder. Talk to the chicks on campus.
ZoeGod
I’m from Brooklyn a place where stars are born.
Another thing is all I do everyday is go to class from 8am to 430 pm. After that go to the gym from 445-555pm. Get dinner at 615 ish then hit the library to study. shyt is crazy with this program. We got tests every week (got a quiz and test this wedensday). Four test next week and midterms the week after. 
On fridays i get out at 12 but that is when i head back to NYC for the weekend. Weekends I do more studying.
With my schedule it is hindering me getting out to meet women on campus. Only free time we go out is Thursday night if we have no test and we go to bars and clubs here.
However tho imma stay on campus during homecoming weekend in 2 weeks(around midterm time but I can manage) to go to parties and events. My roomate knows the fine ass Spanish sorority here so that is a plug for parties and events and broads.
And I have another question how do I bring broads in the bars and clubs to the crib? I never was able to get a same day smash. I never had a free crib. So it was always planning to either her crib or a hotel. And this would be after 2-3 dates.
What is the secret to bring a broad over for a one night stand cuz I never was sucessful at that. Since I got the crib and my own room there is no excuses for not to get a one night stand from a broad from a bar or club or even campus. I knows it's alot I wrote but I need some advise brehs.
On fridays i get out at 12 but that is when i head back to NYC for the weekend. Weekends I do more studying.
With my schedule it is hindering me getting out to meet women on campus. Only free time we go out is Thursday night if we have no test and we go to bars and clubs here.
However tho imma stay on campus during homecoming weekend in 2 weeks(around midterm time but I can manage) to go to parties and events. My roomate knows the fine ass Spanish sorority here so that is a plug for parties and events and broads.
And I have another question how do I bring broads in the bars and clubs to the crib? I never was able to get a same day smash. I never had a free crib. So it was always planning to either her crib or a hotel. And this would be after 2-3 dates.
What is the secret to bring a broad over for a one night stand cuz I never was sucessful at that. Since I got the crib and my own room there is no excuses for not to get a one night stand from a broad from a bar or club or even campus. I knows it's alot I wrote but I need some advise brehs.
ZoeGod
I’m from Brooklyn a place where stars are born.
I hear you. I got on tinder cuz my homeboys say they be feasting on that shyt easy. So I tried tinder and soul swipe but so far nothing.
Another thing is all I do everyday is go to class from 8am to 430 pm. After that go to the gym from 445-555pm. Get dinner at 615 ish then hit the library to study. shyt is crazy with this program. We got tests every week (got a quiz and test this wedensday). Four test next week and midterms the week after.
On fridays i get out at 12 but that is when i head back to NYC for the weekend. Weekends I do more studying.
With my schedule it is hindering me getting out to meet women on campus. Only free time we go out is Thursday night if we have no test and we go to bars and clubs here.
However tho imma stay on campus during homecoming weekend in 2 weeks(around midterm time but I can manage) to go to parties and events. My roomate knows the fine ass Spanish sorority here so that is a plug for parties and events and broads.
And I have another question how do I bring broads in the bars and clubs to the crib? I never was able to get a same day smash. I never had a free crib. So it was always planning to either her crib or a hotel. And this would be after 2-3 dates.
What is the secret to bring a broad over for a one night stand cuz I never was sucessful at that. Since I got the crib and my own room there is no excuses for not to get a one night stand from a broad from a bar or club or even campus. I knows it's alot I wrote but I need some advise brehs.
Breh...these not the times for the take her to the crib after the club move..
These younger joints get wasted and can't control their liquor...
Next thing you know, she don't remember anything...
If she don't remember you the next day from the club after you take her number, that means she was too hammered during the club when you got it...
If you got a Spanish plug, then rock with that...you can do damage...
Expanding on the club and hammered women thing...
Years back, this bad Spanish joint came at me while I was headed to work in the AM...
I got the number and hit her up...
She said she didn't remember me and she was drunk when she gave me her math...i described myself and everything...she was clueless..
These women get hammered to escape reality...then when they come back to earth, they realized they whored themselves out for the night...
BE CAREFUL...
Years back, this bad Spanish joint came at me while I was headed to work in the AM...
I got the number and hit her up...
She said she didn't remember me and she was drunk when she gave me her math...i described myself and everything...she was clueless..
These women get hammered to escape reality...then when they come back to earth, they realized they whored themselves out for the night...
BE CAREFUL...
ZoeGod
I’m from Brooklyn a place where stars are born.
Also another problem I got is talking myself out of p*ssy. So I guess I should say less. Come off mysterious and say little about myself and let her talk. Smh that shyt is the worst when you do that. Any other tips to stop talking your way out of p*ssy?
youre right but it can be difficult because some girls will probe or not say much and you find yourself doing the talking. some girls wiill say you seem too calculated and not trust you lol,
with me a lot of the time its usually a misunderstanding or someone not getting my humor. my advice is to just think before you speak. thats really what it comes down to.