You gotta make her feel emotions...
BE nice one day, act like she don't exist the next day etc...
Just know what mood she in and play off that...sometimes you might have to audible and comfort her
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You gotta make her feel emotions...
BE nice one day, act like she don't exist the next day etc...
Just know what mood she in and play off that...sometimes you might have to audible and comfort her
ZoeGod
I’m from Brooklyn a place where stars are born.
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You always know the mentality of a broad when she says certain things supposedly in jest.
Is this what some females really tell themselves and each other?
When they can't get with a dude who is way out their league they need to comfort themselves with this nonsense as a defense/coping mechanism.
Word gym life is for me now. I am a bit out of shape and need to get back on point. Question is should you focus to get in shape first then go get the women. Or should you approach women while trying to get in shape?
No Black person is ugly, stop the blasphemy
Bledswole
Slappin and clowning chumps for fun.
This is an easy TLR Plat thread topic.
Word gym life is for me now. I am a bit out of shape and need to get back on point. Question is should you focus to get in shape first then go get the women. Or should you approach women while trying to get in shape?
Of course being in shape and then go getting the women is ideal,but I believe you can be in the process of getting in shape and still holla at chicks too breh
Iceson Beckford
Rich In Spirit.
Brehs I need advise. So I'm in school in a doctorate program. I got an apartment near campus with my homeboy. We cleaned and really turned it into a nice bachelor's pad. My homeboy already got girl here in Connecticut bur he still cheats on her (). Anyway the advise I have is how can I utilize the apartment to get broads coming over. The apartments are near the dorms. So I see alot of undergrad hunnies around campus. And homecoming is coming soon so imma stay that weekend and not go back to Brooklyn like I usually do.
And secondly my tinder profile isn't getting any hits (smh). Any advise on making it better?
Don't take my word as gospel but I've heard Holiday pictures and pictures with a dog help you clean up on tinder
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
These women are hilarious sometimes man. I went out on Saturday night with a few homies and saw the “open relationship” shorty out with some dude. I didn’t care at all, but when I walked in she looked like she saw a ghost. I just enjoyed my evening like I would’ve if she was there or not.
She been blowing up my messenger since trying to hit me up to come over, etc. It’s pretty amusing to me since her and I aren’t a thing anyway. I’ll keep her on ice another day since I have someone else coming through after dinner. Then I’ll readdress this threesome situation.
I give no fukks. I’m out here with nothing to lose and it feels great. 
She been blowing up my messenger since trying to hit me up to come over, etc. It’s pretty amusing to me since her and I aren’t a thing anyway. I’ll keep her on ice another day since I have someone else coming through after dinner. Then I’ll readdress this threesome situation.
I give no fukks. I’m out here with nothing to lose and it feels great. 
It's life breh, women I didn't care about I could treat like trash, never call, only meet up for sex, could cut them off for years and come back and they'd still want me but I feel nothing towards them.
i've always thought and said that. Really fukked up.That and the girls you want seem to be the ones that come with the BS and the one's you indifferent about are the ones that want you.
i think subconsciously (atleast for me) i act different around women i want then around women i don't want...even though i tend to think i don't.
and its not even eagerness or thirst....so i don't know why that shyt happens.
TheArchitect
All Star
Somewhat drawn out post, but would appreciate anyone's feedback, advice, opinion, etc....under the spoiler tag for those who can care to be bothered....
I've posted about this sometime before, but I don't think I articulated it well enough on here. You see, I'm in somewhat of a pickle concerning the opposite sex. I've pretty much gotten to the point where I'm basically trying to ask the universe to send someone my way. Why? Because I just don't see any other way.
Females left a BAAAD taste in my mouth from when I was young. I was very shy, timid, and mentally fukked up throughout childhood. To put it simple, any time I would try any type of interaction with females (romantic-wise), I'd be met with reject, ridicule, disrespect, and just bullshyt in general. I was just getting sick of being played/mistreated, then having said female on the next nikka dikk the next day while I walked the halls in depression...
The older I got, the less inclined I was towards females. When I finally reached adulthood, I really began to see the game for what it was, and had been put off completely. I "lost" my virginity eventually, but that shyt was an utter disappointment. I was just sick of the bullshyt, and sort of subconsciously talked myself out of getting at females. After about a decade or so, I finally got into my first relationshyt. I didn't even like her, I just wanted to not be alone anymore. Basically wasted almost a year with her ass....this was back in 2012....
So now, present day...Been single since said relationshyt above, and sexless. Kind of hard to explain, but it feels like my libido is beginning to catch up with me. I'm a Scorpio (for those who are into that shyt), so my sign is very sexual. It's like my soul is starving, and it's really hard for me to do anything about it. Why? It seems like the older you get, the harder it is to meet women. Especially if your 33 with no children. Most women my age are either filed with baggage, or are on some career shyt and looking for someone to put a ring on it (I AIN'T the one. I have way too much in my system, and it's gonna be a while until it's all gone...).It's like I either have to go younger or older.....
Females left a BAAAD taste in my mouth from when I was young. I was very shy, timid, and mentally fukked up throughout childhood. To put it simple, any time I would try any type of interaction with females (romantic-wise), I'd be met with reject, ridicule, disrespect, and just bullshyt in general. I was just getting sick of being played/mistreated, then having said female on the next nikka dikk the next day while I walked the halls in depression...
The older I got, the less inclined I was towards females. When I finally reached adulthood, I really began to see the game for what it was, and had been put off completely. I "lost" my virginity eventually, but that shyt was an utter disappointment. I was just sick of the bullshyt, and sort of subconsciously talked myself out of getting at females. After about a decade or so, I finally got into my first relationshyt. I didn't even like her, I just wanted to not be alone anymore. Basically wasted almost a year with her ass....this was back in 2012....
So now, present day...Been single since said relationshyt above, and sexless. Kind of hard to explain, but it feels like my libido is beginning to catch up with me. I'm a Scorpio (for those who are into that shyt), so my sign is very sexual. It's like my soul is starving, and it's really hard for me to do anything about it. Why? It seems like the older you get, the harder it is to meet women. Especially if your 33 with no children. Most women my age are either filed with baggage, or are on some career shyt and looking for someone to put a ring on it (I AIN'T the one. I have way too much in my system, and it's gonna be a while until it's all gone...).It's like I either have to go younger or older.....
Women are talkers breh you be concise, you talking will just ruin it all.
Maybe she's a ardent trump supporter, and you open your mouth when CNN is on in their background like I can't believe that idiot
Maybe she hates dogs and your opening your mouth about your bulldog
Gotta have the mindset of a breh with knowledge of the legal system whose been picked up for murder
Keep your mouth shut
Maybe she's a ardent trump supporter, and you open your mouth when CNN is on in their background like I can't believe that idiot
Maybe she hates dogs and your opening your mouth about your bulldog
Gotta have the mindset of a breh with knowledge of the legal system whose been picked up for murder
Keep your mouth shut
Actually the older you get the easier it becomes to meet women, quality? No but women in general yes.
I always say when you want something so bad that's when you never get it, you need to concentrate on other stuff and just enjoy life.
Women are everywhere, it's not like there's a famine in the land of single women in your age range.
It's your life whatever is not working and you can change do it, go to the gym, get a hobby, change your wardrobe, work on your confidence.
Regardless of what you think of yourself there is someone uglier than you, fatter than you, broker than you that has a decent girl who loves him right now.
The odds are still in your favour, there's probably like 100 million women out there that are single in your demographic and what you want? Imagine getting 100 million shots from three and you just had to hit one to win?
Some brehs get it on the first try some on the 50th, but if you quit it'll never go in right?
Keep shooting working on your form and it becomes natural.
I always say Thank God when people reject you, because it's a blessing from.God, you don't know where they would lead you
I always say when you want something so bad that's when you never get it, you need to concentrate on other stuff and just enjoy life.
Women are everywhere, it's not like there's a famine in the land of single women in your age range.
It's your life whatever is not working and you can change do it, go to the gym, get a hobby, change your wardrobe, work on your confidence.
Regardless of what you think of yourself there is someone uglier than you, fatter than you, broker than you that has a decent girl who loves him right now.
The odds are still in your favour, there's probably like 100 million women out there that are single in your demographic and what you want? Imagine getting 100 million shots from three and you just had to hit one to win?
Some brehs get it on the first try some on the 50th, but if you quit it'll never go in right?
Keep shooting working on your form and it becomes natural.
I always say Thank God when people reject you, because it's a blessing from.God, you don't know where they would lead you
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
So you’re a late bloomer. Nothing wrong with that. You’re 33, with no children. No obligations. I would say you’re doing well for yourself. What you need to do is ask yourself, what do you want? Do you just wanna knock these chicks off and collect bodies or do you want something more than that? Be honest with yourself and be honest with the women you choose to pursue. Hit the gym and make this world yours man!
TheArchitect
All Star
Yeah man, that's exactly what I've been doing. Trying to get more consistent at the gym, doing a lot more artwork, trying to get my brain right, etc. My cousin once told me after some chick rejected e (basically) "Could of been blessing. She might of brought you nothing but grief for all you know...." I always try and remind myself that the p*ssy factory is not closing anytime soon. i think what I need to do is just start putting myself in places/positions to be around more women; but at the same time I don't want to make it my main concentration. That's actually a good analogy. Plus, I'm not really that picky of dude; whatever gets the juices running is a go, no matter what color/creed/size...
I always felt there wasn't, but at the same time I always had this thing where females won't respect you or look at you crazy because of it. Like "Whats wrong with HIM, how you only had one gf and only fukked with 2 women?" Stupid shyt like that.....or they'll act like they can; but never fukk with YOU.
Basically what I want is....PRACTICE. In other words, an ACTUAL DATING LIFE. I don't even really have to juggle a bunch of females (though it's very practical to do nowadays), I could just go one at time. To put it simply, I'd like to get all (if not most) of it out of my system, and that may take a while.....
I'm not necessarily against having something more serious, but the way my life is set up, idk if it would be a good move.....
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
My man... welcome to the dark side. First things first, don’t tell these shorties anything about the amount of women you’ve been with. That can make a woman who was willing to fukk you from the jump, view you in a cute/puppylike way. That’s the exact opposite of what you want. You want to put numbers up. Nothing wrong with that at all. Like I said, be honest. It’s all practice just like you said. So go out and there and get your shot up. Don’t let rejection deter you.
You’ll actually be surprised by how many women you attract with a care free attitude. They’ll open up to you in ways you never imagined if they think you won’t judge them. They really won’t care if they know you just trying to smash.
DropTopDoc
20/20 Vision With my Buffs On
Bruh I was there, I got some sex here and there but I wasn't killing it, then I got older bruh,
first thing first, you have to figure your truths out, what you want and how you want it.
Second don't ever back up from those for nan woman. Tell women the truth, how you feel, what you want and expect.
Accept yourself, like op said it's nikkas with guts, it's ugly nikkas etc who got a beautiful girl loving his ass and would be genuinely upset if he left them. You are who you are, improve them if you want but be who you be regardless
I implore you to consume the words from Patrice O'Neal listen to them again and again and again
He talks about women logic, and their power over you is fear of rejection and if they gonna take the p*ssy away especially his 12 episodes of the black Phillip show
Next listen to hotdamnirock dude spits the truth too now some say he borrowed some of Patrice logic or swag, but that nikka had a unique approach listen to his post on dating and women
Finally get your mind sharp listen to prison logic from Romey malco one of his great quotes was you can't solve today's problems with yesterday's answers, it's 10 episodes and a few shorts, listen to them bruh
TheArchitect
All Star
Hmmmm....that makes perfect sense....
You know what, now that I think of it....I never really tried a carefree approach.....maybe I oughtta....
Rice'N Beckford
**King of ADOS**
Me and my girl been on a break since last week. 
shyt feels so good not having to call/text about bullshyt. Havent even really been thinking about her
. Ive already cheated on her like 3 weeks ago. But I always cheat on my GFs.
Trying to set up something with the same chick this weekend but, she being flakey with texts.
Im trying to build a roster up. I just dont be in the mix like that. I dont cold approach and I hit bars nshyt alone and jut never have the urge to talk to bitxches
Im 6'4, muscular with dreads and Im letting it go to waste on purpose
shyt feels so good not having to call/text about bullshyt. Havent even really been thinking about her. Ive already cheated on her like 3 weeks ago. But I always cheat on my GFs.Trying to set up something with the same chick this weekend but, she being flakey with texts.
Im trying to build a roster up. I just dont be in the mix like that. I dont cold approach and I hit bars nshyt alone and jut never have the urge to talk to bitxches
Im 6'4, muscular with dreads and Im letting it go to waste on purpose